stillwater, creepypants and truecap help!!

you mean woman where are you ohh there you are lol jk.( that line was more for Stillwater lol jk) where have you been. hope all is well but its been about 3 weeks if im counting right since that last incident with the cap woman in the bar no contact what so ever. she was mad when I left so that's where things left off I honestly mean this when I say it ive been moving on kind of fast but being up here made me think of her especially when I saw a post about when a cap woman liking someone its funny no one has yet to post something up here about cap woman in a dilemma with her ex bf. she doesn't know whether she wanted to stay or go but im not there like I used to be so I don't know whats going on with her,i just wanted to ask you ladies should I reach out or just continue on the path that im in. of course when I think about her a bunch of what ifs pop up but I hate to live like that id rather be told no than be stuck in the middle. I cant lie I think about her now and then

For now, I'd just keep going the path you're on. If she's still in limbo over the ex, then she's not ready to have something with you. She's just not in the right place right now. We can be stubborn and keep trying in a relationship that's going no where. It's hard for us to give up. So, my advice is give it time and see what happens. If she breaks free of him, she will need time to heal from that. Once she's healed, she might be more open to you.

thanks truecap

Stillwater I cant answer number 1 until that day comes. if it does. but for number 2 yes I can endure that because things take time so that's a given so give me your best info baby girl.

and cheekyfaerie no I didn't she stood me up. first time ever being stood I was quite surprised and the funny thing about that I saw her the following week because her class is right by the gym I work out at and work in on campus. and I see her walk past through my peripheral and she tries so much to dodge me I just laugh because its so funny like really its not that serious just be honest with me if your not into me im fine with that but those childish acts gets me upset. and I didn't approach her on purpose just to see if should even stop and say hi and or apologize. not even through a text she never attempted. what kills me is that she asked for me number and wanted to go out that's why im so confused but no. no date

as much as my pisces moon wants to say reach out... truecap and stillwater are right... you've done more than enough and the ball is in her court.

i think the path that you are on is perfect. you've followed your heart. there's no doubt in my mind and that's good.

her eyes will open soon enough and she'll think of you and wish the timing had been more right. which... if that does in fact end up being the case, and you still like her enough... maybe the next contact you make with her just lay it out there... "i like you. you should know this by now, but clearly you arent sure about me. if things ever become clear, you know how to reach me, but just know my life carries on. you never know what tomorrow brings."

...something to that effect. you accomplish a lot with something like that... you stay on the same path that you're on, while telling her how you feel, making it known that the ball is in her court, and definitely planting the seed that she needs to wake up.

boom.

chase who Stillwater? sometimes im confused by your responses no one is chasing anyone I was just asking for advice im so confused. who do I want? in those two scenarios I was just looking to vent im not going after anyone. its been 4 weeks as of today since I spoke to that cap woman ive been moving on quite fine actually im bumping into females everywhere like yesterday when I was on campus I just said she crossed my mind when I came across one of the cap forums. and I was just wondering to reach out to her not beg her to be with me or some shit lol. hell no.

but yeah the girl that stood me up im done with its whatever things happen. this post wasn't for her in fact the night she did that the next morning I didn't even know her name or number it was out my phone because as quickly as I got her number same could happen to someone else. in all honesty when I saw her at the bar now thinking back on how she was rubbing her leg on me and what not I think back and say maybe that was suppose to be a one night stand lol. but to be honest again I wasn't paying attention to her much because that's the night I went to see the cap woman when she got back from her vacation. but its alright sooner or later those females will regret because I know where im headed in life. thanks truecap, Stillwater and creepypants

it is only one Stillwater. the one and only cap woman works as a bartender but I met another girl at the bar she works at one night I actually went to see her. it was sag girl. she stood me up

xxoo lol you just told me your account was messed up smh

stop your mess xxoo not my fault you've been a ghost when ive inbox you for this matter before bringing it public but your assistance wasn't available lol. I missed you though and your advice can be put anywhere no need for invitation or special attention stop your mess now tell me whats going on inbox me

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