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I think I'm feed up with my Cappy friend. I'm not sure what to do but I can't go on any longer constantly exposing my feelings to get nothing in return. Capricorm men are so dam confusing and cold as ice. When we was making love I told him I love him approximately 5 times and he just stared at me looking into my eyes and started kissing me. What the hell is that! I'm not expecting him to say I love you! But say something! The only real emotions I get from him is when he's making love to me. I cannot take it, it's really eating me up. We he miss me I can tell because we will have long conversations on the phone. Do you think if I stop verbally expressing my feelings towards him he will open up?
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Madam, I say this because tis brutal honesty. You cannot, repeat, CANNOT, "make" or "get" someone to express something they do not want too. This isn't a Capricorn issue, this is a human issue. You cannot force someone to feel something they do not. As a matter of fact, the more you push in that direction, the more someone else wants to head for the hills.
And you need to have a talk to the man. Not to a message board. With HIM. And please, for the love of GOD, have more pride in yourself than being a convenient penis holster.
There are no magical catch phrases to 'snag' anyone. It all goes on chemistry, desire, coupled with brains, a willingness to meet on all levels and a good slurry of damned fine luck tossed in. I don't care if you're Cap, Pisces, Leo, Aries, all twelve signs lined up cheek to jowl. This is between YOU and HIM. Take all your issues, all your questions, and present them to the man in question. See where he stands. And if it isn't beside YOU, tell him to take a damned WALK.
Plain and simple.
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Posted by Lancer
Its simple . I can destroy your confusion here and now . Its going to be either A OR B .

A . He likes the sex you provide him and doesn't want to get involved any further , and will most likely ignore you if you refuse sex .

OR

B. He actually likes you but is inable or uncomfortable with emotions ( cap trait)and has fear of closeness probably from past hurt.

suggestion: Refuse him sex but still be loving and say you miss him and see what happens .

If his attitude drastically changes and he becomes colder or tries to ignore you then you know its A. If he somehow still has interest and wants to be with you then it could be B .

If it is B then he trully does have a emotional block and is not really a marker like we think .

As in he truly does have problem expressing emotions and can only express it genuienly during sex . If this is true then you can't really fault him.

FINALLY : If it is B. I don't know what to say . Because csps are not known to be emotional and expressive in an emotional sense . I read they express love in a purely phyiscal way hence the reason he can only seem to emotional during sex. At this point you either have patience and be yourself till the end OR you find a more suitable partner (emotional and trusting).


Well it's B then, because I've held back sex many of times. Sometime for 3 months and when I do that he do show me he really mis me by his actions. He still won't verbally say anything except I mis you. This is just nerve racking. If I knew exactly how long it take them, then I could take it or leave it. But everybody is different. My patience might be running out.
There should be a option C
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Come with me, to the magical, the fantastical. Ride with me on the wings of fae and dragon, and BEHOLD! THE GLORY THAT IS.....

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First definition for my REAL given name: A beautiful and sophisticated woman that will probably never give you the time of day. Generally they have advanced degrees, wear very high heels and know that you are not worthy.

The definition for Nefer was way better though 😄

1. nefer 5 up, 11 down

The noun used to describe someone that is gay. Also, used as a describing word for men that play UO, and enjoy animal bondage. If you ever see a nefer, run, for he shall chase you, mount you, and spank your ass while speaking in Russian. Seen commonly brandishing a whip and a bottle of Vodka.

"Oh SHIT Revanche is pulling a nefer. What's with that fag?"


Hmmm.. I don't drink much, or very often, but when I do let loose it's usually vodka! lol
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by TasteOfChaos


There isn't really anything anyone can say anymore!

She has to learn the hard way and at her age you would have thought she would know better!

I'm convinced that this is a joke... No-one could possibly be this stupid!




Actually, I wouldn't be surprised. I had a Sag friend who would NOT leave his asshat boyfriend for SEVEN YEARS. The signs were there after 3 months, yet he stuck around. He had major esteem issues and was just falling for the idea of having the actual relationship, no matter how shitty it was. Faith reminds me a lot of this guy. She's only going to believe what she wants to hear. Anything else is you being too meeeean. *sigh*

Posted by TasteOfChaos
The ugliest e-vagina I have EVER seen...

