I have not ever dated an aries man yet. But I have had a aries galfriend for years now and as we get older I find myself still having love for her, but not wanting to be around her. I know I'm not perfect, but its just always a debate, always an argument, always some drama with her. I wait for her to display some form of kindness or selflessness, but it hasn't happened. I just don't like her vibe anymore. Now cap men I have dated and they are pretty loyal and easy going for the most part. Kinda old souls. Aries and capricorn always seem to keep hooking up though, so like someone on here already said there is enough attraction to get these two rolling!
Well I'm not really like the rest of you guys who have had long term relationships with these men. My fling was very fast, record breaking! He has no reason to miss me. He doesn't even know what to miss! Also I left no doors open. I told him not to call me. But if he has any inkling of a brain and likes me as much as he said than he'd realize if I took the time to explain myself and my feelings to him then I must like him alot. Telling him not to call was a bit harsh but thats just how I was feeling at the time now I can't go back. I know if anything he's probably glad he probably thinks I'm a mean byotch for breaking it off a day before his birthday. but I did wish him a good one. I am no longer attracted to drama filled relationships! and I mean it! When he's ready to "get real" I'll be here. I'm thinking about just sending him a happy fathers day text when the time comes just to show I'm over the issues, but I'm prepared to be ignored.
I agree with you on that theory Ferdy. Passion8 I miss him and theres a part of me that wishes I'd kept my mouth closed. But it was either him or me.Hopefully one day he'll wake up but like Ferdy said he won't be contacting me. He'll just be replacing me. So I must get a replacement sooner!
Hey remember this from my first post... "I like the way taurus guy follows up, I'm not sure if its just not a subtle form of possession because one night he called while I was busy just watching a tv show and getting ready for bed. I told him I'd hit him back in 10. He sounded like Yea alright whatever. this is a man that stays up late (a self proclaimed nite person) he proclaimed in earlier conversations that he was neither a light nor heavy sleeper. Anyhoo, I called hi within 7-8 mintues and he would not pick up the phone. I know he was not sleep I called twice and left messages. The next day I got a text saying he felt "shuffled" by me last night so he went to sleep. My thing is that why did he want me to feel as bad as he did when he could have just expressed himself to me when he felt it."
Well after I got home I got a message saying "cool I won't be "shuffled" anymore." There is that word again "shuffled" I almost was afraid to read his message because something told me he was gonna come back with something arrogant. I told him "I'm not sure what that means but don't think that way, I really wanted it to work out so its not COOL with me. If you felt that way then that means you were just going through the motions, I picked up on that vibe and now I know I did the right thing. This is why a. That aries woman really tore his butt up. The story is too triffling for words, lets just say he's still going to court to this day. You know an aries will go to war! I know its hard for him to trust b. The evening I told him I would call him back he started remembering that hurt from his ex, that distrust, thinking I could be remotely like her. He sat back and watched me get frustrated with him. Instead of expressing what he felt he went in to "revenge mode" So after that I'm sure he was telling himself "don't get too close to her" Thats why the phone calls and the intimate conversations stopped, thats why no plans to spend time were being made. I can't be dealing with that. Mama knows when a man is truly interested! Don't try to keep it light and friendly when it didn't start out that way. Like I'm not supposed to know the difference. i don't need another platonic friend I need a man! I am so sorry for ranting, but I'm excited it hurts too now don't get me wrong, I know I sound tough, but it blows because I just KNEW we had some connection in the beginning. I'm gonna miss him.
