Met a Cappy man last night!

So I was eyeing up a Cappy man last night. He was the security in the bar I went to. He is absolutely gorgeous.

My friend saw him too and said she wanted to get his number so I was gutted!!! She was too shy to go over so wanted me to talk to him for her. So as a good friend I did. I went over to him and he asked me to point her out, so I did but couldn't get a good view of her so said to send her over, but he was very hesitant as the chemistry between us was electric!

So my friend ended up going over but came back only say he's too young for her so I asked her if she minded if I took his number. So I went back over and said 'So can I have your number then?' to which he replied 'Yeah but you know how old I am, don't know' (He's 21) So I said 'yeah, if you don't mind me being 27 then that's fine'. So he took my number and we have been talking literally all day.

He is not only gorgeous but very intelligent for his age. I have my moon in Cap so maybe that's why I'm more drawn to him?

I'm just looking for a bit of fun so nothing to serious for the minute!

Has anyone had experiences/relationships with us Sagis? What is the sex like😄

I also posted this on sagi board so you can follow the rest of the story if you're interested.

Thanks for the heads up. Maybe I could just start dating him and see where it goes? I don't think he is totally over his ex so i'd be happy to be his rebound 🙂

So I've been on one date with this Cap, I'm seeing him again on Tuesday for date no 2

He has such strong views it is unreal. He has a Leo moon, his rising is Cap too!

I have been talking to him over text literally everyday since we first met and things are really cool, he makes the odd call to me here and there. He is very sarcastic and funny, our conversations are never dull!

He works harder than anybody I know, it's very admirable!

The one thing which is quite frustrating is he keeps telling me that I ask way too many questions?? So I'm thinking that's how people get to know each other, is it not?

I'm a curious Sagi!!!

Are you Caps quite mysterious? What's the deal here?

Posted by Ellybean
Cap men I've met like to pick at you for asking questions, but actually want you to keep asking more. That's the most I have to offer. Let the goatfish swim hop over here for feedback. 🙂

hmmmmmmm......I'll continue with my questions then then-ha!

What's the whole etiquette on the 'sleeping-with-him' rule. My Scorp friend and sister think I should get this out of the way on 3rd date cause I'll become 'emotionally' attached to him otherwise. And it is what it is...

I really hope there's no weird convos about 'So where is this going' after a copious amount of dates cause he always seems to talk of the future and he's already started doing that NOW, like helllooooooooo..................Maybe he's speaking hypothetically and his 'plans' aren't including me, well I should bloody hope not-lol

How do I make him clear about my intentions without him thinking I'm 'that' kind of girl cause I'm not OR should I just go with the flow?

@Elly.....Thanks for your input chick. Yeah you're right, I'll just see what happens/when it happens 😉

Well he has been texting me literally all night, all sexually related topics. The chemistry is amazing, nothing compared to what I felt with the Scorp but different. I could be onto a good link here...

WATCH THIS SPACE...............

LOL!!!

To be honest I would love a relationship but I just don't feel this Cap is the guy I would like to have a relationship with. I know age is nothing but a number (as some say) but he's 21 for goodness sakes, I just can't see it going very far realistically.

I do really like him, but I've never had a treetrunk buddy so I don't really know to approach this that's that 🙂

From how and what he says, I know that he links chicks and just has casual sex no strings, he said they don't even talk, just sex!! Which I find a bit strange!! I dunno I'm new to all this plus I've only ever really been in 2 long relationships and an intense few months with a Scorp. It's safe say I'm out of the game so to speak.

So you think I should just tell him the 411?

Yeah I know your're saying, as we do seem to communicate very well and there doesn't seem to be 'much' game playing. I say 'much' because for example; like today, he didn't get in contact with me, it's almost like he was waiting for me to make the initial contact for the day, which I done a few minutes ago with a text to which he replied back almost immediately.

Are Caps known for playing games—

Posted by SagChick411
Yeah I know your're saying, as we do seem to communicate very well and there doesn't seem to be 'much' game playing. I say 'much' because for example; like today, he didn't get in contact with me, it's almost like he was waiting for me to make the initial contact for the day, which I done a few minutes ago with a text to which he replied back almost immediately.

Are Caps known for playing games—

Yeah, that is a bit of game playing there. Possibly to see if you are still into him(an insecurity thing). I wouldn't get sucked into having to be the first to initiate convos, only because that can be the tone that will continue on through the course of the relationship/friendship or whatever.

Thanks for the advice Inana.

So I message him back earlier in reply to his text, saying 'So did you get your rota through'. Basically we're 'meant' to have date no 2 tomorrow but he said he may have to work but will know for sure when he gets his rota. So he hasn't replied back straight away like he usually does. Yes I get he may be busy but I'm a little dubious now. Is he playing a game (?)

