This Cap does not fit the description

of Cap men that I read about online in various sites (he's also a Venus in Cap, Moon in Virgo, doesn't this all = SLOW??). He seems to be much more fast-moving (been single for 4 years) and I'm wondering if anyone here could explain why? He told me he loves me last week when we've known each other less than 2 months! He was so sweet, he was nervous and he was about to leave my place to go to work, but I knew something was up because he wasn't leaving (I was going away on a trip for a week, out of the country so no calls/text), kept holding me, and finally said he had to tell me something but was afraid to...of course I knew what was coming when he said that but I told him he could tell me and to not be afraid. I was a little uncomfortable, and even though I couldn't say it back at this point, I explained my fears about getting close to someone, but at the same time I think I reassured him that it was okay he said it. Also, later on we talked more about stuff in a phone conversation. He said he hopes I don't feel like I'm being pressured, and he understands where I'm at and it's "cool". I'm glad we were able to really communicate about these things. Since then, I went away and came back and I was able to text him a few times and he stayed in touch too. He was pet sitting for me, so he had my key this week. When I got back home there was a vase of flowers in my fav color on my dining table and a 6 pack of my fav beer in the fridge 🙂 What a doll!! I'm smitten 🙂

Sun Capricorn 9??11'36 in house 7 direct
Moon Virgo 9??40'51 in house 4 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 21??12'29 in house 6 retrograde
Venus Capricorn 3??52'18 in house 7 direct
Mars Leo 9??18'19 end of house 2 retrograde
Jupiter Gemini 29??59'57 end of house 12 retrograde
Saturn Virgo 0??11'55 in house 3 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15??16'02 in house 5 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 16??42'24 in house 6 direct
Pluto Libra 16??35'16 in house 5 direct
True Node Libra 10??23'11 in house 5 retrograde

He sees you as a keeper!

Posted by M
To each (cap) their own. Maybe you were like a key for the venus cap tumbler? It might be fast now, but I wonder if things get dolled out at an even place down the line. I think his chart looks good. Anyone else?

Yes, I'm sure things will change down the line, I don't expect it to last, people change, but am enjoying it for now.

Posted by thxbutnothx
Details - Sun conjunct Venus

"They are romantic and sometimes romantically impulsive"

Definitely - Love first and think later haha

I hope the love is true! I won't lie, I'm scared shitless to get close to someone, and to express my feelings for him back in the same way, (the L word in particular) especially when he has come on so strong, like it's too good to be true.

Well, after talking to him a little more, I'm realizing that maybe it's more about the compatibility than his own chart. We are both crazy for each other, although yes I was slow to feel it, each time I see him I realize how much I really like him, my feelings are all tangled up in what we have physically and emotionally. He said he's naturally reluctant to surrender emotionally, that it's scary, but with me it's different. We both shared about the intense and overwhelming feelings we have for the other other, how we weren't expecting it (he said he didn't think I was out there, and for me I thought I was just dating, wasn't sure how much I even liked him the 1st two dates) but how it feels so right. Maybe it's just the plain ol' being in love phase and it will wear off, but I hope not!

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I think the cap venus and virgo moon would be very slow and very cautious!!! HOWEVER, he does have a Leo mars, which isn't bad.

I'd be wary, usually men that move into love very fast, move out of love very fast. Make him slow down and pace it to see if it maintains. Two months is really, really fast for that venus/moon placement. ALTHOUGH, if he sees you as a quality person, then he has made his decision that you're worthy.

An excerpt of Leo mars from alwaysastrology.com

"In relationships, they are affectionate and demonstrative. They love the excitement of a new love affair. They like to be the center of attention in the bedroom as much as they like it in the other areas of their life. Mars in Leo is very dramatic, and they enjoy opulent surroundings. They are passionate and charming. They don't like competition in the bedroom or with past lovers. They are faithful, and expect to be treated the same way. While they do pay attention to their partner, their primary concern is their own enjoyment. They may be possessive or jealous, but they may try to hide this. Leo Mars is not above testing their partner. They may try to pull the wool over your eyes from time to time. They may come across too strong at times or get impatient, but they are open and direct.

Mars in Leo brings a lot of fun and romance to a relationship, and they appreciate a partner who reciprocates in kind. Their enthusiasm may be a bit overwhelming for some people. When their ego becomes involved in the relationship, it can disrupt an otherwise happy situation. They want to be happy and settled with someone they can have a fun, romantic relationship with."

Just make sure that he's in love with you instead of in love with love.

That's all I'm saying.