Well, guys I did it. I broke it off and with good reason shoot! Wednesday he calls me as he's getting dressed says he's going to play pool thats when I told him he needed to make time for me. Thursday didn't hear from him at all. Today I texted " hey how are you" he's like hey whats up. Its friday afternoon and he is still not making any plans with me. I cannot accept this from a man that I'm trying to get to know. I'm not gonna wait around for the day of for him to make plans with me. It just shows that he's just not into me. I told him I thought he was a great guy but I'd rather be alone and lonely than feel unwanted. I told him no one is the blame. Just do not call me anymore. My feelings never lie to me I know when a guy is interested in me. He played super interested inthe beginning. Calling in the morning to say good morning. Hanging with me all weekend long. I don't wanna have to wonder if someone is gonna call. Life is short. Its better to do it now so that it doesn't hurt in the long run. Thanks for the imput guys. Back to being Ms. Lonely. sigh
you guys swear you know us. I absolutely LOVE touching and being touched. I like giving massages and just holding on to my man for no reason. My x hubby was a scorpio. My family used to be like "we know thats your girl, could you keepn your hands off her for a second?" gosh! tauro already told me he is very affectionate. Last time we were together he's got his hands in my pockets, just wants me to lay on top of him, mushing me in the face...I lOVE that! what are you guys talking about?
To see a skunk in your dream, suggests that you may be driving people away or turning people off. Alternatively, it indicates that all is calm about a certain situation but you do not necessarily like it or agree with it.
WOW! I just looked this up on a dream inpterpretation site because sat. nite me and taurus was sleeping and I had a dream of being sprayed by a skunk. I got up with my heart pounding wondering "what does this mean" I'm just gonna calm down and let the chips fall where the may. ip_freely you got anymore of those hilarious scenarios? too too funny!
I know just telling him would be best. I will try to be somewhat patient now knowing that these men are slow. My brother is a taurus and he had a good woman but he thought she wasn't going anywhere and took his time while and played the field a little and dilly dallied and this virgo woman up and left his azz lonely broken hearted crying on the phone to me about him still wanting to be with her, the kids yada yada. This is my bro and I love him but I'm thinking "you had your chance and YOU blew it"!
I can understand that however I am no waitress. I cannot wait around for him to make up his mind about me. I'd rather be free to do what I want when I want and with whom I want. I have enough male friends. What I don't have is a man. When he doesn't have his son he's working and last night after he took his son home he said he was going out to play pool!? At this point I just think we should be spending time getting to know each other. Now I tried to put a bug in his ear and tell him that he needs to make time for me. I also told him that that was extrtremely uncomfortable for me to say because I beleive people make time time for what they want. With that being said. I've made plans for the weekend with my girlfriend. I'm used to men coming hither not chasing. Sat. is his b-day. After that I will certainly know what I want to do. So again whats the best way to break up with a taurus man?
and what I really want to know is what is the best break up style for taurus. It is still early. Should I just stop calling/taking calls or should I just tell him I don't think its working out. I think he's great, but something tells me that he's holding on to me while holding out for "bigger better" and I don't do "cold and luke warm" In the beginning stages I think you should spend as much time together as possible, but we don't. he says time is not an issue to see me but he makes no plans. Friday is his birthday and he's all talking about the week like like nothings up and I can't wait around for him to make last minute plans. phoenixblaze, your right aquas are very adaptable to change...and I am ready if this taurus man does not show any passionn for me.
Well lets see Iam a female aqua and he is a male taurus. I very much appreciate his relationship/family oriented style . We are both no spring chickens and ready for something real. To me right now he is so complex because I'm not sure if he's still interested or if he just sees "friend" potential in me. How do I know if he introduces everyone to his family or not? Ya know? I just don't wanna waste time. We talk everyday but I must say that this process is slower than what I'm used to. he's not expressing any feelings to me. So I don't know how to act. But I will be patient because he is currently in a child custody battle. I totally see him as a serious relationship guy. Its either all that or nothing! Stay tuned...
wow should I bail now? I like the family oriented nature of the taurus. Well I took down my profile from the dating site. I told him that I wouldn't be willing to date someone who has an active profile on a dating site. I went to the site to see if he's still there and I saw that he took his pics down and deleted his greeting and some personal info. So thats a step! I didn't mention it to him though. Well guys from the responses I've gotten it seems that you guys don't really care for aquas. I will keep you posted and let you know if we vary from the script.
Can aqua and tauro make it? He's already talking about what we will be naming our children. I get the feeling he is definately sizing me up. I want better sex definately, Is his ego strong enough to handle my honesty.
