Two-Timing Capricorn

Girl, a Cap male is the only sign I'd vote "guaranteed to cheat." That's just part of the package deal. I know of too many, including my father, and its just in the blood to cheat, so typical story here.

I agree that him being unambitious is the most disturbing part.

I've come across a few Caps like this. They're lost causes. All they want is some female to take care of them while they reap all the benefits. This type is defective and not worth keeping around. I'm not sure why she is, either.

Might I add, I just had a Cancer friend go through this type of thing with hers, too. Not sure if he actually cheated, but he sure as hell was getting too friendly with a chick, which is what added to the pile of bullshit she'd been tolerating far too long.

They were together for like 4-5 years. They'd discussed all the issues she'd had with him and his lazy, resource sucking ways. He'd always sweet talk his way out of it, swearing he'd change. He was back to the usual after a month or two. She just finally had it and dropped him a few months ago. Then he stole everything in her house to spite her. Because SHE was the bad guy for finally standing her ground to his bs.

Men who never grow up are just absolutely baffling individuals.

I also heard many stories like this. One of which hits very close to home. Sorry about your friend.

Sorry to hear about your friend! I have cap in venus and he sounds nothing like me tho. Also i'd think caps are usually eager to be ambitious? I'm wondering if he's really in love or just have these quick crushes that are mistaken for love. This man is playing her emotional weakness cuz he knows she'll be there once he gets bored of the crush for a while. The other woman just being some rebound? Until it starts all over again. I hope she'll find the courage to throw his belongings out the window to knock some sense into him. It will make her lots stronger and realize she's better off without. Sad to see her putting life on hold for someone who's likely to repeat this behaviour 😢

Posted by hoolahoopsy
Sad to see her putting life on hold for someone who's likely to repeat this behaviour 😢

This is exactly what's going to happen. I was friends with both in regard to the Cancer/Cap, but when I first met them, I couldn't help but wonder how she dealt with being in a relationship with such an individual without going nuts. She basically was providing for him and playing mommy to him.

So when I heard about all the bs involved with their break up, it just further supported my ponderings from when I'd first met them. No sane woman can deal with a guy like that. Some guys just seriously do not want to grow up and are looking for a mommy replacement- not a girlfriend.

The OP's friend is just setting herself up for some major misery if she sticks around.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by hoolahoopsy
Sad to see her putting life on hold for someone who's likely to repeat this behaviour 😢

This is exactly what's going to happen. I was friends with both in regard to the Cancer/Cap, but when I first met them, I couldn't help but wonder how she dealt with being in a relationship with such an individual without going nuts. She basically was providing for him and playing mommy to him.

So when I heard about all the bs involved with their break up, it just further supported my ponderings from when I'd first met them. No sane woman can deal with a guy like that. Some guys just seriously do not want to grow up and are looking for a mommy replacement- not a girlfriend .

The OP's friend is just setting herself up for some major misery if she sticks around.

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Sadly enough alot of women only discover this role too late becoming blind like caught in vicious circle. These men know their ''prey''.

To OP, as much as I think this man is wrong, your friend might be good getting help herself as well. From scratch, remove him or any man from her life for a while and focus on herself what makes her happy and strong. Sometimes we unconsciously let others (not even love wise) steer our state of mind. That way we'll always let someone else create our happiness when it always starts and ends with yourself .

Yeah...I have been cheated on by a Cap, Libra, Scorpio and Leo and have seen other signs cheat as well, so I don't believe cheating is just common amongst Caps...I've just never seen a Cap with a baby boy complex...I was thinking maybe it's the Mars in Leo.

There are kids involved so I guess that's why she wants to stay and work things out. But I think that's a recipe for disaster. Each time someone gives their opinion, she gets very defensive, so I've decided to keep my mouth closed, even though that's very hard thing for a Sag to do.

Posted by saggyrl
Yeah...I have been cheated on by a Cap, Libra, Scorpio and Leo and have seen other signs cheat as well, so I don't believe cheating is just common amongst Caps...I've just never seen a Cap with a baby boy complex...I was thinking maybe it's the Mars in Leo.

There are kids involved so I guess that's why she wants to stay and work things out. But I think that's a recipe for disaster. Each time someone gives their opinion, she gets very defensive, so I've decided to keep my mouth closed, even though that's very hard thing for a Sag to do.

No offense to your friend but WHY do dumb bitches do this? Why is this mentality still alive in our society?

"Oh let's stay together for the kids!" Yes, an absolutely toxic and unhealthy relationship is something you want to raise children around. It's absolutely idiotic to think this way. Nevermind that the behaviors shown by mom and dad also tell kids how they should be treated later in life.

I understand being torn because you'd be creating a broken home due to divorce/splitting up, but come on. Think long term and for the kids' wellbeing. Sometimes I can't help but wonder if women use this logic to stick around because they're too scared to leave. Ohnoes, life without a man! How ever will I survive??