Please give me some perspective!!!

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hockeyqt6071
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Okay, first things first. I am in a relationship, and have been for a year now. Everything was going great than a friend of mine introduced me to her Capricorn man friend. Now I'm not saying I'm interested, but I'm wondering if he is. I didn't think it was in a cap mans nature to be interested in a woman in a relationship. I'm an Aries with a Scorpio rising, and cancer moon. Tell me what you think; so my girlfriend invites me out dancing with her and this capricorn man which she has known for years and is uninterested in, throughout the night he's joking with me, smiling at me and offering me drinks (non alcoholic i don't drink lol). The very next day he writes me on fb telling me how awesome it was meeting me, and wanting to get together in the future ect. So periodically we have been hanging out with each other in group settings( my gf that introduced us tells me that he asks her to invite me to these events), fishing, hiking...with this mutual friend and he is always so friendly inviting me to do things with him....and this mutual friend which seems like a safe guard... Not too mention he found a legitimate reason to grab my number, and texts me daily and or calls to invite me to do things... I'm kinda getting the vibe he's interested but he could just be friendly. I'm really kind of curious if I'm over analyzing or if it's legit, he's also dropped by my work on his way to go fishing and brought me lunch which was sweet, and will not allow me to pay him back!! Please give me some feedback, Im starting to "notice" him if you know what I mean. So let me know! Help! 🙂
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lmao I love it when the "noticing" starts up. Yep then it all changes. If you are anything like me, that noticing turns into an obsession and before you know it you are drooling and dreaming about something that probably isn't even in your head anymore. He's a cap man right? Well he's probably more then sincere with his actions. We don't do shit unless we mean it. Instead of asking us his intentions, why don't you just ask him? That way, you will know. 🙂
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hockeyqt6071
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Thank you guys! Let me add that I have a few platonic male friends...but oddly this cap man has caught my attention, I must say though he seems to have a lot of friends. Mainly women but nothing more then friends sooo....maybe he's relationship phoebic who knows, I try avoiding those topics. Last night I went with my gf over to his house for dinner(he cooked the salmon we had caught earlier this week) which was absolutely excellent cooking I must say 😉. All night I couldn't help but notice the music choice was all songs about men longing for women they "adore", " love", " can't have" ect. and how they could love the women better....hmm I thought Capricorn men were all about the details. Anyway if that tips it off anymore I'd like to know your guys insight, thanks for getting back with me it's driving me crazy because he never out right says or does anything that would be considered legitimate flirting. My eyebrow is definitely raised in suspicion, but he does play friend really well to men and women but it seems slightly different in my case. Mind you I'm 10 years his junior, making me 23. I don't think I'm a conquest, but I don't know him that well. I keep myself pretty....reserved so I don't exactly have a stamp that says easy target. Haha anyway thanks I love the input. I'm currently with a Scorpio male, I'm not really sure what I should do. I have a 2 year old Aquarius girl, and I really don't want to take her through the dating process 😢 the Scorpio is the first man I've dated since her gemini father... Let me know! Thanks!
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What M said just because your a woman and hes a man doesnt mean you and his pants come off it could be harmless. Also if you didn't know asking him helps basically you start by opening your mouth and forming a question. Which is a lie because you start by percieving what you think is right holding that there then thinking before you speak. Then ask him the question. Also it helps to repeat this several times because if you didn't think of this before chances are you might not think of it after.