Staring is very virgo like.

I've noticed caps have the stare too or at least glance at you. This behaviour very much like a virgo.. the whole analyzing thing but ive noticed a subtle difference.

This at least has proven to be true with cap friend number 1, 2 and 3. They all had this look everytime I looked into their eyes, they were just so romantic starry eyed look. Pretty deep and sexy if you ask me.

in conclusion i like those sexy cap eyes. ^_^ lol
i dont know if sexy is the right word. but you know what I mean. mmm.

is this how you guys attract? turn on that look you give? because it sure works for me. 😄

what do you think? true or no?

true...True...TRUE!!!

My cap had the stare...it was intimidating. It felt like I was prey to him.

He would stare for a long time and when I'd say, "What?", he would just shake his head. I wish I knew what he was thinking.

Guy or Girl Capri. I am a girl cappy and we stare if we are attracted to you for sure. We are studying you like Virgs, every detail, its also a protective thing we do to make sure you are okay if we are out with you somewhere. We will always keep a watchful eye to help you not invade your privacy. We are like Virgos in that sense with the stare, we will intensely fix on you. The males I know will look you up and down, my ex was like this, there is no hiding they like what they see and it will be in their eyes for sure. The guys I have been with always say I get this look in my eye that is intense if I am intimate with them almost like Im looking past into them, the same if we are in a crowded room with you. We usually only see you, or at least that is how I and a friend of mine I know are in what we see through our eyes. But we are also Cappies with many Virgo signs in our natal charts so perhaps its a mix of the two signs making that apparent to some.

Caps have THEE patience so they're slow but not in a bad way. So between all that is the whole 'disappearing act' supposed to be normal? I mean for a commitment phobic cap, if such thing exists.
I sense the whole 'we usually only see you' vibes but whats with the games? You know.. You exist! you don't exist, you exist again! etc etc.

The disappearing act is normal pretty much. It's not so much committment phobic..its needing of reassurance that you are serious in your affections towards us. Most of us, we love being in something, nothing more secure knowing we are with just that one special person in our lives. We live for it honestly. It's just we need to KNOW, to be front and center and not disappear. Because once you have us, you have ALL of us, our emotions included and that makes us very vulnerable to be in that spot. So, we want to feel secure first. The patience is for sure, because if we are sure of you, we could wear down a mountain waiting on you to show this side if we haven't seen the signs yet, lol But too some male caps, I've had one that pursued me for 3 years before he made a move, haha but it seemed normal considering I was one myself. It's the "sitting on the fence awaiting the other person scenerio"..often with us I feel.

The second reason may be that, we like to give others their own space and not be up in their stuff. We want to respect your time and life outside knowing us. So we will remain behind the scenes awaiting you at times for contact. This is mainly in the beginning of dating/knowing someone till some routine is established in seeing each other. Same goes for conversing with us either by writing/talking on the phone. We don't want to not respect your private time. Or at least I dont and few caps I know act this way with giving people space. I think my virgo at the time me doing this read me as disinterested honestly however I was just confused of his intentions being serious at all, so I gave him all the space he seemed to need.

Another thing is sometimes in the beginning if things move fast, all the sudden or in a romantic direction in general, we get scared for the moment. I've felt this before. We may need a day to take control of our emotions and get back into your world but we will get there if you just give us a second to adjust. It is allowing control, being someone is making us feel something strongly. So just need a second to breathe and get back in. I've done that once before but never regularly. I think everyone gets to that point sometimes though. Expressing our hearts isn't easy for a lot of us and reaching out intimately if the signs you are interested in us are suttle. But again if you bonk us over the head with what you want straigthforward usually it's an instant connection.

He would stare for a long time and when I'd say, "What?", he would just shake his head. I wish I knew what he was thinking.

He's thinking about ripping your clothes off...

Thanks capricorn31, thats gives me a lot of insight. Very detailed! I appreciate
Is there anything other cap secrets I should know? before I go and make a fool of myself..

yeah even people with Cap Moons tend to stare .......oh and they have such lovely stares....🙂

Don't worry. They're just checking out your pimples and trying to find the best cure.

Good thing I don't have pimples.