Cap Stuck in the Past?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by SweetestFatale on Saturday, March 1, 2008 and has 6 replies.

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@SweetestFatale
19 Years1,000+ Posts

My Cap first ran into my after being separated for 9 years, we havent seen or talked to one another. We exchanged numbers, talked, and eventually sat face to face to catch up...all he wanted to do was revisit the past and pick up where we left off....is that typical?

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@GEMuine
18 Years

My Cap and I did the same thing. Started talking again after 5 years of not seeing each other or talking. Picked RIGHT up where we left off after reminiscing for MONTHS on our previous relationship, and every time after that whenever we separated (went back to school) he would always say, "We have to pick up where we left off next time." So I'd say continuation is a thing for some of them lol.

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@SweetestFatale
19 Years1,000+ Posts

lol thats what it seems like GEM. Things are going quite well with us and Im starting to see him trying to bridge what we had then with what he wants us to have now, but he's certainly asking a lot of questions about my feelings in the past...im willing to bet he believes in resurrection.

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@SweetestFatale
19 Years1,000+ Posts

lol yes Star, I gave up on the Cancer. He was just too distant for my liking. I had planned on waiting for him to see the light, but after I stopped dealing with him other things started popping out of nowhere so I decided to just move on and try different things.

lol I messed up and revisited THAT part of the past and now I suddenly see a possessive side of him I dont so much remember. Its like whenever Im not with him he's so scared that Im with someone else he threatens to just drop in unannounced...its a little scary because he seems pretty intense about it although he tries to convince me he's more joking than serious. Im not worried because Im not with anyone else...but wow...I dont remember him being so jealous.

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@MsAristocracy
18 Years500+ PostsVirgo

Another confirmation on Cappy men...

Like Satyr says, they (and their exes) don't feel the years in between.

Like GEM says, continuing is (definitely) a thing for some of them.

Like Star says, they will try you again (even) after 20yrs.

Not sure why they are so hopeful that way. I am an earth sign and I do revisit the past with an ex if there are good memories. 🙂

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@capris
18 Years

Yes I'm a Capricorn and I think I'm stuck in the past. Last night I saw my xbf's xgf that he went out with after me 2 yrs ago and I got PISSED and wanted to kick her BUTT. (It was all talk cuz I was drunk, but I guess deep inside I still hate the fact the my xbf (that is a libra) would rather be with a young 19 yr old fat chick (who is also a December capricorn) back then. He's talking to prettier girl now, and we're cool. lol