Materialistic capricorn

If a cap guy is in shortage of money or doesn't have them at all at this moment, would it be the reason he's not asking me out? he knows that I like good stuff and if he has nothing to offer, he doesn't have confidence to ask me out?
He has talked to me about this when he said he's not dating anyone and then he said it's because he doesn't have money now. (Was that somehow a hint he was sending to me that he still wants to ask me to be his gf and it's whether I'd accept him without money?) He told me he likes me then.
I feel it might be the issue he thinks I'm dating other men who got their pockets with money. Because he often asks if I'm going out. I don't wanna bring up this problem since I'm not sure. But what are your opinions, caps?

"It would seem that he thinks YOU are materialistic, and hence he needs money to date you."

No worries, most men think this way regardless of you being a gold digger or not I've learned. Perhaps its due to past experience with high maintenance/gold diggers/ materialistic women.

Its up to you to suggest low key/less expensive dates to show him other wise.
...well thats if you arent a gold digger/materialist/high maintenance.

I have never told him that I want something from him. However I always wear good designer clothes and he never saw me dressed in sport shorts or wearing snickers, always classy and eleqant. But he has told me once that he didn't have money to take me out to the movies and wanted to take me over his friends house to meet them. I'm trying to figure out if this is the issue he's not asking me out. Because I know he likes me and views me as a girlfriend. Even though we're not yet in relationship. Would it be a good idea if I ask him out myself? Or how should I fasten him up?

I'm not a gold digger and I don't think I ever acted upon so to make him think this... But who knows... sometimes it's not what you do but how the other person views you, which sometimes might be wrong...

"sometimes it's not what you do but how the other person views you, which sometimes might be wrong..."

exactly. So you just might have to show you arent that type of lady. If you want to spend time with him suggest a walk in the park or the beach, those are free.

As I have posted in my other posts, he knows that I like going to the parks to run and he suggested me once to give him a call when I'm there. But the problem is not about that, we could even be staying in his house and watching a movie on the couch, it's that he's not asking me to be his girlfriend. It doesn't mean that if we'll become a couple, I'll be demanding him to take me to the restaurants. I don't know he just seems to be too laid back and not doing anything or at least giving me a clear sign whether he wants a relationship or no. And of course I start thinking of all possible reasons why no, maybe sleeping with him without a relationship gave him a hint that it's all I want and I'm alright with it. Or maybe that I dress in good designer clothers, when he dresses simply. However for some reason I'm hesitant to him, maybe for his emotionless personality... He's a real freak, I mean people say caps are serious but this one is the biggest freak I ever met! I love his image, but I hate his emotionless persona, it just makes me feel I'm with someone who's half way dead...

I ran out of words, didn't mean to say that he doesn't appreciate me. In fact he cares a lot of what I say and he reads every word I say, even asking to repeat. He's very charming guy and he's very warm at times, so you just wanna give him a bear hug. But then sometimes he leaves me helpless when he seems he doesn't care at all about me and like he doesn't know I like him. Sometimes I do really want to let it go and it seems I make my mind strong, even delete his number. But here he calls me again and brings the smile on me. I just hate that I can't get rid off him... that's my problem but what can I do... I've tried to meet other guys, but none of them made feel the way he does :/ ahh hope it's nothing about astrology or else I'll avoid capricorn guys for the rest of my life..

Theres not much you can do about his own insecurity. If he feels he's not monetarily where he needs to be in order to be in a relationship I dont think anything you say can change that especially for a cap.

No, I dont think sleeping with someone before a defined relationship is a great idea, but whats done is done and it just seems you'll have to work a little harder to get what you truly want from this engagement.

Just ask.

Ok. That's the answer I was looking for whether I should make a talk with him about us going out. I thought caps don't like when women push them for that. I feel inside somehow that he does want to go out and that's why we spend so little time together, because "friendship" isn't the reason that keeps us making to meet or holding on for something. I'm the one who is always quiet and waiting for him to make a move in such talks.

I understand this... hope the reason is this, rather than any other... but thanks it helped to make sure I was right whether this issue might be based on money matters..