need some advice on a cappy

Sun Capricorn
Moon Gemini
Mars Scorpio
Venus Aqua
Mercury Capricorn



anybody?

like i said in the other post, this is almost the same exact placement as mine. besides the moon(mine is in leo). he's probably a very clever person, im always told that i say some pretty off the wall things. also im very blunt. i have an argument with at least one of my friends or family members abt once a week, because i said something that they felt was either inappropriate or just plain rude. lol. its hard for me to stay in a relationship, my cap sun wants me to settle down, but usually once i get settled my venus is aqua gets bored if there is not enought mental energy or physical(mars in scorp) to keep me focused. im not a talkative person but i can be pretty talkative if we are talking about things of substance. im far more of a brains over beauty type of girl. also his venus in aqua makes him attracted to ppl and things that are wierd or off beat. for example, i get weak for men who are artsy or musicians, photographers, renaissance men etc. i dont really care for suit and tie types. VENUS in aqua makes him a natural humanitarian also, so we CANT STAND snobby types. be careful of how you speak to and treat waiters, janitors, or anyone who works in service while around him. he will pick up on it even if he doesnt say anything. because we are the type of ppl that can be bff's with the president of the us as well as his janitor.

dont piss him off. if his mars in scorpio is anything like mine, he probably doesnt get really pissed at much. but one thing that he probably wont tolerate is being taking for granted and being disrepected. also dont try to insult his intelligence. honesty is the only way with this guy. he will try to pretend as if nothing bothers him and he doesnt hold grudges but he does. he will prob try to keep his emotions in check very early on,because he IS NOT big on emotions, but if he starts to have geniune feelings for you he will soften up over time. u have to pay attn to the small things he does, because it is likely that this is how he will show is affection. he prob will never be big on PDA's, EVER. so dont look for traditional symbols as a sign he cares. Remember when i told you a while ago that i dont believe in Gender roles? there is a chance that this guy may be the same way. So you may sometimes get the feeling that he isnt treating you like a lady, charge it to his head and not his heart. also if u every have an issue with him or something he does, approach him in a rational and logical way. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT cry

every venus in aqua i kno hates big emotional scenes. i hate to see women cryin over anything besides death and im a woman. that is not to say that we are not in touch with our emotions because i think we are, emotions just make us kinda uncomfortable so we dont deal with them well. ex) i can watch a greys anatomy funeral scene a cry my eyes out when im by myself, but id probably never ever cry at a real funeral, no matter who the person is. as a matter of fact i hate funerals because of all the damn crying. also when his cap merc cuts you with his sharpness, cut back, but not too deep. just enough to let him know that you can hold ur own. he's probably attracted to women who are both emotionally and finacially independent. he will think he's smarter than you by default, this is why i think we are sooo manipulative, because we think we are smarter than most ppl, and the truth is we might really be, im sure his gem moon heightens this, so he probably more manipulative than me. the trick to this is to call him out, EVERYtime, dont make it into a big drama and dont be all girly with it, just make light of it in a joking way that he is not getting over on you. he will prob give a coyish grin and ask "wat r u talking abt" but u will impress him, and he will minimize the manipulation because he will #1 know that ur onto him and #2 make him respect u more because he now feels as though u are on the same level mentally. the key to getting a venus in aqua person is to be there friend first and to make them feel like you under stand how our crazy thought process works. we want u to be out there with us, or at least come visit sometimes :-)

LONG story short. Be fun. be SMART. be humble. be independent. be a bit of a rebel. be unique. be loyal. and put ur friends and fam first. and he will respect and love you for life.

everything that u think is wierd about urself tell him. EVERYTHing. anytime u have a wierd thought or wierd habits, this is the guy that wants to hear all about it. also he wil pay attn to how u treat your fam and friends. be careful not to put them before him too much, he will look at this as not being loyal, and he will lose respect for you. never change for him. he WILL lose all respect for you!

hope i could help!

Posted by ellessque

Posted by SheDevil77
everything that u think is wierd about urself tell him. EVERYTHing. anytime u have a wierd thought or wierd habits, this is the guy that wants to hear all about it.

it's really ironic you say this. i just dealt with this kind of thing with the cap with aqua venus a few weeks ago.

thing is. after i shared he went silent. i know it wasn't because of the content of my weirdness but why would someone ask you to share something so close to yourself that may be awkward to others and then go silent?

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idk, maybe Aqua venus male and women are different. but it also could mean absolutely nothing. sometimes when im silent about something it isnt negative or positive. and sometimes i wanna kno stuff just to kno, doesnt mean im going to respond to it. i just wanna know. if ur looking for a response i waould ask him. because ALOT of venus in aqua's are naturally aloof to most things, so if u dont say anything we will never know and we wont even think to ask, because that situation in our head is over a million years ago, our brains move really fast :-)

lol. i def agree, sometimes i hate being a venus aqua. i swear im the most akward person to date. im a great friend. but akward when it comes to dating. which is why i have to be friends first to start anything serious. and i hate when ppl expect any type of emotional or any reaction period from me, because i NEVER know what to give. lol

very true. but if u are patient with us u will never lose us. no matter how near or far we are. my 1st love was a taurus sun, cap moon, merc and ven gem, and aqua mars. we were together from 13-21. and he is still my best friend in the entire world. every boyfriend after him knows that i would never stop talking to him, for anyone. its not even abt a romantic connection, he's my best friend. period.

