Quandary with cappy

I am a piscean and I find myself wildly attracted to this capricorn man who already has a girlfriend. I have told him that I have compassion for him. He talks to me everyday for hours over the phone and talks to his girlfriend once in awhile. He tells me he likes me as a person and that I'm someone special to him. He keeps telling that I look very pretty and that I am a really nice person. He is possessive about me. And then he tells me that its a waste of time waiting for him. Then he says he is too attached to me to let go of me. What am I supposed to comprehend? He also told me that he is on the verge of breaking up with his girlfriend and stuff. I feel he is just leading me on. What should I do? Wait or move on?

"And then he tells me that its a waste of time waiting for him."

This part.

'on the verge of breaking up' doesn't mean anything and certaintly getting you nowhere unless you are willing to wait for a guy that's going to do the same to you like he does her : CHEATING.

Goodluck ^^

Aren't Pisces chicks known as most likely to become sympathy mistresses for unhappy, married men?

Posted by enfant_terrible
Aren't Pisces chicks known as most likely to become sympathy mistresses for unhappy, married men?

lol i was thinking the same thing... dont know why pisces enjoy being the "other woman" so much.

If he'll cheat on her (physical or emotional, basically the same thing), he will cheat on you. Why the HELL would anyone want or tolerate a man like that?

Sorry so blunt, but that is what I think.

No, not the same chic. I'm also in this sad situation and never been there before but I do have a very good talent finding the crazy/alcoholic/stupid ones to cherish. Could someone take this feature away..?

And for the pisces, you should propably move on. So should I.. 🙂

Its not about enjoying to be the "other woman"
Honestly I didn't want him to know about my emotions cause I knew he was engaged with somebody else. He forced me to let out my feelings. He tells me he is with the other girl only cause she finds happiness in him and that she has faced a lot in her life and he doesn't wanna hurt her but there are a lot of stuff about her that he doesn't like. And he also has some major health issues. So, its more like sympathy towards him. And when I try to stay away from him he chases me and tells me about how attached he is to me. And I don't wanna hurt him cause he has so much to go through in his life already.

pisces888, I'm sorry to hear that you are caught in the middle of someone else's drama.
My advice is to move on if you feel like he's leading you on. Tell him if he's sincere, he should work on his own shit, figure out what he wants and then come and find you. In the meantime, live your life and find happiness.

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Aren't Pisces chicks known as most likely to become sympathy mistresses for unhappy, married men?

lol i was thinking the same thing... dont know why pisces enjoy being the "other woman" so much.

Says the man that's sleeps with a married woman.

You were saying? 🙂

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ahhhhhhh if it isnt the feisty miss lady of rebirth herself.. yes yes that was a little while back.. i've since stopped it.... Been clean for a while now thank you very much.

Posted by LindaLand
No, not the same chic. I'm also in this sad situation and never been there before but I do have a very good talent finding the crazy/alcoholic/stupid ones to cherish. Could someone take this feature away..?

And for the pisces, you should propably move on. So should I.. 🙂

Uhh, yeah. It is the same thing. Don't twist the meaning of the phrase to suit your own purpose. Emotional cheating means they have turned away from you emotionally and sharing those thoughts and feelings with someone else other than their partner. It's WORSE than physical cheating.

Posted by pisces888
Its not about enjoying to be the "other woman"
Honestly I didn't want him to know about my emotions cause I knew he was engaged with somebody else. He forced me to let out my feelings. He tells me he is with the other girl only cause she finds happiness in him and that she has faced a lot in her life and he doesn't wanna hurt her but there are a lot of stuff about her that he doesn't like. And he also has some major health issues. So, its more like sympathy towards him. And when I try to stay away from him he chases me and tells me about how attached he is to me. And I don't wanna hurt him cause he has so much to go through in his life already.

Girl. You're better than this!!! You deserve a man without a sob storry, without a poor pitiful me story. You deserve a man that views you as his one and only!!!!

He's telling you what you want to hear to keep you around. Step back and look at it logically. He's doing this to you because you allow it.