The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels.
146 Conjunction Mercury - Saturn
Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.
124 Sextile Sun - Venus
Positive aspect: It's not only about love, it's about "like". It would be a good idea to schedule plenty of leisure time together, especially when other problems arise in the relationship, if only to remind each other how much they truly enjoy each other's company, tastes, and interests. They go well together, they love each other, and feel good, happy and radiant in each other's company. There is much attraction, especially on the part of the Venus person. They are capable of charming each other. Sometimes, they gloss over problems and conflicts just in order to keep the peace, which is not a good idea in the long run.
97 Conjunction Mercury - Uranus
Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.
97 Conjunction Mars - Pluto
Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.
-95 Opposition Venus - Jupiter
Negative aspect: A life together that can be very challenging at times on an intellectual level. Intellectual misunderstandings, diametrically opposed tastes, different ideas.
Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. There is a lot of loyalty between them, and a feeling of responsibility for one another.
79 Conjunction Mercury - Uranus
Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.
45 Sextile Jupiter - Pluto
Positive aspect: A possible union. Your belief systems change and evolve as the result of your relationship. Look at the other aspects to interpret exactly.
It's a long distant relationship but I'm having fun just talking to him. I don't actually understand all these sign things but I was curious. He's REALLLY sweet. Always calls me cute. We email eachother with long paragraphs talking about random things, whatever. All I know is that Cappys are sweet. My cousin is a Sagg like myself, and his girlfriend is a Cappy who happens to be the sweetest girl I've ever known. I'm always stealing her away from my cousin lol we just talk and talk and talk. The cappy I'm talking to has allot of things I like. He's a totle smiley face. On fb ALLL of his photos has a big smile. It's just a big, sweet smile. And he wont stop calling me cute. Which is funny because my cousins girlfriend calls me cute allot too. So I'm guessing cappies like cute..? lol In the middle of those long paragraphs I'm always coming across "you're so cute" and this time it was a "why are you so cute?" Gosh I could kiss this guy already! Just want to grab his face and baby him lol But it's going to be long distance. He's in the military and he'll be home later this year but his home is 2 to 4 hourse drive, depending on traffic. It's going to such that way. What kind of negative ways would this affect us if we were... heading into a relationship? And cappies, what are they like in general? Their negative side?
I've read on one forum that they are "daddy"-like. Hmmm... I've never had a father so... hmmm that's a weird thing. But maybe it would be good. I've never had a guy defend me the way I'd like. I told him that some creep keeps calling me and he offered to yell at him for me. lol that was sweet.
awww....we are loving people. and we love our cute friends. who act in such ways we consider to be adorable. well if hes comming and if he wants he will make it work for you. we like making things work....especially our relationships. we take care of you, like a father would his child. we will give you praise, or if you make a mistake we will get on to you but make you feel better too. or atleast thats what i do. some of us like our space. but im sure we are passionate lovers. and we are romantics at heart. he might show his love by getting you something or taking care of something for you. depends on his placements. he sound jolly...might have a fire or air sign in his chart haha. i know im not so jolly all the time. im more a pessimistic bastard but thats cause im just sad i guess. oh well time heals all wounds. just expect a good friend if anything. if you go for the relationship itll work...just takes understanding. and communication of course.
bad traits is we can become quite depressed out of no where. but we overcome it. we are hard on others...umm. i know i can get very angry but slowly. its not pretty when i explode either. idk. i never feel like a cappy at all. lol.
I've heard that immature capps do disapearing acts. He likes to party that's a for sure and I've never been to a party so he said he's defenetly going to take me to them. And I get that way too, I know how depression is. But I do have a sharp tongue so I can already see myself fighting back if he blows. But making up is always fun lol and I let him know that I'm the type that fights back.
Thanks so much! I just wish I knew how to read the chart thing lol
i still cant read my chart lol. the three most important aspects are the moon sun and ascendant. all three make up a persons personality as a whole almost. then check his venus and mars. match your venus with his mars. if compatable itll all work out just fine.
Negative aspect: A life together that can be very challenging at times on an intellectual level. Intellectual misunderstandings, diametrically opposed tastes, different ideas."
That's going to be a huge problem for the both of you, the physical connection will remain constant even through the challenging times but b/c you both will have different ideas and opposing taste inevitably this will push cap towards new pastures. As the chart says "Sometimes, they (you most likely will be the one) glossing over problems and conflicts just in order to keep the peace, which is not a good idea in the long run." Long distance with Caps hmmmm not a great idea unless one or both of you is going to drive to the other and make an effort that alone will put a cold damper on progress.
Suggestion, slow down don't get so CAUGHT UP over his quirks and father like energy, find/observe his level of maturity and willingness to invest in you such as using opportunities to commit to visiting you instead of going out partying with the boys, observe were he places you in his life on the priority scale, typically (not all but depending on maturity level) cap men initially come off as a super man/father figure then you begin to see the cracks, you not having a father may be drawn to that aspect and become emotionally/mentally dependent, beware they are known for going cold/silent/distant at some point when they silently realize your not "IT" your not what he wants so it's in your best interest to wait and see how things evolve before giving him your full attention/heart or you will be on the Cap board howling like so many other women that refuse to accept her relationship with cap is over/distant/torn, take your time, don't rush and please don't make him priority before establishing some type of commitment.
Thank you! That is awsome advise! So far it's only emails but he'll be around after December. That's when he get's back from deployment. I can't say I'm a needy person. But I do put problems behind fast. Sometimes I just don't even take notice of them. And, if I'm not mistaken, being a Cap he's the type that deals with problems at that very moment..? Or doesn't let go till it's settled in a way..? We do have pretty long conversations so I think comunication is good so far. And I also do hope I don't end up posting forums in the future trying to figure out why it didn't work!
But another question??... I guess this is just me and my little knowlege on boundries, but how long till I can kiss him? After he comes. lol I know it's a silly question but should I make him wait for that? Do caps like that sort of chase? I do like teasing too, esspecially kisses on the cheek. What does that do for cappies?
well... this just proves how insecure and stupid i am! he called me this morning. that was unexpected. ill never understand these thing lmaooo
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Sun Sextile Venus 1.25 124
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 0.51 146
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 3.19 97
Venus Opposition Jupiter 0.06 -95
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 1.01 45
Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.40 92
Uranus Conjunction Mercury 4.33 79
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 4.07 55
Uranus Sextile Pluto 0.08 51
Pluto Conjunction Mars 0.53 97
786 -95 691
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Inter-planetary aspects
The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels.
146 Conjunction Mercury - Saturn
Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.
124 Sextile Sun - Venus
Positive aspect: It's not only about love, it's about "like". It would be a good idea to schedule plenty of leisure time together, especially when other problems arise in the relationship, if only to remind each other how much they truly enjoy each other's company, tastes, and interests. They go well together, they love each other, and feel good, happy and radiant in each other's company. There is much attraction, especially on the part of the Venus person. They are capable of charming each other. Sometimes, they gloss over problems and conflicts just in order to keep the peace, which is not a good idea in the long run.
97 Conjunction Mercury - Uranus
Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.
97 Conjunction Mars - Pluto
Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.
-95 Opposition Venus - Jupiter
Negative aspect: A life together that can be very challenging at times on an intellectual level. Intellectual misunderstandings, diametrically opposed tastes, different ideas.