problem dating cap girl

I need some advice from fellow cap girls as to what I should pay attention when dating a typical cap girl in general. I have been seeing this cap girl in my school for quite a while. we had good conversation. but she seems really busy all the time, so hard to go for a date. I want to know how cap girl usually show interest in a guy and what a guy should do to a cap girl showing he really care about her. (please no joke/ I need serious help)

thanks

we tlak about ramdon stuff like studies, what she wants to do in the future and her dog etc. I want to now what quality a guy cap girl looks for...not really waht her hobbies cause she's typical cap...I think she doesn't have very specific likes...just do random things...

well i'll tell you what really turns me on in a guy... confidence and smart humor. make her smile, laugh and be a gentleman to her. gentleman meaning... i like a guy who's chivalry comes naturally... like he treats all people with respect. be a strong individual with your own opinions and your own reasons for your opinions. dont just agree with everything she says. that's something i notice that guys will do. confidence is a big thing though. that is a great start. and dont be discouraged if she has a good poker face and you can't tell what she's thinking towards you. i'll do that sometimes with guys im really interested in. it's a caution thing. i dont like showing all of my cards at once... first i want to get to know each other.

there's my advice, but MOST importantly... be yourself. you want her to like you for you.

Hi aries2006,

Welcome to the boards 🙂

thnaks everyone...especially cappysweetie....u are sweet like sugar. 🙂

well, we had good conversations and she flirted with me with eye contact but very subtle. I said she's busy which is probably true. seems to me being with a cappy girl is really taking a good amount of time and efforts. dunno

hi cap, you said "I want to know him first.I want to know how genuin he is.I mean all these questions come to my mind like-Is he so sweet to everyother girl,or is he the types who is just looking out for a girl in his life......n"

if a guy is sweet to every other girl, is this a good thing to you? or do you want he's just being sweet to you if he's interested

us, I think you are hitting a pt here...don't know why the few girls I have been frineds to are all caps. maybe I'm just attracted to them?---I didn't hind the fact that I'm aries..I even told her so...lol....I don't think she's too young anymore....20 something already....but you right caps are indeed very career minded...that's why it's gets pretty hard to have something goign with a cap girl, eevn she's interested.

cap, I know what you mean. as an ares guy I think if you are into a girl you should not be too frinedly.flirty to other girls..especially to a cap. cap girl seems quite sensitive to everything a guy does to her, how he say things, what he does...etc...just my impression.

sb....this is so true...as a typical aries male...I can say that we are quite intelligent, very direct, humor comes naturely and very high sexdrive,,,,lol....so did you go out with him??...don't know why I always got attracted to cap...well...I got attracted to other fire signs sicne they are way direct and fun...but I have this instint that cap girls are more emotional mature, good gf material, ...as long as you are be honest with them and treat them well, they can be very loving...

aries guys are very sweet....but can be impatient sometimes.

Hi aries2006 🙂

Check this out:

Aries Man and Capricorn Woman
Despite the Capricorn woman's usual patience in getting to know a romantic partner, there's an urgency about this relationship that's fired by a mutual need to get together quickly. One minute they're meeting each other for the first time, the next they're ripping the clothes off each other's bodies in an attempt to understand this extraordinary attraction.

oh my god...capsweetie...you just made my weekend....lol...i hope it's true...lol....so I saw you have a libra rising. i have a libra rising too and many sag(fire signs) in my charts....so...lol...guess I can get too hot sometimes....

OOO don't worry aries06,

I have plenty of air alittle fire and a taurus node ... so I experience the whole "fury" feeling too (plus, I'm a capgal, so that makes the heat even worst lol).

However, I have pretty good self control (so far anyway) so I won't be doing anything crazy just because I get alittle hot under the collar 😉

I think aries guys are just naturally high sex-drive...other aries guys for example, collin farrel, marlon brando, kevin federline, vincent van gohn, jackie chan, etc...lol

LOL,

Well, if you have a high sex drive .. then you picked the right girl to like 🙂 It takes time, but once we really feel for you, we can be "white hot" and it's totally unexpected 😉

The only capricorns that's willing to have sex quickly or randomly are usually "gold-diggers" (no feelings involved so it's easer to sleep with a guy), "hookers/ escorts" (just like gold-diggers, all about cash) or have the lowest self esteem (and I mean really low, this is why some strippers are cappies 😢 ).

So remember, the best cappies are those that are not crazy about hopping in the sack soon 😄

well, this is so true.....and glad I have picked the right girls to like....lol......have you dated any aries guys?....from the things you wrote...I can feel the typical cap girl feeling I feel....very plain honest and explainatory....I also heared cappies like dry humor and I definitely see some of that in you too....well..guess as long as cap girls are not reserved in bed it's all good...lol...aries and other fire signs can go nuts in bed , so aries and cap girl can make the love making more natural.

