Questions to Capricorn Male

Dear Capricorn male,

I found the below questions on Scorpio?s forum and have the same questions for cappy men (modified a little). We read these types of things on sources like books and online but I have never asked the questions to actual people. It would be super if you all fab cappy men can answer to those. Thanks for your time!

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1~ What are you looking for in your soul mate/partner?

2~ What are Dos in your relationship?

3~ What are Donts in your relationship?

4~ What are your unforgettable moment your ex, your partner or your wife/husband ever did and that action melts your heart....might be little things but meaningful and you never even tell them that what they did melts your heart (please share no secret here lol)

5~ Have you ever fall in love with your ex, your partner or your wife/husband all over again....why? and how? ? have you gone back to your ex?

6~ What is the meaning of love in Capricorn?s prospective?

7~ What will it takes for a Capricorn to be commit in one relationship?

8~ Do you often think of your past serious relationship? If so why? Please answer both positive and negative sides.

9~ Is it true that sex does NOT plays the biggest part in your relationship?

hey E~~~~ get on this you too OAF, & OJ

I can not help you. I don't know what I want in a relationship. I have kids ex wifes and lovers and I still don't know. There are some basic I live by. One woman at a time, If I am with a woman then thats it. I got divicored over this once, at a party they were doing some game about relationships. The question came up would you cheat on your partner, my answer was who would want the agervaction of two women in there life at one time. I think that started the brake up. Looking for in a soul mate, a female, not to young nothing under 40. Looks go with age so the soul is more important. Don't get between me and my work, If you want another man just tell me and leave don't worry about hurting me I will suvrive I have never meet any one I could not live without. As for as the outher questions I have buryed them left them had them leave me, when you are 61 sex is nice but not all night long, All day sometimes but not all night.

A quick question, OJ - I hope you don't mind me asking. How long did it take to get over your divorce? My first cap is 6 mo out of a serious relationship and sounds like he is still involved with his ex's life - helping her and her son. Thanks.

We had a son still do but I moved on rather quick. don't dwell on it just went forward with my life. You get past hating then being bitter then one day you find you don't care then you relise you just have nothing left for them and you wish them no harm.

My cappy seems still dwelled in it...people say 6mo is not long enough to get over 5 yr relationship...some study says every year you are with someone take 3mo off. So for him, 15 mo break...well for me then 2 years...

1~ What are you looking for in your soul mate/partner?

I am looking for loyalty, trustworthiness, intelligence, respect for the family structure, good money management skills, ability to communicate, self control (especially over their temper), beauty, healthy and fit, respect for others (including me), educated (well read), and free spirited personality that allows for fun loving activities.

2~ What are Dos in your relationship?

Follow the 'Golden Rule'

3~ What are Donts in your relationship?

Don't follow the 'Golden Rule'

4~ What are your unforgettable moment your ex, your partner or your wife/husband ever did and that action melts your heart....might be little things but meaningful and you never even tell them that what they did melts your heart (please share no secret here lol)

Melts my heart? I don't know if that's ever really happened. Although, recently she told her family that she is considering moving to NC (we're a long distance couple).

5~ Have you ever fall in love with your ex, your partner or your wife/husband all over again....why? and how? ? have you gone back to your ex?

I don't think I RE-fall into anything. If I can leave it alone the first time, it's usually gone for life.

6~ What is the meaning of love in Capricorn?s prospective?

Loyalty

7~ What will it takes for a Capricorn to be commit in one relationship?

She has to prove herself worthy of my committment. I have to TRUST her and feel comfortable that she can be MRS. Enigmanupe in most situations. She is just an extension of me.

8~ Do you often think of your past serious relationship? If so why? Please answer both positive and negative sides.

I do from time to time, but it's not as serious as it once was. I went over 10 years pining over my first love and one day, I just shut it off.

9~ Is it true that sex does NOT plays the biggest part in your relationship?

It's important, but not THAT important. I'd be upset if I couldn't get any, but in the end, it's merely a support for the main course.

Peachcow
If your lover dies and you are not over it in two years you will never get over it. I would say the longer you are married the longer it will take and if there are childern then even longer because you will have contact on an on going bases. Why Peachcow, I have a friend who referes to her self as a lazy cow quite often its a british thing I guess.

Hi OJ, I know I don't like the name but when signed up I was not sure if I was getting into it this much...it is kind of late to change..maybe not? gemgem calls me Peach🙂 I like that. I must have lost my brain and mind when signed up...now I am finally coming back to the earth...

