Scorpio woman interested in a Capricorn guy

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Hello everyone, I am new to this site and I was intrigued by some of the cap/scorp stories that I decided to write my own and hopes of getting some good feedback. Im a 23 year old scorp head over hills with a 21 year old cappy, I met this Capricorn guy back in sept. He always came into my job and spoke but I never quite notice him until he actually introduced himself with a handshake and a bright smile. From there on I was mysteriously hooked. We had mutual friends so they helped us connect within a couple of days. He called me everyday multiple times a day and made sure he seen me. I wasn't use to this type of attention and was a little sacred off at first but I melted on the inside. Within a week I made the big mistake and slept with him, at first things seemed like nothing changed but then they did as a typical guy reaction he figured I was too easy. However we still remained on talking and hanging out terms and he still came into my job but I had to initiate everything! Just when I thought I was probably bugging him he told me he really liked our relationship and how we can talk about things and just chill, suggesting we should stop having sex. My heart dropped because I seen this as a sign that just maybe it was still a chance for something to blossom. Feeling pretty confident, I thought everything was good until he did the —disappearing act?? for the next week. When we met up again things just seemed really tensed for no reason and the vibe was all wrong and then it happened we clashed. As a scorpio, I tend to let out all my frustrations like a bomb, he backed away because Ive became —attached??. Things never really became back to normal after but he would come around here and there to just leave again and again would still come into my job to sometimes speak and to something just look stupid like he wants to say something. The last time we talked we laughed we talked we hugged then again he disappeared. I always wondered did me graduating college and moving back to my hometown (about an hour away) had to do with anything because he was quite frequently brought up in almost all our arguments. — youre about to graduate?? —your there and im still going to be here?? —why cant you say forget me and move on— little things like that. I said I was done with him but I am so smitten with this guy its crazy.....
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Cont.... As far as a simple text that says —happy birthday?? or —merry Christmas?? I have not spoken to him since the day I left until I called him today for an opinion. I was so nervous but surprised he picked up the phone because at one point he completely stopped. Not only did he give me an unbiased honest opinion we made small talk for a min afterwards. Maybe I am just desperate and looking for a little hope but I do believe if I just sit on my hands for a min and not be so aggressive backing him into a corner that says my way now! That he may just come around someday. Have any of you had any similar experiences?
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^^^^ This is a possibility.

Could be he could be using you as a option. Someone to hook up with.

However, the arguments that included your moving back home leads me to consider another possibility. Could be that he feels he doesn't want to hold you back from any career choices you will be making or considering. If you get a job offer far away, he would want you to take it and would understand and wouldn't want to keep you from an awesome career move. He might not respect you for not taking the opportunity - you know how we are about our careers. Thus, he could be afraid of getting hurt if he allows himself to develop feelings and then you leave to a town 500 miles away. So in his mind, let you go now before those feelings get deep and he protects himself in the long run.

—? Just a possibility.
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TrueCap I thought of this being a possibility also since it was brought up a million times. As much as i hate to admit it I do understand, who knows where I'll be six months from now. Im not usually the one to dwell but I dont know why this one is so hard to bite the bullet.

And sorry for the long "paragraph" I'll surely remember to go easy on the eyes next time lol
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Posted by Striking
"A nice gift for your Capricorn husband would be a book of poems, the more romantic the better"

O wow this is so true, I write poems and each one my Cap just loves them he smiles and says baby that was awesome!!
I had no idea it was a Cap man thing...



me a cappy hea...DONT u ever give a book to cappy...thats treetrunk...i would like to have a creed cologne...a pack of davidof cigars...a leather jacket or clark shoes...an Affordable but classic tissot watch....mont blanc pen..thats what we cappy jerks do...

chill😉
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Posted by QUlETstorm
Posted by Striking
"A nice gift for your Capricorn husband would be a book of poems, the more romantic the better"

O wow this is so true, I write poems and each one my Cap just loves them he smiles and says baby that was awesome!!
I had no idea it was a Cap man thing...



Yeah they prefer hand written things (poems, letters etc) over hallmark cards
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i cant take my eyes off u......