Was a Blue Waffle...

Google it...

I dare ya 😛



Yeah, that's definitely a hobag who didn't care for lady bits. :/

Posted by TasteOfChaos


Have you ever put your name in?

This is my names definition!!

A sex act while giving a blow job to a fat chubby guy and letting him ejaculate on your face. Often leads to giggling in the end.


Hahahaha... WTF?



Mine-

"Hottest girl in the known universe"

Other variations are similar as well. It surprised me a bit, actually. :/ I think my name is kinda boring.
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That's not true; I listen to people when things make sense but sometimes they say crazy things that don't make sense. I'm the one that's physical in this situation so therefore, totally negative advice I automatically rule out. If he didn't have any feelings for me at all, he would have been stopped dealing with me. This is not a pitiful broke man that doesn't have any options. He clearly wouldn't be wasting his time, if he did not like me, so people need to give logic advice. I'm not saying this man is in love with me. I'm not saying we in a committed relationship. We have been enjoying each other sexually & mentally for 9 months. Dealing with a Cappy was new to me. I'm just trying to learn him to the best of my ability, so I can have the key to his heart. I'm competitive and I like sports, plus I like to win.
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That's not true; I listen to people when things make sense but sometimes they say crazy things that don't make sense. I'm the one that's physical in this situation so therefore, totally negative advice I automatically rule out. If he didn't have any feelings for me at all, he would have been stopped dealing with me. This is not a pitiful broke man that doesn't have any options. He clearly wouldn't be wasting his time, if he did not like me, so people need to give logic advice. I'm not saying this man is in love with me. I'm not saying we in a committed relationship. We have been enjoying each other sexually & mentally for 9 months. Dealing with a Cappy was new to me. I'm just trying to learn him to the best of my ability, so I can have the key to his heart. I'm competitive and I like sports, plus I like to win. You can't never win any game if you quit, and I'm conditioning myself to win!!!
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"We have been enjoying each other sexually & mentally for 9 months."

So you hang out, have great talks, knock boots occasionally... but he can't say he LIKES you, much less LOVES you. NINE MONTHS. Nine months, he's been banging your head off the headboard, and you're grasping at straws. THIS straw is named "Cap Men Move Slowly"... hey, Short Bus.. not THAT slowly! He is NOT emotionally attached to you. You stroke his ego, you're SOOOO available, even when he calls at 3am, and you must have a gold-plated poonanny. Why WOULDN'T he "wait" to have sex with you again, even though it's been 3 months (or so you say)? He's not EMOTIONALLY INVESTED in you. He's HANGING with you. You are a CASUAL relationship/date/fuck at best, and a piece of good lookin' hot ass at worst. Know why he's not yet DONE with you? It costs him SO LITTLE (mentally and emotionally even more than financially) to string you along and just enjoy being with you and tappin' that ass once in awhile.

You are deluding your damn self, ignoring ALL the red flags, dismissing ALL the people who point out the flaws in your rosy theory about how he really, really cares about you and has such deep feelings for you that he can't even SAY ALOUD THAT HE FUCKIN' *L*I*K*E*S* YOU! Cuz he's "scared" of his feelings.. "scared" to express them.. "scared" of a relationship.. "scared" of getting hurt. Naw, nutbag.. he's just flat out SCARED of you and doesn't want anything more serious with you. That pussy must be something else, though. Damn.

Carry on, nitwit. You are the dumbest 38 year old I've ever met. Fuck you very much.
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Let me translate for you, Faith.

In the case of the Faith Dumbass Pillow-Biter Saga:
"I miss you" = "I miss fucking you"

Three months "waiting" for sex again = No biggie. He was onto your "waiting" game. He KNOWS you're wrapped and will eventually put out again. If he just waited long enough. And looked at that ring he got you enough times. And gave you that "serious look" he gives you that "melts" you. And called you occasionally, hung out with you. No promises, though. Hell, he didn't even have to say he LIKES you to get you to spread your legs AGAIN!

You: "I love you. (moan) I love you. (sigh) I love you. (grunt) I love you. (groan) I love you. (ooh)"
Him: Looking in your eyes and kissing you = "For fuck's sake, broad... shut the fuck UP with that love shit, before I either lose my hard-on, or snap and finally TELL you that I love your PUSSY, not YOU!"

