The Cap That Keeps Coming Back

I dont think he has an actual girlfriend because he works a lot but one never knows.. haha.

Sounds like he definitely wants the sex part, but you’ve laid down the law and now he’s got the checkers out, weighing the pros and cons. We’re not a sign known for volunteering into committed, romantic relationships easily.

They do that. Because once they have their eye on it it’s their mission. My cap did that to me for months before i gave in sexually. I didn’t give him unlimatums though i just went with it. I was suspicious because i knew he comes back and forth like yours so i didn’t know if having sex was a good idea because i like stability. I knew after we had sex he would do the ghost thing and he did lol.

But they come right back. It’s been 8 months since then and he still here. Maybe not here when i want him to be but he’s still here. It really is up to you if you want to chance it but damn it they are so persistent it’s hard to say no after awhile.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
They do that. Because once they have their eye on it it’s their mission. My cap did that to me for months before i gave in sexually. I didn’t give him unlimatums though i just went with it. I was suspicious because i knew he comes back and forth like yours so i didn’t know if having sex was a good idea because i like stability. I knew after we had sex he would do the ghost thing and he did lol.

But they come right back. It’s been 8 months since then and he still here. Maybe not here when i want him to be but he’s still here. It really is up to you if you want to chance it but damn it they are so persistent it’s hard to say no after awhile.

it's so weird, my ex was nothing like that lol everything was so quick with us lol we dated more like few weeks before being sexually involved...he didn't disappear at any point lol but we dated just for few months...he started dating someone else right after we broke up lol but we were still talking the whole time, somehow at some point we met too actually I was being supportive but we ended up having sex again :/ after that I started ignoring him and avoiding meeting again so I guess he didn't quite have the chance to do that coming and leaving thing with me lol

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Patience on both ends needs to be present because some caps and quick to get i to bed with you

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
They do that. Because once they have their eye on it it’s their mission. My cap did that to me for months before i gave in sexually. I didn’t give him unlimatums though i just went with it. I was suspicious because i knew he comes back and forth like yours so i didn’t know if having sex was a good idea because i like stability. I knew after we had sex he would do the ghost thing and he did lol.

But they come right back. It’s been 8 months since then and he still here. Maybe not here when i want him to be but he’s still here. It really is up to you if you want to chance it but damn it they are so persistent it’s hard to say no after awhile.

it's so weird, my ex was nothing like that lol everything was so quick with us lol we dated more like few weeks before being sexually involved...he didn't disappear at any point lol but we dated just for few months...he started dating someone else right after we broke up lol but we were still talking the whole time, somehow at some point we met too actually I was being supportive but we ended up having sex again :/ after that I started ignoring him and avoiding meeting again so I guess he didn't quite have the chance to do that coming and leaving thing with me lol

Patience on both ends needs to be present because some caps and quick to get i to bed with you

yeah, that's my ex pretty much...he's that player kind of guy, always having multiple options. I mentioned him before somewhere, beside me at the time I knew about 4 other women he had something to do with lol

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Do they have multiple options? Idk about that i find that they are working most of the time.

Posted by ItsMeRoman
Have you tried walking up to him and slapping his penis?

LMAO!!



Thanks for the replies all. The in/out is so annoying! LOL Specially with our chemistry and things we have in common, some of these things very few women will have with him... I also fit what a Cap man looks for. haha.

I just keep living my life and before I know it someone will blaze in out of nowhere like he did and he will lose. I get taking some time as I do, I have a Cap Venus but, sheesh...

and what good would come from that? to scare him off? She can still talk, can simply say I'm done with you, don't ever call me again. If that's what she wanted, which clearly isn't



Yes. Not giving up yet but not like Im waiting either. haha. I'll just go do my thing and if its meant to be it will be.

Thanks again all. I hit this forum looking up his behavior...