Yeah, my first cap would take his time since he loves the boy and still helps his ex out so that she can go off her own life - sounds like she is suffering from depression (he once told me that he is taking care of the boy while she was seeing her doctor) He spends time with the boy regular basis like twice a week and many weekends ? he makes it his priority as he calls himself a single parent...oh well, I just have to accept where he is at in his life.... And yes I need to take time for myself as well.

so its clear!! We will all call you PEACH!! lol 😉

Of course...a peach is much sweeter I think. haha.

Hey girls, thanks🙂

E~ Thanks a lot for answering those questions!

I have two dates scheduled this week...Virgo and Aqua?will see.

That is what I read about cappy males...good to know.

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I don't think I RE-fall into anything. If I can leave it alone the first time, it's usually gone for life.
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E~ when you are considering someone, do you want her to be your friend first then to g/f? I read this somewhere too. What is loyalty to you? I call clean up all of my dates/guys and will be just for him, if the timing is there...but not...how do you check a woman to see if she is going to be loyal to you?

peach~

i would love to answer your questions but i have gone on a big long trip to turkey to visit family. i'll be gone for a month hehe remembering this website i thought i'd let you folks know what's up.

1. i am looking for a compassionate person. someone i can help but also be helped by. the communication has to work. i know acouple of people who i can just talk to comfortably without any problems. and if problems happin they are easly understood and fixed. physical atraction has to be there (ofcource).
there is so much tho i cannot discribe. there's an ora... the vibe....
and most importantly loyalty! i want someone who will accept me for who i am, like gem (i beleive) said in a previous post. She should have an understanding of who i am. haha i dont think i have many suprises... but i always seem to suprise people.

2. dos?
do the compliments.
action. kink. be strong with yourself. make sure im there for something. i like knowing i can help you out anyway possible. it makes me feel good when i help with my skills. hehe

3. don'ts? hmmm u know im an at the moment type of person so the dont's do NOT come to my head at this moment. DONT ask. haha f^ck i hate people who are loud and annoying. like the person outside my window right now... if you wine i will leave... these questions are soooo hard to answet peach.... sooo hard. im sorry...

4. hmmm they are such little things i apreciate at the moment. almost impossible to recal right now... i havent been in a serious relationship in a while so my thoughts are on the people im getting to know right now. but im in another country so my life has turned upside down. hehe.

5. never. never

6. understanding of the cappy. we are predictable people and i love a person who uplifts my world. loyalty... sigh... i have yet to see it.... love to me is something i ffeel... inside.... when theres this magnetic attraction... this little place in my head and heart that has opend up to the person. opened up like a little nest for them to stay.

7. right now i will feel out the girl and i will commit pretty easly if a lot of the above is there. im single so im feeling pretty desperate. haha as for a complete commitment of marriage... i dunno... listen to E... im only a wee child

8. i do think about past relationships! i think of them as great learning curvs. the experiences i have gained will always be there. not for worse ever... always for the better.

9. sex... i know it's not everything and it can't be. it is just one of natures best ways of expressing ones love to each other. i assosiate sex with love... and i am not experiened enought to speek otherwise.

and mmm i just bought some lovely peaches today... so plummp and juicy. i love the fuzzy skin too. peaches are great for dissert!

OAF~ Thanks bunches. You sweet thing🙂

Yeah...we got two male caps to actually answer these questions. 🙂 Awesome peach.

Oaf you need a big hug and some snuggle time. Snuggles to you. 🙂

Okay guys...what I want to know is actions and body language. I know that this is a very wierd question and I know that I've brought it up before. I just want to know...because I was reading about guys and what their body language is telling you. I don't think that everything they were saying was entirely true. So from a Capricorn's perspective what kinds of body language or actions do you use to show certain emotions towards a lady that you like. 🙂 Just curious.

gemgem~ do you recall the article I posted a couple weeks ago? I thought it was pretty good article to know the body language of people you are dating. You know if a guy is attracted to you - they clearly shows it in body language regardless the sign. My first cap clearly showed all the body language listed in the article so there was no doubt that the strong attraction was mutual. I date other guys now they show theirs differently but it is there. Funny thing is that my third cap is more reserved than any other guys I am dating (so it is hard to read his body language) but he surely ask me out and I hear from him (email or call) pretty much daily - more consistent than any other guys.

Yeah I think that some of them show with body language whereas others don't pussyfoot around and just show it through their actions. Aggrevation!

you is just peachy keen