Male Sensitivity

This just crossed my mind.

Have you noticed that the men who come across as:

Really macho (aka super-badass)

and

Female Obsessed (the ones that need women pawning after them constantly)


Put on one big huge front, most of them are very insecure about many aspects of the life or they just feel that if they don't have the power of female persusasion, they aren't really a man? Not to be mistaken for men who like the attention of females -- that's completely different -- but the ones that need one than one woman at their every beckon call.

Also with being overly-macho to the point where they only think women are good for one thing.

I don't know, just a thought that came to me about 2 minutes ago ^_^.

Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
I think it's also to replace love with happiness if you're not secure in investing emotion in someone else.
Using myself as an example, when I'm stuck by myself, as myself, I'm always thinking, (people I love, why I'm not happy, the things I need to fill my soul in life and etc.) Yet, when I'm indulging in cash, cars and booze, I'm on a happier side, you pick up the people who, superficial or not, are also much happier alongside you because it just feels good and there's so much less to think about in an in-depth fashion. As a guy, when you show raw emotion, you become a push-over, hence in my last few years, I've slid over into a more douchebag-like style and staying on the surface of emotion and never going deeper. For me, when it comes to love, I constantly fuck up, anyone I deeply fall for, I distance myself from them or seem somewhat superficial to not have them get any interest in me and in turn I won't have to invest so much emotion, which in someway, if the whole case goes sour, I don't feel as much pain as if I had wholeheartedly gone plunged into the situation. But then when I realize that I still love them, I find fliughty-headed girls and fuck them, so the enjoyment of the sex sort of scrubs-away the clusterbomb of emotion when thinking of/dealing with the person who's truly of my interest.

I don't know if many people will get what I just wrote, I'm just spewing off the top of my head.
But, that's sort of how I see it.

It just works out better.

Actually, this makes perfect sense to me and I'm glad you wrote this. What you've said just added to my brain-blast I had last night. This is another element -- to replace love with happiness because you don't see or don't want to see love as happiness.

Posted by VitasXisto

Posted by cappysweetie
This just crossed my mind.

Have you noticed that the men who come across as:

Really macho (aka super-badass)

and

Female Obsessed (the ones that need women pawning after them constantly)


Put on one big huge front, most of them are very insecure about many aspects of the life or they just feel that if they don't have the power of female persusasion, they aren't really a man? Not to be mistaken for men who like the attention of females -- that's completely different -- but the ones that need one than one woman at their every beckon call.

Also with being overly-macho to the point where they only think women are good for one thing.

I don't know, just a thought that came to me about 2 minutes ago ^_^.

A bad ass is calm cool, and collective, a man who stands his ground at the face of danger and never loses his calamity. A bad ass is not someone who is emotional detached, but has emotional dominance and is aware of his weakness and strength. They don't start trouble, they embrace it and finish it, if they know they will lose a battle, they'd take an intelligent approach and not engage. Tattoos, a five o clock shadow, and muscles doesn't make me a bad ass, my personality does.

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This is the first post you've mind that I can't make a smart-ass comment towards. Good job, very, very good job. And (shockingly enough) I agree ..

Posted by scorpio_chic
^^ true.

And the same goes for females. It's so funny to see women come into the gym with earrings, a face full of makeup and smelling like they stepped out of a perfume store. They're not coming to sweat they're coming to sit pretty for the body builders. LOL

Yep, I know that environment all too well 😉 The girls that come there too "workout" and their attire looks like underwear-lite xD! I mean, I don't care but who do you think you're fooling lol!!

AND THOSE MEN! Yeah, I got infatuated with a guy from the gym once 😉 never again ....

Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
Vitas, are you threatening cappysweety?? Dude, do you know how meny friends she's got on this site, lol! You??re gonna loose, you know that right?
Or maybe you were just flirting with her, lol. I couldn't tell lmfao.

Oh no, TG. Swear, too many make me out to be so freaking controversial. They're aren't too many that like dealing with me xD!

Posted by VitasXisto

Posted by cappysweetie

Posted by VitasXisto

Posted by cappysweetie
This just crossed my mind.

Have you noticed that the men who come across as:

Really macho (aka super-badass)

and

Female Obsessed (the ones that need women pawning after them constantly)


Put on one big huge front, most of them are very insecure about many aspects of the life or they just feel that if they don't have the power of female persusasion, they aren't really a man? Not to be mistaken for men who like the attention of females -- that's completely different -- but the ones that need one than one woman at their every beckon call.

Also with being overly-macho to the point where they only think women are good for one thing.

I don't know, just a thought that came to me about 2 minutes ago ^_^.

