Wants me back?

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CapTaur
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True -- he has told me he misses me, makes every effort to approach me when he "bumps" into me at the gym ... he came over and we had "a talk". I'm just wanting to know what the next steps are I guess ...

I know he wants me back, he knows I want him back, but that's as far as we've gotten.

Should I just wait (no communication) until he makes up his mind and let's me know what he wants, or should I communicate with him?

I'm Taurus. We were together for a little less than a year. I broke up with him and he wants me back.
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aha... Well in that case i think you may have to make the next move. In my exp with guys if you turn them down or reject them in any way, then YOU have to be the one to give them the 'ok' again to come back. Im thinking he's waiting for you. Just my guess. And really, put yourself in his shoes... He's prob still hurt, still likes you (sounds like he does), and just scared to get hurt again by putting himself out there. He may still think you dont want to be with him. I think he's probably respectfully giving you the space you asked for.
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yes... the ol' reading into things that ya shouldn't read into. -_- gets me every time so I feel ya deary.

see when it comes to my responsibilities, its terrible and im sure it gives off the wrong impression... certain commitments come first before someone i'm into. for instance... tonight i have homework i plan on doing in the lab, a friends bday dinner, and I promised some co-workers I'd make them food for lunch tomorrow (dear gawd lol)... if a guy i really really really reeeeeeeeeeally liked asked me to hang out tonight, i WOULD decline. As much as I'd be beating myself up over it, I would. I made a few promises to myself and others. Something like hanging out, going to the gym should be flexible enough it can be done another time. Just suggest another night! He's a cap but surely he has some time free from work for you.
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CapTaur
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Creepy Pants you're the best ... I'll keep you posted 🙂

He was actually late to work one day because we were spending time together (first time spending time together in over 3 mths); I mean LATE -- as in he was still in my arms when he had to be at work ... I apologized and said "I'm so sorry!" and he said "Don't worry about it. Thank you for inviting me over."

Does this sound like I have a good chance with him?
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I think so.

I mean, I would never in a million years be late for work for someone I wasnt into. It's just the perfect excuse to escape. 😛 I ONLY do that when I AM into someone. If his capness is anything like my capness, thats a good sign for your chances. Unless he's a particularly lazy cap who isnt punctual, with substandard work ethics... and I've never heard of those kind... then yes. There's my answer. lol