Mr. Douchebag (But Not A Liar!) Cappy is USING you like a breathing blow-up doll! He'll KEEP doing this UNTIL he finds something else or gets tired of fucking you, because YOU KEEP LETTING HIM... YOU put up with it, so that's all YOU will ever GET from him! Fuck, he doesn't even ever have to LIE to you... your stupid ass is filling in his INTENTIONAL blanks with whatever you WANTED to hear! He will WALK AWAY one day, free and clear and resting easy at night - he never lied to you! YOU LIE TO YOU INSTEAD!

ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED?! GOD, YOU'RE SO STUPID IT DEFIES COMPREHENSION! THIS HAS TO BE A JOKE! I FEEL LIKE MY HEAD IS GOING TO IMPLODE!

Fuck it. As entertaining as this shit has been, I concede defeat. I stepped into a battle of the wits with an unarmed opponent. She dragged me down to her level and beat me with experience!

*WHITE FLAG*
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Posted by skuddles
Guys, I've figured it out...she fucking Tiger Woods!!! ;P


LMAO
The mystery solved!

I've skimmed a few of her threads (there are a lot) and I really have never even seen a situation like this.
At least the guy is being honest and obvious. I mean, I can't even see him as that bad of a guy since he's making everything so obvious and she's still not getting it.
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They don't need to act more like men, per se. But what they need to do is act like real women! Women forgot how to be feminine, open, vulnerable, HONEST about their feelings and emotions. June Cleaver started fucking up a whole generation of women, turning them into Stepford Wives - and women who were miserable because they could not conform! June Cleaver isn't REAL... just like today's media images of women aren't real - and women are striving to be this "perfect" thing, and failing, because failure was inevitable when you look to a false image as an ideal. And women forgot how to LET and TRIGGER men to be men, masculine and manly. Feminism is great in that it at least changed womens' status to that of more than the family cow (chattel) and equality is a good thing - but it went too far! Women are not men, and should not strive to be like men!

I'm all for sexual freedom - MY choices should not be your concern, and vice versa. HOWEVER - SO many "Modern Women" going around saying, "I can just fuck like a man, and walk away. Sex is sex. Woo!" or even, "Oh sure... he doesn't want a relationship with me, but wants to still sleep with me? No problem. I can handle it, just like a man!"... then, "Well, I'm developing strong feelings for him, so if I keep giving him what he wants (sex) he'll fall in love with me too!".. then, "FUCKIN' JERK! He USED me for months! What a pig! I hate men!!"

Women stopped being HONEST and REAL and WOMANLY... and a whole generation of us never learned how to have a healthy relationship.. so few of our parents had one, that's when it all started snowballing. Yes, there are jerks out there, liars and users... but most men are trying to get by in this fucked up dating/relationship scene just like women are. Regular men, confused by how things AREN'T working... and we women blame the men. Really? Are ALL the men assholes? Maybe some of us keep PICKING assholes, cuz we don't know a better way. And some of us take a decent man, lie to him and herself about what she feels and thinks and wants... and sets herself up for failure by accepting bad behavior and having no boundaries or limits cuz she's "scared" of losing him. Setting boundaries won't LOSE a man, it DRAWS HIM IN. Being happy with YOURSELF, loving YOU, knowing what you WILL NOT tolerate, insisting on being treated with respect... MAGNETIC to men. Women forgot this, forgot how to be women. Now so many are just breathing blow up dolls, like that's okay.
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Posted by faith $ golphin
That's not true; I listen to people when things make sense but sometimes they say crazy things that don't make sense. I'm the one that's physical in this situation so therefore, totally negative advice I automatically rule out. If he didn't have any feelings for me at all, he would have been stopped dealing with me. This is not a pitiful broke man that doesn't have any options. He clearly wouldn't be wasting his time, if he did not like me, so people need to give logic advice. I'm not saying this man is in love with me. I'm not saying we in a committed relationship. We have been enjoying each other sexually & mentally for 9 months. Dealing with a Cappy was new to me. I'm just trying to learn him to the best of my ability, so I can have the key to his heart. I'm competitive and I like sports, plus I like to win. You can't never win any game if you quit, and I'm conditioning myself to win!!!




hmmm, ok.

