too late im in love

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libra_lis
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18 YearsLibra

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well me n cap are still in love and he asked me to move in w/him 2 weeks ago and i did...im a little confused tho because everything i've heard about cap seems to not b w/this one....he's so upfront w/his feelings tells me he loves me all day through txts etc. but remeber the sex issue well we finally did and it was a bit awkward...not bad but i think hes inexperienced and doesnt want to make it seem like that so we dont really have much sex...im patient though and letting him go at his own pace...I LOVE HIM SOOO SOOO MUCH i dont want to hurt his feelings so i dont bring it up too much..any suggestions?
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MsAristocracy
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18 Years500+ PostsVirgo

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How can you guys assume that there really is a problem? Isn't she the one who's been craving him sexually for some time now? I think the problem was she built it up in her mind to be sooooooooo awesome and it fell short of her fantasy. What she needs to do is try to find the middle ground between fantasy and reality.

It could be the sexual style of Capricorn period. If she is use to being with more passionate signs (and yes that's possible of other signs) then he may not have released that to her yet. Aren't Cappies known for having MUCH passion within them that they do not initially release for fear (not intentional fear but zodiacal fear) of running off their partners?

I have a Cap man in my life and I feel the same way as Libra about sex with him, in fact, I posted about it on another thread (somewheres here). I honestly think it's the holding back of passion. I truly believe my Cap man hasn't much practice in being with an older woman (he's 26( and so the sex isn't all it can be.

Now over time if she finds that they never get to that passionate period that Capricorn men are suppose to unleash when they're absolutely sure of you, then I will agree with Ms. Pisces and Cappywench. But, for now I think she built it up to be more than it would be or is more readily passionate than he is, possibly due to fantasizing about it all this time and he just hasn't met her there yet. You know they're slow goats. Give it time.
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GEMuine
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17 Years

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I agree with you MsAristocracy. If you throw a relationship away because the first time you had sex didn't resemble Jenna Jameson on film, then the guy deserves better anyway. Say he was having a bad day? Or week? Or maybe he IS inexperienced and is freaking out because he wants nothing but to make you happy. That type of stress can make a man perform very poorly. Maybe he's just not ready to show you that side of him. It took me two years to get my Cap to openly tell me when his mind was in the gutter! Before then he would always say he didn't want to "scare me" or "disgust me" or "upset me". They're not the fastest moving people.
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Klover_Fish
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17 Years

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I'm confused, or maybe I'm too old to understand the ways of young people. Now, in late June she still considered herself to be a "single female", by early July it was declared that they had been dating for around "six weeks" It is now August 1st, they are totally in love and have moved in together, but she's still complaining about the sexual aspect of this "relationship". Yup, its official-I dont get it.
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libra_lis
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18 YearsLibra

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its very odd to me to im thinkn maybe he either a.has a problem or b.hasnt really had much sex by the way he is 22 and im 26...he was very hard to get to open up i see it when he meets new people or talks to someone he doesnt like much but now with me hes very open and comfortable and sooo loving but i dont think he's ever had a serious girlfriend before im going to ask him later about that and i also think he's never had a serious sexual relationship....im in love and sex is not everything and i know he has it in him i see/feel it when we're foreplaying but when it comes to IT its like a little plane crashing 😢 ... he also doesnt seem comfortable yet talking dirty...im going to wait it out thank u everyone for your input