territorial or freedom loving

say you are out with your significant other in a social setting. through a crowd of people you notice someone hitting on your lover. how do you react? are you the type to make your way over and step in? are you the type to observe how your s.o. handles it? or are you somewhere in between, or an extreme?

for me its hard to say, but to start... im sure my head would lower, jaw set, my gaze locked on straight away, and i'd flash a wild grin.

...to start. :p

freedom loving! give him the space to say he is in a relationship, rather than swoop down, and make all uncomfortable.. I've been in that situation, and you're right about the grin! That could happen the other way around too. How would you like your man to handle it? Some people do like the territorial bit,.. It's just not for me in either case.

Yes men are often found out looking at other women whilst with their partners..If he was doing this regularly I would have to give him a taste of his own medicine. We have eyes too..

In this situation, I would just go over there and join him. Devastate the other girl with a look but be utterly sweet whilst talking to her..of course it all depends whether I can be bothered or not.

Yes the close friend thing happened to me actually. But I am of the confrontational nature and have no qualms about pulling her aside and saying your stepping on my toes with your wedges love, kindly step aside before I destroy you with my Monolos! 😉

I could never steal someone else's property and I don't like it done to me. Those who do it have no respect for someone else's property and need to be taught.

But I am quite a vivacious host and usually do end up having a blast with the other persons boyfriend..tsk tsk..

"your stepping on my toes with your wedges love, kindly step aside before I destroy you with my Monolos!"

I love that!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

🙂

I think I would see how my s.o. reacts- all the while feeling jealous. 🙂 I guess I would also have to feel some sense of pride- that's my guy and he's going home with me. 🙂 However....if it seemed like he was leading the conversation in an unfavorable way, I would probably go over and establish the status quo- and have a talk with my love later- sometimes I think people don't know when they're sending signals.....best thing to do is to communicate that rather than being mad and letting those feelings fester...

I figure - if they really love you - they'll be true and always come back for more - if not - it may have never meant to be - it's hard to tell cause some would rather have the attention while others wanna see how their significant other will react - but again - depending on the person - they may either want to be rescued from the situation or they may be able to hold their own - I guess the best way to judge is to judge the overall character and personality of that significant other? 😛)