What's with cap women and mothering?

Not that it's bad. But I keep getting mothered and smothered by cap girls/women continuously at any point of life. The way they do it can be condescending or suffocating and esmasculating.

They're equally or more sensitive than virgos I know and can overeact when you tell them, even gently.

Btw I get this from cancer women as well except they're usually older me and thus so. Cap girls/women just do it because they think they're at a later stage of life than me or something.

Come to momma 😆

What does their charts look like? It sounds like there's water involved here because cancers and Pisces can be motherly.

Mothering? In what way? Sometimes if I care enough, I'll check in on you. Lol generally I'm not good with keeping in contact with people, but if I like you I'll do a "check up" text/call just to see how you're doing every now and then. Kind of motherly..?

I don't like it. They can make me vulnerable when they show they care or mother me. ugh.

The con? When they mix work with personal and I'm working with them. They tap into the personal interaction to get what they want at work.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
One of the ways I show care is to dote. Be helpful. Motherly? Maybe sometimes. Tough love? Occasionally. Usually pretty good with sensing boundaries tho. We can come off as pushy so I try to be mindful of that.

Say "I" instead of "we" cause I can't speak for all Cap females, but it's safe to say it's because we/they care.

You can add me to that statement.

Posted by KittenLaRouge
Come to momma 😆

fuck me??_ I need isolate myself on the moon.

Posted by TruePisces5
What does their charts look like? It sounds like there's water involved here because cancers and Pisces can be motherly.

yeah, it does. it's a cancer and pisces trait.

my sisters are fire sun, but one of them has over 60% water. She overtakes mothering with her husband's child, and also they have a baby together so they love children. The other has dominant water too, with earth and fire next, and we joke with our sister that she "coddles" them wayyyy too much; way overprotective. Which personally i believe is a good trait.

although i thought...5th house is children. 4th/10th is family.

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Posted by TruePisces5
What does their charts look like? It sounds like there's water involved here because cancers and Pisces can be motherly.

yeah, it does. it's a cancer and pisces trait.

my sisters are fire sun, but one of them has over 60% water. She overtakes mothering with her husband's child, and also they have a baby together so they love children. The other has dominant water too, with earth and fire next, and we joke with our sister that she "coddles" them wayyyy too much; way overprotective. Which personally i believe is a good trait.

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Ugh! You just described me minus having kids. I love them though. Can't wait for motherhood. _