I will say that I admire your determination to succeed with this guy, no matter what it takes. I've always admired intensity in people. You are relentless I must say, he must be special to you.

However, I have an observation:

You seem to be in love with the chase -- like, you really want this man to want you in a way that means you two are exclusive; although as it stands right now, this relationship isn't committed in any way. I get the hunch that you want it to be that way, if that weren't the case, then you wouldn't try so hard to get to know that man.

I know its not just about sex -- with most people, if its just about sex, they only want to know surface information about the one they are laying down with ... if that. Those that usually want more usually try to dig deeper into the mind of the one they are pursuing.

I haven't been following your story so I don't know too much about all of this, but that's just something I wanted to point out. No opinion here, just an observation.
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women these days are passionless , sex hungry , and FAKE as hell

I've been called a piece of ice and as dry as an old well for not being sexual with every guy I go out with 🙂 Yeah, thats enough to hurt ones feelings but whatever lol.

I'm sorry but every guy I'm attracted to isn't going to bed me -- the common denominator being SEX all the damn time can get under your skin.

Actually, I get count on one hand the number of guys I've let touch me and I haven't used all my figures on one hand yet 😉
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Posted by TasteOfChaos
Posted by Lancer


Urbandictonary has some funny definitions .





Have you ever put your name in?

This is my names definition!!

A sex act while giving a blow job to a fat chubby guy and letting him ejaculate on your face. Often leads to giggling in the end.


Hahahaha... WTF?




bahahaha I know your name now, sucka.
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Please don't mension fat chubby guy .... OMG, he shouldn't have lied like that ..... I mean ewwwwwwwww!!!! *bad mental image now!!!!✨

Goodness, that was a terrible experience -- I'm soooooo glad I changed my mind and decided not to do anything with him.

He was beyond upset with me afterward ...... :/
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Posted by amethyst2002
That's a good thing, though. :p I know of several girls that put out for the first guy who shows them any attention. SOMEONE has to have standards out there. Really, you actually have a bit more respect going your way when you don't put out asap. Depends on the guy, though. Some are persistent.




Its just frustrating, annoying and sad for me right now 😢

I hardly ever meet a good who wants to get to know who I am first and take things slow. It's always the whole, "when can we hook up" after the first week or whatever. Its just ugh 😢 i don't like it, it was stupid then and its just super annoying now. I'm tired of the whole, "take off your panties" or "open your mouth" attitudes. UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sorry for the rant but yeah, I see what you mean, thank you for the compliment 🙂
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—You: "I love you. (moan) I love you. (sigh) I love you. (grunt) I love you. (groan) I love you. (ooh)"

LMAO LMAO oh lord ??_ **bangs head** Faith, this man does not care about you in the least. Your logic is skewed sweety.

Seriously, he will NEVER have a relationship with you. He will NEVER make you his lady or anything more significant than what you currently are. Caps in particular need to feel like they have won something special to enter into a relationship and they MUST (I cannot stress this enough) RESPECT who you as a person. Someone who demands respect from them and everyone else, someone who will challenge them and make them feel secure at the same time, someone they can proudly show to the world.

You are just too freaking easy, you have no mystery, no challenge, no anything to make this man want to commit to you. AGAIN??_ caps are honest and its rare to find one who will say —I love you,?? without actually meaning it (unless they want something from you and/or are manipulative), it happens but its RARE. He will NEVER utter those words to you AT BEST you may get —I have love FOR you,?? in an attempt to spare your feelings.

Its obvious you care about this man, I can't take that from you but its equally painfully obvious that he DOES NOT care about you. Do you think he is thinking about you? Trying to understand you? Trying to strengthen your —relationship— Trying to get you to trust him? Love him? I assure you he isn't. I bet you guys rarely actually go out (if you do I bet my next paycheck its not consistent and always on his terms), celebrate month-aversaries, spend the holidays together, talk DAILY about random nothingness, spend an evening at home just talking or cuddling, talk about your future together, plan your future together, you know those things actual couples do. The key being doing these things CONSISTENTLY!! Even when you have other responsibilities because you CARE enough to put in the effort.

