Living with a Capricorn male?

I will be staying with my Cap, and would really like to get along with him.

Wondering if anyone has any dos and don'ts for living with a Cap male?

Thanks in advance!

Hi

I am living with my cap boyfriend at the moment sinds 01/05.

He is a wonderful man but not always easy to live with....but neither am i....

He likes his moments alone and i give him that. I do not call him during the day but i wait until he calls me.

When he is busy with some big deal at work , he lives in other world ( my vision of it). He is not "present" even with me sometimes....That's why i do feel alone sometimes even when he is home.

We take one day at a time and try to work things out when there is an isue.

On the other hand: he takes care of me financily and wants me to buy things if i think i need them. But i am someone who is a master in budgeding. :-)

He doensn't want his money to be spilled.

Emotionally he is very different from me. Can stay without sex for several weeks.....don't like that at all....

It is as if sometimes he forgets i am living with him. But i say it " seems".... i don't think that is his intention.

I love him very much and he love me very much too. He says it often and i do believe him.

Thank you Lindaaaatje! That was very helpful 🙂

He sounds like my Cap especially the parts about needing "alone moments". I'm planning on keeping really busy doing my own thing..maybe give him an hour and a half alone after he gets home.

Yep main thing is being mindful of that "I need some time alone mood".

And pat him on the back occasionally if he does some manly tasks around the house.

We like that.

I agree with the need of space and at all times make sure you add value to his life. As a sag, you probably have the gift of really adding joy and colour to his life - keep doing just that and limit the drama of your leo moon and you'll be fine.

Just be mindful of your own needs too. If you are going to live together, you can indeed work on being the best live-in partner you can be and to being the best version of yourself as you can be, but you still need to be you. You can wear the mask of the perfect girlfriend for a while, but that mask is bound to fall at some point and you will watch your partner wonder what the heck happened. So make sure you look at yourself and your needs too, as well as his, from the very start. I'm sure that was your intention to begin with anyway, but I wanted to say it just in case.

Congratulations and good luck! 🙂

Thank you CapTenn and HappyCapper!!!

In what ways can I add value to his life? He wants to take care of me, but I'd still like to do little things here and there.

In terms of alone time and communication, I wanted to share this scenario to illustrate. In the last 3 days, we'll be texting throughout the day as we usually do, and he'll suddenly stop without mentioning why. Knowing him as I do, I figured he was busy. Turns out he's been doing a massive cleaning of his place, throwing tons of stuff out to make space for me, and fixing a broken toilet. He didn't tell me any of this until I mentioned yesterday "you're busy". Then he told me all about it and sent pictures 🙂

I notice that Caps don't usually talk about what's going on unless asked and even then they might be quiet about it. Is this common and why do they do that?

As for me, I'm just going to be my usual self, just as busy and restless as ever. I have no earth in my chart at all. Today's the day, thanks again 🙂

"I notice that Caps don't usually talk about what's going on unless asked and even then they might be quiet about it."
The type of example you mentioned here I recognise well.

"He wants to take care of me, but I'd still like to do little things here and there."
You are very wise to do stuff yourself too. I'm sure he wants to take care of you, but I would guess that he wants you to take some initiative towards a smoother living too, whatever that may be and whether he says so or not. And I personally think that would be good for you too. If you don't grow as a person, you may get boring to yourself and to your partner too.

"In what ways can I add value to his life?"
I'm gonna leave you to think about that one - you're the one who knows him, right. There are the little things, there are the big things and then there is everything in between.

Congratulations again and good luck! 🙂

My cap would not stand a women who is very depended on him. She has to have her own life beside him. Yes he likes to take care of me financialy but otherwise he wants an independant women. And yes, everynow and then i ask him for help about little thinks or his opinion about something ( that's what most men want :-)

How do i add value to his life?
I have the same goals as he has. Be happy, make money and have fun.
I share his passion for cars, rally.
He likes to talk about that a lot rather then talk about feelings.

The other day i asked him why he can be without sex for a couple of weeks....he told me " because that's not a priority"

Thanks HappyCapper and Lindaaaatje!!

It's day 4 with my Cap. Seems like I'm the one who wants more space than him. My Aqua Rising has always made me a bit of a loner by choice, the kind that gets along with everyone at school but rarely ever goes to the parties.

At this point, just want to go with the flow 🙂

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Thanks HappyCapper and Lindaaaatje!!

It's day 4 with my Cap. Seems like I'm the one who wants more space than him. My Aqua Rising has always made me a bit of a loner by choice, the kind that gets along with everyone at school but rarely ever goes to the parties.

At this point, just want to go with the flow 🙂

Hehehe Don't worry, he'll catch up eventually. 😉