THIS CAPRICORN WOMAN!

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I'm confused I have this officemate who was a Capricorn.
She have this man in her photos that always tags her and always posted their pictures with a caption like "Feeling inlove" and they look like a couple when I asked her she said that they're not in a relationship when it feels like it because of their posts and photos. Now, I really like her but I tried to stay away thinking that it might be her boyfriend but whenever I'm with her this developed when we started talking about something we truly love "creating films and painting" so she was so hooked on the conversation we didn't mind our workload. We used to be distant to one another but then after that conversation she started touching me like slapping my shoulders. Then she invited all of us to her art exhibit. There, I met the guy and he looks crazy then they look like they were having fun talking then the guy started pinching her arms and she started to dislike it and asks the guy to stop but the guy continued but you could see how irritated she is. Then when we started the program we were seated to each other and the guy are with us too. The guy started pinching her again and he told the guy to stop and she talked to me happily and when she accidentaly poured food on my pants she tries to clean it with her hands but I stopped her because it's embarassing but she smiled. Sorry I just don't understand what I missed... they look like a couple but she told me before that they are not going out... and I don't get her at all and it's different because she asks me to go with her on an exhibit without the guy and she only invited me not our other officemates.

-_- I just want to know if she likes that guy because if she do... I'll stand back... but if it's not I'll try to pursue more... I just don't want to hurt someone's feelings... the guy looks crazy but good.
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Posted by sagisagi
I'm confused I have this officemate who was a Capricorn.
She have this man in her photos that always tags her and always posted their pictures with a caption like "Feeling inlove" and they look like a couple when I asked her she said that they're not in a relationship when it feels like it because of their posts and photos. Now, I really like her but I tried to stay away thinking that it might be her boyfriend but whenever I'm with her this developed when we started talking about something we truly love "creating films and painting" so she was so hooked on the conversation we didn't mind our workload. We used to be distant to one another but then after that conversation she started touching me like slapping my shoulders. Then she invited all of us to her art exhibit. There, I met the guy and he looks crazy then they look like they were having fun talking then the guy started pinching her arms and she started to dislike it and asks the guy to stop but the guy continued but you could see how irritated she is. Then when we started the program we were seated to each other and the guy are with us too. The guy started pinching her again and he told the guy to stop and she talked to me happily and when she accidentaly poured food on my pants she tries to clean it with her hands but I stopped her because it's embarassing but she smiled. Sorry I just don't understand what I missed... they look like a couple but she told me before that they are not going out... and I don't get her at all and it's different because she asks me to go with her on an exhibit without the guy and she only invited me not our other officemates.

-_- I just want to know if she likes that guy because if she do... I'll stand back... but if it's not I'll try to pursue more... I just don't want to hurt someone's feelings... the guy looks crazy but good.



Sounds to me like he likes her and she doesn't like him.
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Posted by sagisagi
THANK YOU SO MUCH! but what happens if I kinda snob her? would she snob back? because I didn't reply on her last message on fb she;s doing the seenzone pace... and so little reply... capricorn do they do that? because I know caps are snobs right?



No, don't snob her to get her attention. That's a game and she'll see right through it, then she'll lose respect for you.

Just be yourself, be authentic (VERY important).

Just don't come on too strong or clingy - that's a turn off. I mean don't text or message her all day long. Once a day is enough.
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Yeah I won't ignore her now... but hey I checked the guys tumblr and I saw this picture of her and the guy laying on the grass and it seems like they are sweet... and there are other pics of them too... the guy is always with her and posting her... but I don't know why she don't want to admit that they are in a relationship... I don't know if I should continue this... I don't really know what to think... I saw her with the guy again in their group exhibit... he's always there for her... I'm busy with work and all... but I tried to come... I don't know what to do...
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- You asked her if they were in a relationship and she said no.

- She doesn't seem to like him.

- He posts pics of her, not the other way around.

No one on the planet would blame you for making a move. And like the others have already stated: don't play any games with her and don't smother her. She seems to like you, so I think you will be fine.

Stop worrying - just go for it! 🙂
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Oh, and just because there is a pic of the two, doesn't mean it was taken today. This could have been taken years ago - you don't know. Maybe they WERE in a relationship or really good friends. Maybe he's her best friend's brother and she doesn't want to be rude to him.

My point: you don't know. Don't assume things. That will/may make you paranoid and someone you don't want to be.
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Just ask her directly if she's dating him. Why in the world would you put yourself through this struggle? She's a Cappy. We like men who are direct & to the point. We prefer Alpha males who can get the job done, in all areas of our lives. Simply pull her aside, on a lunch break, or after work is done, & ask her if she is involved with him. If she says he's just a friend, then ask her out yourself, period. If she says no to you then you have your answer & you can stop stalking her on her social media sites & at work. I think you're sort of creepy in your behavior. Why do you care if he's pinching her? It's none of your business what she's doing in her personal life. You're not her lover, her husband, or her family member. You seem like you're stalking her & thats scary.
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Posted by sagisagi
I'm confused I have this officemate who was a Capricorn.
She have this man in her photos that always tags her and always posted their pictures with a caption like "Feeling inlove" and they look like a couple when I asked her she said that they're not in a relationship when it feels like it because of their posts and photos. Now, I really like her but I tried to stay away thinking that it might be her boyfriend but whenever I'm with her this developed when we started talking about something we truly love "creating films and painting" so she was so hooked on the conversation we didn't mind our workload. We used to be distant to one another but then after that conversation she started touching me like slapping my shoulders. Then she invited all of us to her art exhibit. There, I met the guy and he looks crazy then they look like they were having fun talking then the guy started pinching her arms and she started to dislike it and asks the guy to stop but the guy continued but you could see how irritated she is. Then when we started the program we were seated to each other and the guy are with us too. The guy started pinching her again and he told the guy to stop and she talked to me happily and when she accidentaly poured food on my pants she tries to clean it with her hands but I stopped her because it's embarassing but she smiled. Sorry I just don't understand what I missed... they look like a couple but she told me before that they are not going out... and I don't get her at all and it's different because she asks me to go with her on an exhibit without the guy and she only invited me not our other officemates.

-_- I just want to know if she likes that guy because if she do... I'll stand back... but if it's not I'll try to pursue more... I just don't want to hurt someone's feelings... the guy looks crazy but good.


From whatever you said it seems like that guy is into her but she doesn't like him. If you really like her then Go ahead. All the best
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Posted by SeaGoat2628
We like men who are direct & to the point. We prefer Alpha males who can get the job done, in all areas of our lives. Simply pull her aside, on a lunch break, or after work is done, & ask her if she is involved with him. If she says he's just a friend, then ask her out yourself, period. If she says no to you then you have your answer


I totally agree with this