Ah well, should I be bothered? Do FWB (he doesn't know this part yet) play games? LOL! Am I being stupid? I feel like I don't know what this type of butter entails. I am sooo out of the loop.

Somebody HELLLLLPPPPP meeeeee- LOL

OK.................So the date isn't happening tonight now *Sighs* cause he has to work, he said he tried to take it off but his boss couldn't get any cover, so he said it'll be Sunday now which is fine (well it's gona have to be)

So nothing new to report yet...

Thanks for the heads up Elusive. I think he is playing games you know. Ah well, I'm on to him now. Really can't be bothered for someone to play games but treetrunk it, such is life! lol

Posted by cheekyfaerie
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Yeah you're right! Sometimes I just can't help it though, I think that's down to my Virgo rising.

I'm really looking forward to seeing him on Sunday, can't wait to be wined and dined 🙂

Enjoy the pace with Cappy's. It's not so much about playing games as its their cautious nature that holds them back. They over analyze everything enough for the both of you so I suggest just going along for the ride.

Show interest, not clingyness and show gratitude, not entitlement. The good Cappy's are truly wonderful, giving folks, they just take it reaaaaaly slow.

Posted by CanceritaBonita
Enjoy the pace with Cappy's. It's not so much about playing games as its their cautious nature that holds them back. They over analyze everything enough for the both of you so I suggest just going along for the ride.

The good Cappy's are truly wonderful, giving folks, they just take it reaaaaaly slow.

I over analyze everything too, I just can't help myself, I hate that about myself!

Yeah my Cap was talking about his friends and was like I don't understand how some of my friends barely know a chick and after a couple months are like 'This is my girl' kinda thing. He said 'I take my sweet time getting to know somebody, let alone giving them the 'girlfriend' title'. LOL! it just made me laugh!

He was joking saying how 'I'M' gona fall in love with him? LOL! HAHA! He is cute can't deny that!

Just barely reading this.. Both of our Cappies are fresh relationships so it'll be interesting to see how different they develop haha.

Girl, I wanna do naughty things to my guy... You don't even know lol! But were taking it slow..really slow and its nice in a way to enjoy our time together... Id hate myself if I dont get to jump his bones though hahaha..

Posted by SagChick411
OK.................So the date isn't happening tonight now *Sighs* cause he has to work, he said he tried to take it off but his boss couldn't get any cover, so he said it'll be Sunday now which is fine (well it's gona have to be)

So nothing new to report yet...

This happened for our 2nd date too! He said he had to work... First tjought was "insecurity" I could tell I made him nervous on our first date... Which I don't understand, he's totally gorge!!

OMG I made my boy nervous on out first date too-ha!! Leading upto the first date I was all telling him how I can get shy sometimes plus I don't do the whole dating thing etc etc. When I met him he's all like 'You aint nervous atal girl, I've never seen so much confidence kinda thing, but inside I was a little nervous myself but kept that butter locked down! HA

LOL@ 'wanna do naughty things to my guy'. Well I would take it slow with my guy if I wanted a relationship but I don't, well I do, but not with him (sounds mean) He's gona be my good time guy who will wine and dine me.

He called me earlier to ask if there's any food that I don't eat so he can pick where we go for dinner, I thought it was really sweet of him! I wasn't even aware we would be going out for food. I just thought we'd go have drinks somewhere (well me anyway, as he doesn't drink) lol

Aww... Thats very considerate and sweet of him! These Cap guys are true gentlemen!

Girl... What will you do if he lays it on you good though.. You'll be singing a different tune no? Haha. Well lemme ask this.. Are you currently not open to dating or you just don't wanna date HIM?

Yeah I'm open to dating I guess. I've only ever been in long term relationships. I broke up with my ex (Aries) early last year and then I started seeing my Scorp(if u can call it that) in October (he played mind games like no other) NOW..........I am dating this dude. It's just a bit mad coming back into the 'dating world'.

If Mr Cap puts it on me then we shall see what happens! LOL!! But no seriously I am not planning for anything to happen, I gona be strong willed about this, I have to remain some class! Well try atleast!

I really like my cappy, he just gets me, we communicate really well, feels like I've known him forever. I hope I don't fall for him *sniggers* I have a bad habbit of falling in lust/love- Bleeuurrrrrrgghhhhhhhh, KILL me now!

**maintain**

He's 21, expect plenty of head games, he's young so it's expected a certain level of games will be played out not necessarily intentionally played but one can't expect a 21 year old man that's in his sexual prime to not play a certain amount of games to remain FREE, it's the internet so maybe I'm reading your reactions all wrong but you seem to be already falling for this guy...be careful, try not to get too serious so soon, have fun, relax and don't make it more than what it is, there is a 6 year age gap, him being 21 is like being 18 still, you being 27 is like being 35, 2 different realities about love and sex.

