Scorpio/Capricorn relationships

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scorpiobabe
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19 Years

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Hi All,
I'm new to this board, trying to read all the topics, some are old some new, and some I dont have time to read everything from the first page to the last 4 so I thought I'd start this new topic. Calling all and any Scorps that is with a Cap or Caps that is with a Scorp. relationships here. I am looking for others in theses two signs in a relationship basis. What you have gone thru, what you are going thru now. The highs and lows. Things you've realized about the other sign, things you wish you knew when you were going thru things. Things you wonder about the other sign. Just about everything to help support each other and discuss the highs and lows of these two signs.
I've been dating a Capricorn for a month and a half. For the first half it was everyday, attentive, exciting, he was always wanting to talk on the phone or come see me everyday then it went to once or twice a week for the second half of this time period. Its gotten now where we finally defined our relationship as b/f & g/f to be exclusive. But in the past week, when I call or text him, he doesnt answer it. it may take him a day to get back to me or not even texting me or calling me. Is this normal for a cap? and why do they do that? When he wants to talk, he calls me any time of day even in the middle of the night and I'm always here. I really dont know how to trust this undependability. When he needs me or wants to talk I'm there, but for him, its like he's not there for me. Am I suppose to just be patient and deal with it to be with him? or is there something I can do or say to him to make him respond sooner? I've told him that I like him to call me more and I have worked harder to contact him more and more as well. Are caps the type that if they feel secure, they dont have to work as hard and now he can come and go as they please? Should I be concern about him cheating or lying to me about the things he does when he gives me a reason like he didnt have his phone ringer on, or he was just chillin, or sleeping when I called and doesnt call me for like a day or two later? Its like he acts like nothing happened and the day wasnt there.
Also he always yells or gets so involved with other people taht has nothing to do with me. Screamng about how bad drivers are, or how his friends did this stupid thingand yelling aobut it to me. Like what does that got to do with me? so I dont want to hear it and tell him so and asked him to lower his voice, so then he goes on about why it matters to him and all that and keeps being mroe and more meaner and negative about the thing when all i want to do is not hear about it. Its not like he's yelling at me, he's yelling about the peole around him to me. Its bother some. Makes us both in a negative mood then. Is this a common Cap male thing? Usually arent they suppose to be a really calm easy going like he usually is? He's had a pretty hard life, can this make him tough and voicefull aobut it and he's just created this wall attitude (becuase he treats me like honey when he's with me)?
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scorpiobabe
@scorpiobabe
19 Years

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thanks SB. I think I will try that next time he yells at me about someone else. That's amazing how a word can just remedy something that I struggle with communication with him. I will try using "useless" with him.
If my cap male is not returning my phone calls for a day or two, should I worry when we just defined our relationship to b/f & g/f? Is he just comfortable now with our situation and focused on his own life or is this something I should worry about? He's the one who wanted the commitment. I'm the one who was hesitant about having an "exclusive" relationship up to this point. I finally said I would be fine to define it if that is what he wants. He said that is what he wants. He doesnt care what we call each other as long as its exclusive. but now after we did that, its like he's all incommunicado with me when I call him. Stresses me to know end. Wondering if anything has happened to him or if he's changed his mind, now not wanting me?? It drives me crazy to have it so unpredictable of when I will see him or hear from him? What do I do?