On another note, the rest of you guys are toooo funny. ??_.




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Posted by amethyst2002
I get what you mean. If you actually have any flipping morals and aren't some easy hobag, then guys basically overlook you or shove you in that friend zone because you won't put out asap. It's definitely frustrating. I think far too many guys are getting too used to this trashy assed complex a lot of girls are adopting.



lol @ trashy assed complex -- I like that lol, it fits.

I find nothing wrong with women being sexually and expressing themselves in that way. However, there's a difference between that and the Trashy Assed Complex. Oh yes, I don't care how some may try to swing it, there's a huge difference between the two.

I know some many hobags too, you have no idea. There the ones who talk about being so liberated and free -- yet when they go out drinking and the alcohol helps their *real emotions* surround, then they are crying about how their current guy they are with is treating them or how they are in some trouble with a guy they just met. Keep in mind, these are the same ones that say I should loosen my panties a little bit lol.

Whatever, I have ENOUGH issues and I tend to keep my pants on so I don't think I want any of what they are offering xD
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Posted by Lancer
maybe passion was the wrong word . I was just trying to describe how women seem to lack that warmth and innate feminine beauty with all that subtlety they had in the past . The "liberal" women are realy bitchy , calculating and overly ambitious and have lost that charm . I don't know if i am being clear enough .




Whoooooaaaaaa there partner, I have parts of my personality that are Liberal with a vengeance 😉 😉 😉 But I'm not bitchy (I can be, but it has to be forced out lol), I'm not calculating (it takes a real douche bag for me to become ruthless, ya dig 😉 I'm too airy in the good old natal chart to be this way all the time).

However, I will give one thing to you, I am VERY ambitious, yes I am. I'm so ambitious and I don't like when things get in my way. But other than that, you are wrong, I'm nice 😄

Try me, women who act like they are ultra feminine and to to display a lot of warmth are usually put-ons. They will change on you in a heartbeat -- then we good girls are left with johnny-downers for men.

Ugh, its a crazy cycle.
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Posted by Lancer
maybe passion was the wrong word . I was just trying to describe how women seem to lack that warmth and innate feminine beauty with all that subtlety they had in the past . The "liberal" women are realy bitchy , calculating and overly ambitious and have lost that charm . I don't know if i am being clear enough .



And Lancer.. this is exactly what I'm talking about. Real men want a real woman. We forgot how to be WOMANLY and REAL and HONEST and VULNERABLE. Divorce is at an all-time high, though a lot of that has to do with a "try it on" mentality, instead of developing a healthy relationship BEFORE shacking up or getting married. Most of us don't even know what a healthy relationship looks like... "Modern Women" and the friggin' media and even our previous and current generations' unhealthy relationships have further SKEWED our perceptions.

It's NOT that men want to go back to the Dark Ages, where women were property, seen and not heard, with no life or opinions outside her father's wishes, and then her husband's wishes. But men want WOMEN.. real women, open and honest... both soft and strong, and compellingly feminine and appealing. Men are just as disgusted by so many "blowup dolls" and "playas" (male AND female) as women are. Men ALSO want loving relationships, and they're struggling to find them in this screwed up world, just like women are.

I'm not BLAMING women... but I'm saying that women have the POWER to change this dynamic. And I will knock myself out trying to reach just ONE more woman, just help ONE MORE woman see the light and finally be real in this mostly UNREAL world. Because that woman's rewards will be amazing - she will find real love.. within herself, and with her man. her whole life will change, and she will hardly believe the way she USED to be, the so many women are, the way that didn't work!
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Posted by Lancer
you don't like when things get in your way ? And you are VERY ambitious ?


AND

you say you are NICE ?


erm.................



That's right, and don't you forget it 😉 lol j/k

Its not wrong with being sensual and erotic and intelligent and determine at the same time. Women do think about other things other than personal relationship with the opposite sex or the same-sex for the matter. I will admit that while I may fall in love with someone, I don't think they will ever be the only thing that's the center of my universe.
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But men want WOMEN.. real women, open and honest... both soft and strong, and compellingly feminine and appealing. Men are just as disgusted by so many "blowup dolls" and "playas" (male AND female) as women are. Men ALSO want loving relationships, and they're struggling to find them in this screwed up world, just like women are.