Hey Tiki, Yeah I hear you. Not falling for him thankfully. Yeah some of the things he says I'm like 'Whaaaaaaat?' lol

Hot date tonight!! He called and said he's running behind schedule an hour and 15 mins, AH well, suits me since I only finished getting changed. I just love the way he was apologetic and was justifying what he had to do, so cute although not necessary.

Sooooo excited to see him........and a bit nervous 🙂

Yeah Haha that's how everything starts... Watch out for cap's all gentlemen like approach that's what gets us women. For them though, nothing but the way they live.

Oh never be late with a cap, it's all about schedule LOL

I was(?) seeing one until he started his games, not sure what is up there for now...

OK so 2nd date.........................................................

As soon as I got into his car I noticed he had a hard on,HAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! I was really embarrassed actually and flattered at the same time. He remained this way throughout the WHOLE date, didn't know that was even possible.

Oh the date was so lovely!!! He took me to this Persian restaurant, the food was lovely. I had lamb chops although I should have picked something easier to eat-ha! Ah well! He paid for it and was offended when I took my purse out and offered to pay towards (such a gent) He was complimenting me all night long saying how gorgeous he thought I was (awww)

............then after that he took me to a really swanky bar for cocktails. Drinks in there were ridiculously overpriced. He wouldn't let me pay for anything but I got a round when he went to the toilet just for the principal. Even when we were leaving, he was all like 'are sure you don't want another drink' aww-lol!!! If only he wasn't 21. Darn my luck!! Hahaha!!


Afterwards he drove me home but pulled up on a side road to get freaky (well not fully) haha!!!! It was only a case of wondering hands on this occasion-he he! He is a really good kisser and it seems that he only wants to please me, he's not bothered about himself too much-hahaha!!!!!! JACKPOT! I can tell he'll be aggressive in sex though which is a bonus! He's very strong and has got a body most women would die for. I actually can't wait to be chucked about by a strong man!! Ha I'm a weirdo I know! It's so strange but I??ve never felt so much passion and seen it in somebody eyes like I did with the Cap. I thought no one could beat the Scorp I was seeing but the Cap wins hands down! It was almost abit intimidating but it really turned me on ??_

He was texting me all last night after I got in saying how he had a lovely 2nd date with me which I thought was really sweet. He is actually something —near enough?? to the —ideal man?? I would say. He ticks practically every box and I love his old fashioned traditional values, just a shame he is so young. It makes me feel old, ha ha!

He really wants to see me again and I??d love to see him again too. He said he's gona get us a hotel room for the 3rd date which I didn't rule out??_.hehehe 😛

Posted by saggie123
Yeah Haha that's how everything starts... Watch out for cap's all gentlemen like approach that's what gets us women. For them though, nothing but the way they live.

Oh never be late with a cap, it's all about schedule LOL

I was(?) seeing one until he started his games, not sure what is up there for now...

Hey Saggie, so.....have you heard from your Cap and when you say 'games' do elaborate as I need to know what I'm getting myself into 'if' my Cap starts playing games- lol

And yeah about Caps schedule, they can't take waiting for somebody, it's on their terms. Double standards.

Ooooh, your date sounds hot!! 😄 girl... You need to teach us girls a couple things lol!

HA HA!

You know what I've had second thoughts about seeing him for a 3rd date cause now that I think back his 'piece' was NOTHING to write home about. Ughh...I don't really see it go further than anything sexual anyway soooo.....what's the point of me getting freaky with someone who's not well endowed so to speak. It's meant to be a bit of fun but is there any point when the 'fun' part is not happening down there!

I sound like a total cookiemonster I know! I'm just trying to be real here. I think he might even be on roids' you know! Big body, small piece-LOL!

I dunno, I'm really having doubts, plus I don't wanna lead him on. I'm trying to think what to say. I know this is shallow but I just don't think I can work with what he's got. That might be my bad cause he could please me, but do I wanna add another notch to my bed post to 'see' how things may turn out (?)

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......... *in deep thought*

LOL!! @Sagchick411 you are hilarious..glad you had a great time. but I agree with you, if he ain't packin'...they YOU gotta pack..to LEAVE. just say that you appreciate him but would rather not break the friendship BOND that you have. lol..sounds super corny but you don't want him to think that you discovered his "point faible" (Weak point ie: his package) or lack thereof...Good luck!

smgdh

Hey its not the size.. But the motion in the ocean right— LOL!!

My ex Pisces' size was nothing to write home about (his body was delish, big disappointment :/)... Lol. But damn it if he didnt give me my best orgasms!! 😛

The only problem I see is that your Cap is young aswell and prolly not as experienced.... So think about it, you dont wanna get someone hooked out of experimentation lol

Or... do you? 😛

IMO, this doesn't seem to be about size or anything else but saving face, and for what reason? he must have called and said something ignorant? or there was just a realization that he won't want more than sex?

either way, if you don't much see potential then don't waste time.

