realization

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lildol
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Ok, I've come to a realization (and maybe I shouldn't divulge this - although some of you may have recognized this about me in the past)... I can be a little pushy when it comes to relationships. As a cap I am guarded, very much so and many would describe me that way, especially if I'm just not sure about someone - but, those folks usually don't get a chance in the end anyway. But, when I really like someone, I jump right in, try to control the situation (not the person, the direction) and I tend to move in that direction quickly. This tends to have the opposite effect than what I am looking for :/ I end up seeking reassurance of my position and the direction things are headed (I need to know it's not a lost cause). I become overwhelmed and I guess I don't know how to handle/control it. I try to keep myself in check, but always falter. Is this my Gem moon or my Sag Venus ruling my love life and what advise can you give so I don't trip and fall again?