for about three and 1/2 months and then he broke it off. I asked him right then and there if he just wanted to be friends because he didn't seem happy and he said he guess that would be the best thing for right now time will tell. This was last month some time, then i asked him if he was cool with being just friends a day later and he said he has no time for anything else and that he think he jumped into the relationship too fast. He went on vacation with his guy friends a couple of weeks ago after this conversation and i had stopped calling him and he called me and said why i don't call him anymore and in the same sentence he asked me to do him a favor by putting $ 60 in his bank account. I was so shocked because i never in a million years would thing he would give me or trust me with his account number because of girls doing him dirty in the past and stealing from him. Lastnight we met back up because he gave me back my money and ask me if i had a boyfriend yet and i said no i don't have a boyfriend. He also asked me what i was doing later in the week but i really didn't respond. He said that he would call me but i know he won't. He is always updating me on new job offers and the moves he will make soon. He says he just want to make money and i guest that is concern right now. I just feel like he is the one for me and i need to be in his life for some reason. I feel like i need to be the one to mend his heart for some reason. I am in love with him and i know 3 month is too soon but we connected from the day we met and i don't know what happen. I can get a little carried away with calling him and texting him but i stopped. My question to you is do you feel i should move on or hold on and keep being his friend? Or should i just move on?. And about the account number thing was that a test to see if he can trust me?
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Money involved in any equation means......simply move on...he has..he's with his groovey crew in guy land!!!!!!...think he was thinking of you..at any stage of the play..no!! he using you for money love....don't be foolosh........move on quickly and smoothly and no going back!!!! Love him or hate him, he's still using you........
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THE ACCOUNT NO. THINGY IS JUST TO SEE HOW EASILY YOU CAN BE USED AND FOOLED...........YOU WANT TO GIVE YUR MONEY AWAY...DO IT....IF NOT.....DONT GIVE YOUR PIN NO.........SORRY IF THIS SOUNDS OVERTHETOP.....BUTANY GUY WHO HAS TO ASK A GIRL FOR MONEY IS NOT TO BE FILED IN MY BOOK!!
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I think that by you being a Scorpio... you have a natural tendency to "feel what he wants and needs" so you probably gave him too much. Stop giving him so much... and do not give him anymore of your money. Even if he promises to pay you back. If you want to stand out in his mind, be the woman who doesn't give to him until he earns it.
If you notice, he became interested in you again once you stopped calling and texting him. So continue to do that... do not call or text him. Let him do the work to be with you.. you are the prize and he wants to feel as though he has a prize.
A lot of women make a mistake by giving a man too much, too early in the relationship. It's only been 3 months and he should still be "chasing" you down and trying to impress you. Just back off from him and let him come around. And when he does... make his ass work for you. No more going into your pocket book to keep him happy. Keep yourself happy, that's money that you could use to get your nails done LOL.
Good luck sweetie. ~~Capricorn Mermaid
If you notice, he became interested in you again once you stopped calling and texting him. So continue to do that... do not call or text him. Let him do the work to be with you.. you are the prize and he wants to feel as though he has a prize.
A lot of women make a mistake by giving a man too much, too early in the relationship. It's only been 3 months and he should still be "chasing" you down and trying to impress you. Just back off from him and let him come around. And when he does... make his ass work for you. No more going into your pocket book to keep him happy. Keep yourself happy, that's money that you could use to get your nails done LOL.
Good luck sweetie. ~~Capricorn Mermaid
When he gave you his account number... you should have said, Hey, I don't feel comfortable with your account number, because if you bounce a check... I don't want you to blame me when your account has a negative balance LOL.
It's not a compliment that he gave you his account number, he probably never has any money in his account anyway.... hence the need to ask you for $ 60.
He is not worried about anyone taking money from his account, because he doesn't have any in there LOL. Do you get what we are saying?
You sound like a sweet woman and he is taking your sweetness as weakness.
It's not a compliment that he gave you his account number, he probably never has any money in his account anyway.... hence the need to ask you for $ 60.
He is not worried about anyone taking money from his account, because he doesn't have any in there LOL. Do you get what we are saying?
You sound like a sweet woman and he is taking your sweetness as weakness.
Totally agree with Mermaid... That's like something you'd tell your mother or parents when you're in college... "could you put some money in my account?" Blech!
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