@TaurusBelle..........First of all LMAO ''PACK to leave' HA! I'm too much of a wimp to face the music when butter goes down, I start talking too much, tripping over my words, mumble trying to get my point across as to WHY I don't wanna see him again in ANY capacity- LOL! I just can't deal! I need to grow up!! My friend thinks I should say the obvious age thing and say i'm looking to settle down, sorry to have wasted your time. That way I won't be adding another notch to the old bed post and he won't feel used. IDK......

@PB.........I don't wanna get him hooked and I think it will be worse If I do sleep with the kid and it doesn't work out on the orgasm front, then it'll be even harder to get rid cause he'll have a complex about his 'love making skills'. & I don't wanna shatter a mans ego. We all know how big that can be. 😛

@Inana....SIZE is a definite reason but he did say some stuff to me which made me feel he might really be 'into' me and I can't be sure that he was saying it for 'saying its sake' BUT it was said nonetheless. I can't even remember what it was exactly either now but at the time it just made me feel like 'Ermmm....OKAAAAAY then' kinda thing.

@Ilyb.......No it wasn't even a case of me refusing him to treetrunk. I made it clear that I don't get down like that on 2nd date so he knew all along that treetrunking aint on the 'menu' from the get go. It was whilst we were in his car and hands were wondering. I just felt it and it wasn't all that. BUT I really like him BUT he's 21 so for me it can't progress, even if I chose to work with his package. I can't just go on 'like'. It's not enough for me ESPECIALLY if he aint packing, which is/was the sole purpose of linking him.

ALSO when I was reflecting on the date earlier it made me really think he was on steroids. His aggressive approach whilst 'fondling'. I really do not know!

I wish somebody could have been a fly on the wall on my date. WHAT TO DOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! 😛

Posted by ilyb

i used to know a sag girl who would not let me fuck her. e kept looking into her eyes and she just kept saying those eyes... you are scaring me....

My Cap said I was scaring him on our second date. He said I was looking so intensely at him, he felt as though I was staring into his soul! Weird! I wasn't even aware I had those capabilities- HA

I might scare people all the time now-HAHAH!!

@PB What happened with your Leo? Did you get your car fixed?

@ilyb: I said treetrunking on a second date is not my style 'not' that treetrunking is off the meny altogether. Yeah and before I just assumed he had a big piece cause it looked big in his pants. His cock is probably smaller than 5'in. AND I am not exaggerating. I haven't treetrunked in a good few months and not even his cock can persuade me otherwise now I think. It's just off putting. Don't get me wrong it is a hard decision to make cause I like the aggression and I don't like 'making love' as such, I like to get really freaky, soft sex is for the weak hearted and that I am not. He is defo a hottie, nice bod an all, great convos, just his piece is KILLING the whole thing for me!!!

@ilyb, what is your Moon/Venus/Mars?? You are reminding me of MY Cap guy. He is pretty aggressive too his Moon/Leo. Venus/Cap & Mars/Scorpio.(deliciously,magnetic insatiable sex appeal!!..whew!)..but we're still in early stages. I'm going to make HIM wait a bit before we go "there"..since its been a year for me. and he knows that. ...Slow & steady wins the race right?? ..lol

But @SagChick411, I agree 100% with you here..go with your gut,only you know what makes YOU happy, good thing you found out about his "chicken" on date 2 rather than date 3. Imagine being a fly on the wall then??..**crickets**...LOL!! 😄

ilyb..Cool! You're absolutely right! A Cappy is a cappy no matter what. But if your moon is in Aries, you definitely play to come out on top. Nice.

OK so I tried to be a little 'tactful' (I think) in the way I portrayed my post. I definitely want the majority (all of you guys) to understand what I'm banging on about. So anyone who is in doubt, can I have a show of hands please 🙂

I didn't really wanna be too direct and graphic but I can be, so shall I BREAK it dowwwwwnnnnn if you all really want- LMAO

Like what 'actually' happened whilst in his car :p AND this is the reason which leaves me thinking ''Hmmmmm.........do I really want him as a treetrunk buddy?''. LOL

OK So I've decided to tell my Cap that it aint happening anymore. I basically text him as he wouldn't answer (due to work) I told him that the age gap is an issue for me (obviously that isn't the case, its more his cock) I said it was really nice having spent time with him and that I didn't wanna waste his time with more dates. He took it amazingly well and said he totally understood. He told me to never forget how beautiful I am and that it was a pleasure having my company (awwww)

Anyway so that's the end of that!!!!!!

I'm happy just doing me for the moment and if I meet someone then bonus if not then I'm having fun so whatever 🙂

His "cock"?

How klassy.

Aw, too bad it didnt work out. Good that you texted him letting him know the status, and good to hear he responded in a mature manner.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
His "cock"?

How klassy.

Well what can I tell you, I'm a classy gal 😛