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dont piss him off. if his mars in scorpio is anything like mine, he probably doesnt get really pissed at much. but one thing that he probably wont tolerate is being taking for granted and being disrepected. also dont try to insult his intelligence. honesty is the only way with this guy. he will try to pretend as if nothing bothers him and he doesnt hold grudges but he does. he will prob try to keep his emotions in check very early on,because he IS NOT big on emotions, but if he starts to have geniune feelings for you he will soften up over time. u have to pay attn to the small things he does, because it is likely that this is how he will show is affection. he prob will never be big on PDA's, EVER. so dont look for traditional symbols as a sign he cares. Remember when i told you a while ago that i dont believe in Gender roles? there is a chance that this guy may be the same way. So you may sometimes get the feeling that he isnt treating you like a lady, charge it to his head and not his heart. also if u every have an issue with him or something he does, approach him in a rational and logical way. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT cry

nope. ive pissed him off repeatedly. called him every name in the book. he does not keep his emotions in check. he's tried to lock me down. and hes agressive about it. even in public.

if he wants to be with me, it will be on his terms. mine dont matter. he could give a damn what i want. hes bosses me around my own house. where they do that at.

lol @ crying. he doesnt make me want to cry. he makes me want to cause bodily harm on him.

the shyt that comes outta his mouth. and its pathetic, i see it coming a mile away.

Posted by DMV

Posted by SheDevil77


dont piss him off. if his mars in scorpio is anything like mine, he probably doesnt get really pissed at much. but one thing that he probably wont tolerate is being taking for granted and being disrepected. also dont try to insult his intelligence. honesty is the only way with this guy. he will try to pretend as if nothing bothers him and he doesnt hold grudges but he does. he will prob try to keep his emotions in check very early on,because he IS NOT big on emotions, but if he starts to have geniune feelings for you he will soften up over time. u have to pay attn to the small things he does, because it is likely that this is how he will show is affection. he prob will never be big on PDA's, EVER. so dont look for traditional symbols as a sign he cares. Remember when i told you a while ago that i dont believe in Gender roles? there is a chance that this guy may be the same way. So you may sometimes get the feeling that he isnt treating you like a lady, charge it to his head and not his heart. also if u every have an issue with him or something he does, approach him in a rational and logical way. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT cry

nope. ive pissed him off repeatedly. called him every name in the book. he does not keep his emotions in check. he's tried to lock me down. and hes agressive about it. even in public.

if he wants to be with me, it will be on his terms. mine dont matter. he could give a damn what i want. hes bosses me around my own house. where they do that at.

lol @ crying. he doesnt make me want to cry. he makes me want to cause bodily harm on him.

the shyt that comes outta his mouth. and its pathetic, i see it coming a mile away.

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lmao @ where they do that at?! well, if u two carry on like this then im 100% sure he likes the drama, its seems intense. i like to argue, its wierd but i do, its sometimes the only way i feel like im getting close to someone or getting to know them. if i cant get under a mans skin. i dont want that man. yea, i think he likes the drama. if u really want him to stop, dont respond to the drama. he will prob get bored and move on. if he's that emotional then he cares abt u, point blank. the only person i lost my cool for no matter when or where we were was my first love. and that is because my emotions r

shedevil. you are making so much sense.....thank you 🙂

@DMV ur a sag, and sag women are Infamous for being fiesty. he prob loves antics that u both put up. i doubt if he takes anything mean that u say to heart, because ur actions prob contradict it sometimes. also ur a scorp moon, so i think hes naturally drawn to you. i think he likes u, this is his way of courting/testing u. He probably thinks ur funny, which to him means ur cool, which prob equates to him as we could be friends. which is a great thing for a venus in aqua. one thing i can say, if u like him, just enjoy the welcomed and unwelcome attn for the moment. because when venus in aqua is REALLy not interested, u can be in the same room with us and we'd never notice, and we arent even trying to ignore you, u really just dont exist in our world.

so he bolted on you? or u left him? and i agree a person with strong aqua placements w a person with strong scorpio placements is usually a very difficult combo. if u ever heard a scorpio say what their definition of love was and compare it to an aquarius's definition, im willing to bet the definition would be complete OPPOSITES.

Aqua's and venus aqua's are THEE most freedom loving possessive ppl u will ever meet. there i said it. lol. its the truth, im a huge jelly belly, but its so not the obvious type of jelly belly. i also want what i want when i want it. but that might have ALOT to do with my leo moon.

Posted by ellessque
he was hit or miss for a good week or two and i sent the sappy "farewell" text and muted my phone. it had been almost two years. it was a pattern every couple of months and it just drained the hell out of me emotionally.

he was all best friend and then silent, best friend, then silent. rinse and repeat.

i don't make "best friends", actually never had one. i'm a scorpio.

so when someone gets that close to you. best friend, to me, is closer than a boyfriend and sometimes even a husband.

that shit hurts.

Aqua's also have a bad rap for being the most inconsiderate sign to have a bf. i've had two and both left me feeling robbed of something by the end of our relationship. and im a venus aqua. i think aqua's are selfish ppl by nature, im not saying that its right, but its just something i noticed. thats why i think the "Aloof" term really is just us being so wrapped up in ourselves sometimes that we dont think or care abt how are actions are affecting others. ive been accused of being a selfish in all of my relationships. but i never did it on purpose. it was only when i introspective look at it afterwards that i could see my selfish ways. i think most aqua's or aqua venus are this way. i think its the "air"head thing

naw ellesque, i like learning. so please proceed.

im like your assessment she devil about the aloof thing just being selfisness.