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share something about yourself that you believe to be utterly unique.

i LOVE having the hiccups. and i think because of that i rarely get them, or if i do, they dont last long. the last time i had the hiccups, though, i was drunk at a party and they went on for about half an hour. ooooh they were perfect... 10 or 15 seconds apart. i was laughing so hard im pretty sure i was screaming. ooooh, good times. i've yet to meet someone else who actually enjoys having the hiccups.

"I am utterly unique in my ability to choose the wrong men to love and ignoring the right ones!"

Sorry, babe.. You are not unique in this. I do exactly the same.. Always. Poor us.. 😢

what makes me unique is creepypants

i heart you, a504boi... you tickle me. :p

sometimes i wonder the same thing, capgirl.

but then i wonder... is there such a thing as "the right one"? :p perhaps, im so oblivious to the right guys that you all end up looking WRONG to me! lol cap women are said to have impossibly high standards, maybe mens' lack of ability to reach those standards is why we cap women always end up feeling the guys we date are wrong. ??

oh but we do... we just end up coming way down from them so we can get a piece.

well then perhaps that's another thing unique to me... i have high standards when it comes to guys i'd consider a future with. u know, this topic of women and their standards would be an interesting thread.

yes i am from new orleans, are you?

What is WITH YOU man!!! The war of the sexes is really IN YOUR HEAD...I know, I know- you are always on the winning team though- so it doesn't matter right??

I took the initiative (some weak, pitifull, man-bashed woman who "just won't listen!" told me to do it) to clean up yer paragraph a little. Now it is very PC and oh yeah- ULTRA hippie friendly as well!

enjoy 🙂



I'm a "nice *PERSON*", but I will put aNOTHER PERSON in HIS/her place if that *PERSON* becomes to unfair. I don't think *PEOPLE* have a good sense of balance when it comes to things like this. They either get the worst PERSON of the lot, or they get the most spineless wimp. There are *PEOPLE* like me with actual balance.


I know men and women have their diffs yadayadayada...but really- men choose the wrong women for themselves JUST as frequently as women pick the worst men for themselves.

We are all *PEOPLE* here- BRANH (and I know you most of all hate to admit it) just a bunch of psychologically animated chunks of biological matter (with fun little toys!) that continue to breed with one another.

c'mon- robot sex is no fun atall- unless...well, nevermind

🙂

"My knowledge of "everything things" like crime, drugs, etc and my understanding of math, science, academic, economic etc gives me a fairly unique perspective to life."

Branh, I think that your knowledge makes you just unique talking about it. You don't know how much other people know, they just don't talk about it. Maybe they talk about these things in certain situations, not here. Or, you could be right, maybe you are just unique knowing what you know and other people are unique knowing what they know. 🙂 But you are quite unique talking about these things on freetime.. That's where I agree with you 🙂

Brahn, I was reading your most recent post and I've gotta tell you, once again...I am in complete agreement until the last few sentences,

(This is why a woman needs a guy who is ground and who steps up and verbally knock them on their ass from time to time. All women need to be brought down to reality, because what most women respond to is something they will never ever have. If you want a fantasy, then go to sleep or live vicariously through novels, if you want a reliable man who challenges you, but is also fair to you, then you need look a little deeper.)

If you replace that with a softer version...that is exactly what I feel and why my cap guy snuck up on me....after years of choosing the wrong guy and finding they were just markers....I stopped and noticed that this guy is absolutely the best guy I have ever chosen. He does "ground" me but in a gentle manner by simply asking me questions when I don't make sense and he really listens and hears what I mean....perhaps not always what I say...not that I'm playing games..but just that sometimes I am logically challenged. If he would "knock me on my ass" he would be history because the person I choose to love has to be sensitive to my sensitivity....So, in MHO looking deeper and finding that maybe it wasn't lust at first sight but rather someone warm and comfortable to talk to and spend time with later lead to see that he is a super guy and being willing to give him a chance only to find that the physical was much more than I ever expected because we really respected one another....that is when life gets really sweet.

I think everyone is making this more complicated than it has to be. If a woman consistently passes up the "right guy" for the wrong guy then she will either get a clue at some point in her life or she wont. The same goes with men. Hopefully what really matters will surface, if not, than woe is you.