Question of the Day...Need some GOOD Responses!

QUESTION OF THE DAY (For Capricorns):

Which do you think is WORSE?

1. Being lied to about your partner's past
2. Finding out your partner has a criminal record
3. Finding out your partner was born another gender (but got "the surgery")
4. Finding out your partner still lives with their parents (when you thought they had their own place)
5. Finding out your partner is racist?

Good answer! I guess it just depends on the person & their experiences. A person in an interacial relationship might pick the "racist" answer just like a person who might've been abused in the past might pick the "not knowing about your partner's criminal record" answer. But good answer!

Satyrsmind...you're absolutely right! Like I said, there are alot of factors that play into which answer a person would chose from the options above. I personally would've chosen the worst thing as finding about a criminal record because if someone hides that or lies about that then the OTHER options above might be present too. And plus, If it was the case that he was a serial rapist or killer, I probably wouldn't stick around to find out about the other things listed above.

Is this a joke? Hmmm, funny. I don't see anybody laughing

Simply Me...I totally agree with you. All of them are pretty bad because being mis-led about any of those options would cause a relationship to lose Trust, therefore losing the foundation & we all know what happens once the foundation is gone. I always tell guys, let me fall in love with who you REALLY are, and not the person you are PRETENDING to be.

And the unfortunate thing is, every day somebody finds out one of those options listed above & either loses the love of their life or finds out they've wasted their time (the WORST thing to waste). The sad thing is 1-5 tends to happen alot now days.

5.

You're absolutely right. Some people kill themselves or kill others over the hurt they've felt. Oprah said something interesting on her show yesterday. Quoting Bill Cosby, she said, "Hurt people HURT people."

I don't owe you ANY explanation for why I decided to ask questions. This site is about asking questions & getting them answered. And if I'm the one asking the questions, I have the right to (with my reasoning being none of your damn business). NEXT!

Wow Cappy...I feel stalked! Quit it! You're making me famous! You went through all of that to "research me" and quote on quote "set me straight" but the sad thing is, you've wasted your time. If you don't like my responses, the answer is simple. Don't read my post. Anyways...I've got to attend back to those who actually came to my post to ANSWER the question. As of now on, you're invisible. Don't believe me? Try me. NEXT!

And what amazes me is that you're still writing in "MY" post. Hmm, for someone who is supposedly "so rude" you sure can't get enough of me.

La La LA

Racism does lead to draggings, lynchings, hangings, servitude, (whether overtly or covertly), closed windows to oppportunities, fear, wars, genocide, tons of prison fights, not to mention the psychological damage of inferiority and ineptitude. To hate an entire race is major because the feeling starts with HATE and only grows and infects like-minded retards that cannot admit their own laziness and short-comings and so feel the need to blame others and gain a false sense of control through subjugation and de-humanization.

All travesties are a part of life. Can't do anything but build yourself in a positive way and hope people follow good examples.
1-3 are pretty tough. I would ditch. Your other needs to understand. Plus dont feel bad because with the internet now days I'm sure your other can find a place to fit in thats just right for them and can relate to people that empathize.