I also don't understand why cap girls have low self esteem and don't want to get with the guy she likes quick....I thought girls like to spend lots of time with guys they like in my aries pt of view. this is why fire aries always got the impression cap gals are not into them but I can not get cappie off my mind also....strange attraction ...lol

😛 cute

as far as eyes go... i've been told i have a good poker face. and sometimes i get the question from the guy i'm seeing right now... 'what are you thinking?' and he would ask me something like that if he really didnt know. the only thing my eyes reveal in those cases is... 'i'm thinking about something' and i'm only like this when i'm feeling private about whatever i'm pondering.

should I tell a cap girl I like her??...I mean say exact the words? or should i say how much I admire her instead. ----I know cap girls like things to be straight out for them so they won't be over analyze.

do cap girls like to go on dates? or just relax ?...I kind of feel the one I have interest on just want to do something simple relaxing instead

well....mature aries guys are hard to find...lol....j/k....so would you think it the best idea to just tell her I like her?...yeah aries guys are really fun to be with especially when they are in the mood. and sex with aries guy is pretty much guarranteed ...I never heared any aries guys are not into constant hot sex but they may want to lots of quick sex.

it's kind of surprising it took an aries guy so long to ask her out. when you say ages...do you mean months?...cause i know 3 months are like 3 days on cappy's calendar

I'm interested to know how guy's look mean to a cap girl....is it important, very important, not very important? or---do cap girls mostly just go for the making them feel special feeling and humor?

maybe he was dating someone else for a yr and got back to you.....there's no way aries guy will for a yr for a date ...lol

Oh no,

Well, I know I'm late but SB is right -- if you tell a cap girl that you like her while conversating about something completely different, she'll be speechless ... haha, well I would.

JD gave a perfect example 😉

I think timing is everything.

well...wouldn't that surpize the hell out of the cap girl??....I mean cap gorls don't like surprizes...right?....do cap girls like luv letter?..lol..from aries guy..??..lol

ok, aries guys are pretty straightforward and honest in the general. but in luv, they will be very romantic but complete honesty will depends on how much he truly cares about u. if an aries guy is truly into you, he will be totally honest.

at least for me

"And I'm one of those who would ask those questions, I confess and I'm about to do it again !

What is it you're thinking ?"

apparently something she was feeling private about 🙂

😛


"WHO MATTERS MORE THAN WHAT"

right on. 'who' first and then 'what' 😛
I had the biggest crush on an aries guy once who was ending a relationship, unfortunately on a bad note. We later got to date for a little bit, but i moved to a different school. But he charmed the socks off of me. Hilarious guy and I regret that we couldn't date longer.

"I'm interested to know how guy's look mean to a cap girl....is it important, very important, not very important? or---do cap girls mostly just go for the making them feel special feeling and humor?"

i like a guy who takes care of himself... good hygiene, fresh breath, etc. For me, a guy can have any style of appearance he wants. I've gone for all 'types'... for lack of better descriptors... GQ look, punk look, corporate look, hippie look, boy next door look ... what matters more is that HE makes his 'appearance' to others what it should be and not what he wears. But no matter what a guy looks like, he should have good hygiene. Nice and faint cologne is a turn on though 🙂 Curve for men 😉 yummm.

creepy pants, do you consider youself typical cap? are you born around the new yr

say if a aries guy ask a cap girl out and she really likes him, will she still pause and think a little or will she just give a quick definitely "yes"

hrmmm... typical cap? ummm... hard to say. at times i feel i'm being utterly capricorn-ish and others i feel like i go against the capricorn grain. I'm actually on the sag/cap cusp, born on the 23rd. I'm more social than what the zodiac generally says about caps, but i can definitely still have my quiet/contemplative and even shy moments. i have hermit phases as well. 😛 i'll put it this way... i have all the major capricorn tendancies: hard worker, (can be) shy, independent, devoted to family, takes love and a relationship seriously (tried the casual thing more than once and have come to the conclusion that im incapable, but that doesnt bother me) and i think my closest friends would say i'm pretty much a cap.

