Leo female having a hard time these days

Hi guys, Anyone else having a bad year so far? My work is unbearable and no relationships have presented themselves and I'm very nice and kind plus attractive. My coworkers are hating me and I don't know why. Sorry about the pity party but I found out my ex is seeing my friend today as well when I have been nothing but nice to him. Like I went above and beyond in that relationship and than friendship so I feel like i don't deserve any of it.

Anyone else going through it like me?

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Posted by beautifulday
Hi guys, Anyone else having a bad year so far? My work is unbearable and no relationships have presented themselves and I'm very nice and kind plus attractive. My coworkers are hating me and I don't know why. Sorry about the pity party but I found out my ex is seeing my friend today as well when I have been nothing but nice to him. Like I went above and beyond in that relationship and than friendship so I feel like i don't deserve any of it.

Anyone else going through it like me?

Your first problem is that your too nice. No one else thinks like you and won't feel obligated to return the loyalty. It doesn't matter that your nice to others, what matters is that your nice to yourself FIRST. Find out what you want in life and pursue it vigorously. Seriously take this time to focus on yourself FIRST!!!!!

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Thank you...I have been pursueing my goals for a few years but I have a hardtime being mean to people that i think are close to me. I need to STOP caring about others and be selfish.

Thank you for your post.

Mines been absolute shiiii
BUT each day is a new day.... So can't complain... 🙂
We'll get thru it guyz

Last year was garbage for me and this year I feel really chill and easy going I'm not sure why. But you are too nice. Like someone said above you need to make yourself happy first. At the beginning of the year I also felt like people weren't treating me the same way I treat them. I go above and beyond for people I care about too, it sucks when they don't return it but what I've learned is I don't NEED to always go above and beyond for people and it's OK to take your time to text back or say no to hanging out. I've been doing this and taking time for myself and pulling back a bit and it's made my friendships actually easier. Maybe you can try this (:

Posted by wagtail
Mines been absolute shiiii
BUT each day is a new day.... So can't complain... 🙂
We'll get thru it guyz

This exactly how I feel. Honestly my life been roller coaster since may 2013 lol. But I'm pushing through this shit like a beast. Everydays a new day and I knoowww there's something great in store for me having to go through what I've been through.

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Posted by wagtail
Mines been absolute shiiii
BUT each day is a new day.... So can't complain... 🙂
We'll get thru it guyz

This exactly how I feel. Honestly my life been roller coaster since may 2013 lol. But I'm pushing through this shit like a beast. Everydays a new day and I knoowww there's something great in store for me having to go through what I've been through.

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Stay strong! We'll get there! ~X~

Take a look at your numerological personal year. That typically helps in terms of figuring out where you are in the cycle and what to learn from/grow from etc. It'll work out though. Merc and Mars are both in retrograde, and when they go direct, everybody should feel a little less tense, delayed, and cranky

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Take a look at your numerological personal year. That typically helps in terms of figuring out where you are in the cycle and what to learn from/grow from etc. It'll work out though. Merc and Mars are both in retrograde, and when they go direct, everybody should feel a little less tense, delayed, and cranky

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is Moon in Leo at the mo? I've been feeling pretty good EVEN tho I've been getting shat on for a while...

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Take a look at your numerological personal year. That typically helps in terms of figuring out where you are in the cycle and what to learn from/grow from etc. It'll work out though. Merc and Mars are both in retrograde, and when they go direct, everybody should feel a little less tense, delayed, and cranky

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is Moon in Leo at the mo? I've been feeling pretty good EVEN tho I've been getting shat on for a while...

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It is! So there's that positive energy and connection -- that sense of fun, devil-be-damned attitude. I went out a bought some stuff this morning I didn't need, because I woke up and thought, "I'M WORTH!" Even though my bank account was like dear God please stop.

The personal year though is great. Just add your birth day and month together along with 2016. So for instance, if you're Aug 1, you would do 8 + 1 + 2 + 1 + 6 = 18 (1 + 8) = 9

So year nines are all about endings and wrap-ups, etc. They can be hard, because it's quite literally karma and the Universe (and math) pushing you into a new phase. Cool stuff though.

@000sillylion000
cool insight thanks! Yeah I totally get what you mean- that's awesome 🙂