A bad ass is calm cool, and collective, a man who stands his ground at the face of danger and never loses his calamity. A bad ass is not someone who is emotional detached, but has emotional dominance and is aware of his weakness and strength. They don't start trouble, they embrace it and finish it, if they know they will lose a battle, they'd take an intelligent approach and not engage. Tattoos, a five o clock shadow, and muscles doesn't make me a bad ass, my personality does.

This is the first post you've mind that I can't make a smart-ass comment towards. Good job, very, very good job. And (shockingly enough) I agree ..

Good lets keep it that way.

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@_@

Okay. As long as you are cool too.

im a sweat heart. all i am. all i have ever been. im prolly the sidekick to the bad ass...the guy whos all sweet and innocent. lawl.

Posted by HappyCappy
im a sweat heart. all i am. all i have ever been. im prolly the sidekick to the bad ass...the guy whos all sweet and innocent. lawl.

😄!

I love you ^_^.

Well, I shouldn't have singled out guys -- women tend to be like that too. However, the difference between women and men with this is the fact that women (from my experience) tend to become jaded alot faster and they can become highly toxic personalities to deal with. Men, tend to keep doing the deed until something goes wrong with them *down there*.

Like I said, just an observation.

A guy will become a toxic personality if he can't get the women like he use to or if he's thing goes work the way it use to work. All seems to come down to sex with them and if they can't do it anymore, it's like dealing with a monster :/

Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
Dude, what club is that?

I'll be damned .. you're Girl_In_Black ? :O

I didn't know that !

^^ Yeah, you know, I didn't even know she was Girl_In_Black until yesterday. I remember the user Girl_In_Black and I didn't know they were the same person :/

Well, I guess she came back and cookocappy but before she was Girl_In_Black.

The only reason I say that is because I remember that avatar with the woman with jet black hair -- its the black and white pic in the avatar.

That actress was a b-movie actress and it was rare to see her image but she was a bit of an icon.

It's so funny because Girl_In_Black and I seem to get along great.

However, cookocappy and I seem to clash alot and I never figured out why :/

Then it's TG, and things seem to be right in the middle between us there.

And I didn't figure out that all 3 were the same person until now reall *facepalm* How dumb I am huh 🙂

So yeah, I'm confused but whatever, maybe I'm wrong but I don't think so.

Anyway, I will still say that I thought Girl_In_Black was fab lol!!!! Like her alot

Posted by TG
LoL Cappysweetie! You??re good. But reading that made me feel wierd.. You talk about me as if I was three people, when infact I am all of those 😄

That's so funny that you liked me when I was GIB - but not as cookoocappy. I admit tho.. I was not on my best behaviour as cookoocappy, lmao, lol

Ok, Now I know ^_^.

No, I simply didn't know you (Girl_In_Black) was cookocappy. I just didn't get it until recently. That's just like Whoa.

Well, you bickered with me all the time as cookocappy 😛 We agreed to disagree alot more when you were GIB but I don't know. At least I was real about it hahaha but I didn't know you were gonna come back so soon.

Anyway, nice seeing you ^_^.

I saw that 😉

Posted by TG
CS Are you trying to say that you are the overloard—? Damn... Wtf!

yep

Posted by TG
I should have known!!!!! I really should have! And I did! Somewhere deep inside I just felt like you must be. But then you were always talking about how you have three jobs and so on ,so I just thought - no way would she be working three jobs if she really IS. I don't know why, but I guess because you??re always here and you have a host-like quality to you. Omg! You had me fooled, you really did.. wow! You think you??re in chock, imagine how I feel, I??ve been pondering for hours over this mystery, lol!

LOL! you are funny with you're rambling

Oh and I have worked 3 jobs in the past and I can quite possibly be doing the same thing in another month. Life makes you do crazy things that aren't always that crazy at the time.


Oh and everything I post in real, the only way it's not is if I openly tell you I'm lying 😉

I don't fabricate anything ^_^. But there is bias because it's from my point of view ******

Posted by TG
no way! for real?

I lied 😛

i get lots of love from sweetie so ima say i love you back. its only fair. 😆 and tg holy hell girl....3 diffrent entities in the same person...wicked 😕

an army of tgs.....oh lawdy. yes we are crazy.....normal people have no idea...

i dont work out...im too lazy. i should....*hugs tg back* yeah....we are pretty cool. Aquas cant get bored around us haha

Posted by HappyCappy
i dont work out...im too lazy. i should....*hugs tg back* yeah....we are pretty cool. Aquas cant get bored around us haha

hahahahaha, at least you are honest. I have to workout now, it keeps me sane @_@

well i use to work out some but eh....kinda stopped. to focused on work and stuff. i might go running and stuff soon

well is required for my job haha

bring the booze...its more fun lawl. and a bonfire and like awesome music.