I rarely ever read any post about taurus and aquas. Are we to eccentric for you guys? I have some questions, ok? I met this taurus man online. We hit it off and we talked alot because he was telling me about his last relationship that turned turmultuous. He told me he was looking for a serious relationship and doesn't want to play around, cool. Anyhoo we met we went to his sister's 34th birthday party. It was a different first date, but I didn't feel pressured or anything since his parents weren't there just his brothers and sisters and their dates. Next day he calls and tells me that one of his sisters said that I seemed "nice" and he wanted to ask me out again to hang out with his older sister whom I did not meet the previous night. This time we go to a club and we dance and enjoy the music. he is holding me and touching me stating "I'm very affectionate do you mind?" no. So after that we go to a quiter place and talk some more about what life what we want and what we are willing to give in relationships and I'm thinking, YES! I have found the one!He says he likes a woman to come after him and be possessive of him. said he likes "Bossy" That night out of no where he layed the most luscious kiss on me! I never enjoyed a kiss so much! Next day he calls again and says what are you doing tonite, lets watch a movie together. Why not? so he's there and the wine is poured and we start making out and I'll just say that I heard taurus men were great lovers, but that wasn't his case. Could it be he was tired? It has potential but I'm not sure I wanna keep taking that chance. Anyhoo, the next day he stayed until I went to work. At work he texted to say thanks for everything and he had fun. I like the way taurus guy follows up, I'm not sure if its just not a subtle form of possession because one night he called while I was busy just watching a tv show and getting ready for bed. I told him I'd hit him back in 10. He sounded like Yea alright whatever. this is a man that stays up late (a self proclaimed nite person) he proclaimed in earlier conversations that he was neither a light nor heavy sleeper. Anyhoo, I called hi within 7-8 mintues and he would not pick up the phone. I know he was not sleep I called twice and left messages. The next day I got a text saying he felt "shuffled" by me last night so he went to sleep. My thing is that why did he want me to feel as bad as he did when he could have just expressed himself to me when he felt it.
Thanks guys for all your comments and posts. I was just wondering about people born on that 1/20 cusp. Me being an aqua I can always adapt to change. I will lick my wounds, remember my mistakes and keep it moving.
I'm an aqua woman 34 and me and this 41 year old cap guy started dating back in may/june. Everything was marvelous. He helped me move and since he just started a new job and his car broke down I let him use mine since I didn't drive to work. This went on for 2 months. He told me I was his girl, he loved me and please do not hurt him. He told me about his 14 year relationship with his now x wife who didn't kiss him never gave him oral sex and never showed him any passion. Then he told me about the girl who didn't work and smoked marijuana constantly around her daughter. Both of us have one daughter. He works alot, but that never bothered me because I attend classes at night, I work everyday and I'm a mom. He hadn't seen his daughter in a long time so when she came to visit for 5 days I allowed him to use my car to entertain her because his was in the shop. I thought this man was going to ask me to marry him one day. We had keys to one another's homes and like I said everything was bliss. Until his car was about ready to come out the shop, thats when he started acting distant and giving me the cold shoulder saying he's too busy for a girlfriend!!! Fast forward to march and we're talking again. He's still working around the clock and I'm still in school. We agreed that we'd be friends and be there for one another. We slept together. 3 weeks later he just won't even pick up the phone to say hello. So I have called to say hello how are you , but he just gives me one word responses if any at all. I asked whats his problem? He says he doesn't want to get close to anyone but he'll still give me the money that I asked for my upcoming trip. So today I just texted him and said "hey you just ran across my mind, just wanted to say hi! have a good day! No response. I'm sick and tired of him treating me like a non descript. When I sacrificed and gave so much and we shared so much. I told him that I don't want his money just leave everything as is. The last thing I want is to become a pest in his life. Why when I gave him what he wanted he kicked me to the curb? And to be so harsh like I could drop dead tomorrow and it would not phase him? It hurts to be treated this way. After everything we've been through. Am I wrong to expect more?