'say if a aries guy ask a cap girl out and she really likes him, will she still pause and think a little or will she just give a quick definitely "yes"'

i think direct and significant attention like this will always surprise a cap lady, so she may not come out with a quick and definite 'yes'. and i know for myself, i'm always thinking about my schedule. if a guy i'm interested in were to ask me out i would 1.) be surprised, 2.) i'd try to hide the excitement cuz i'd feel like a geek if i let it all out (it'll come out later when there's a relationship blossoming) 😛 and 3.) i'd think about 'when' i could get together with this guy ...all at the same time. no doubt there's a 4,5 & 6 that goes on too. basically, even if a cap girl likes you, she'll probably never throw caution to the wind and quickly say yes without blinking first. so if it happens that she isnt obvious, keep it in mind, but don't assume that it's because she's not interested.

🙂 hope this helps.

oh... and here's another compatibility blurb. This one from Starsky and Cox's book 'Sextrology':
Capricorn Woman/Aries Man - A rare pair. Her unrelenting faith plus his fighting spirit means life is lived like a crusade. Still, independence is their mutual mantra. Sexually, Cap is less hesitant with him. Indeed, she submits to his will.

lol... oooh, spicey!

holy jesus.... CreepyPants,...you are so creepy helpful...lol....makes sense

i have read it from some book....it's not accurate as you can't just based on sun sign say compatibility....but a sun sign sayd a lot about the person.

"holy jesus.... CreepyPants,...you are so creepy helpful...lol....makes sense"

aaaaaaaaaaahahahahahahahaha!
*whew* i'm glad. and thanks for the smile. 🙂

i think a sun sign definitely says a lot about the image of a character and our instincts.

yeah...I don't know humor just comes naturally to aries...at least for me...🙂

is that true that cap girls don't usually do mind tricks to guys??...like playing games like many other signs?

😛 as one of my friends always says, 'i do what i can and i do what i do.' lol i try to make myself understood as clearly as possible, but believe me... when it really matters, not to say this doesnt matter but in front of loved ones and about important issues, i sound like a rambling idiot. lol

interesting?.....lol

I read from someplace says cap girls' favourite cloth color to seduce guys is dark green...lol...it this thing true?

Hmmmm, let me see ... well, we like dark colors. I adore edarth tones but I do like lavender, blue (various colors), limit green, and orange ^_^.

If I wanted to look sexy, I'd wear something darker I suppose LOL!!!! or any color as a matter of fact!

aries men like anything that visual simulating......lol...I like blue, green, pink etc...pretty much most colors on girl...lol....it actually depends on the person who wears it

"is that true that cap girls don't usually do mind tricks to guys??...like playing games like many other signs?"

mind games will drive me awaaaay. im more about saying how i feel or showing how i feel rather than something twisted like mind games. if i want something, or if something is bothering me, i wont counteract with indirect actions or words, nor will i twist my guy around to get what i want. i'll just let him know whats on my mind. why complicate things with silly games if it's someone i supposedly care about? relationships work great with good communication. so unless you're a sadomasochist, then leave out the trickery. i think caps generally dont partake in these mind tricks because it is indirect and they seem soooo dishonest. remember, we like direct.

and i have no clue about dark green. it's earthy and sounds nice.. lol ..but huh? i'll dress in something that looks good put together and flatters my shape if i want to seduce. colors... whatever looks nice against skin tone... or black. can never go wrong with black 😉

is that true that once a cap female picked her guy and think he is right for her, she will stick with him and be totally faithful to him?...I think it's one of the best quality of cap if that's the case

oooooh... thats really interesting, CGWL

creepypants...what you said is really true. I hate mind tricks from girls...I think this is one of the reasons I am so attracted to cap girls, they have good morals.

this is intersting about eye contact on the lip....for me I will definitely do it to the girl I'm interested. but it kind of hard to notice if a girl. a cap girl will look at your lips .....I got a pretty intense eye contact from this cap girl while i talking to her...she just stare right into my eyes...very strong...but very subtle seductive....I feel like my face is hitting on a brick wall...so I can't bear to smile...lol

when I say the eye contact is subtle seductive....I mean she look at me out of the corner of her eye without blink....and her lips are a little tilt up again very subtle but I can sense it

ahh, that's so cute. 🙂

so creepypants....what would you show in body language to a guy you are interested?

well, i would bend at the hips, not at the waist. :p kidding! ...well, sorta. lol though i try to move like a lady, my body language is more in my touch, my eyes, and my expression. i engage the person i'm focused on with eye contact and i probably wouldn't be able to put the smile on my face away if i really like them. i think touching shows a lot of interest, but initially it would be gentle and subtle arm, back, or shoulder touching if i feel comfortable enough. With the guy i'm seeing now, he loooooves the way i touch him(i dont mean that to be dirty), and i love the fact that he appreciates it. It just makes it even more enoyable for me. People dont generally give enough credit to hands for how much emotion they can show with caresses, the right pressure... 🙂 makes me smile thinking about it.