I know that aspect, both men and women have a difficult time finding what they want and (to some extent) need. However, I think its all a work in progress. There are reasons why men and women don't match up with the ones they should be with -- there are sooo many factors that come down to the question of "Why is it so hard to find ..... someone".

In many ways, people are their own worse enemies when it comes to finding that person that is a good match.

I think I completely vouch for that statement ^_^. But, hey I'm a work in progress myself, and I still have a ways to go.
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Posted by Lancer
ugh sorry damn typos.


Anyway you have beautifully articulated what i was trying to express . Men don't want slaves or property , thats not sexy or satisfying ! we just a woman from the heart and not from a fake insecure ego , with boob jobs or mind games in order to be "hot" or some stupid butter like that . When a woman is herself i assure guys will automatically feel real attraction . They will love all the subtle movements of her body and take notice of her genuine smile and pretty much just get a hardon 😛 Because its a real lady .




Oh, well why didn't you say that then xD!

And you say women are confusing, geeeezzzzzz lol ^_^.
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Posted by buttercupSG
hmm, sweetie and amethyst, maybe you gals are too friendly and approachable.

i usually just tune out, change topic or physically move away ("got to go! good luck!" (without me of course lol😛)) from anything easy, loud, obnoxious/uncultured and overly-eager within the first 5 mins into a conversation when i started sensing that. my lack of patience is a blessing sometimes lol.



As you know buttercup, I can have too much patience at times 😉 I like to see where someone is coming from because I'm naturally curious.

Obnoxious men and women get on my nerves big time :/
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Hello faith $ golphin

I met my cappy in Jan of last year and now I realized as we get to know each other (I am a Leo by the way) that cappies just like to go at a slow pace. As the months go by I can feel that we are getting closer and he is opening up to me more and more each day. I think its just their way. I don't think that he is dissing or disrespecting your feelings. I really believe they show how much they care by their actions. My cappy is always there when I need him and vice versa. Just be patient and you will eventually see how much he cares.
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Amethyst what is wrong with you!!! You must don't have no friends at all!!! Were you missing attention from your love ones that cause you to act like this? You seem to care about me more than you care about you sick self!!! Ask yourself why am I so important to you— Do you really need attention that bad that you would keep visiting my page replying to messages that was sent to me— Your more obsess with me than I ever was about my Cappy friend!!! Grow up!!! Get your own life enough is enough!!!
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Posted by july66
...my bad. I finally read Faith's other posts. Let me say that from reading all of your other posts I have to agree, you two are not building a relationship. There is no REAL dating going on Faith. Where is the QUALITY time you 2 are spending together...get your head straight girl. Keep it moving. LOVE yourself first. That's real talk.



Are you letting that sick girl brain wash you? My Cappy friend lives 2 hours from me and I never once said he was my man or we was in a committed relationship. Every time I spoke about him I said my friend. My cappy friend had sex with Amethyst and kick her to the curb and now she want to hate on me.
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Faith, no I am not letting anyone get to me I just did not read all of the posts from you. I know you said you were friends but I really don't understand the fact that you do not want more from Cappy. Sex just is not enough for me and being a Leo woman also I just don't settle for any and everything.

I am a Leo woman involved with a Cappy but we spend alot of QUALITY time together such as going to the movies, to the park, dinner, lunch, etc. We spend alot of time talking and getting to know each other. I guess I didn't start out as being so aggressive to want attention. He had to earn my attention as well. I totally let him do all the chasing in the beginning, calling, texting...I was just laying back to see where his head really was. Once I realized he was a keeper and not just trying to sex me I knew I wanted to take get to know HIM better. Over the past year we have become very close. No disrespect to you Faith but you really need to LISTEN to these LADIES. They are not lying about this guy. Beleive me I've been in similar circumstances but from the lessons I've learned my eyes are wide open to pure game.

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@faith$golphin
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Posted by july66
Hello faith $ golphin

I met my cappy in Jan of last year and now I realized as we get to know each other (I am a Leo by the way) that cappies just like to go at a slow pace. As the months go by I can feel that we are getting closer and he is opening up to me more and more each day. I think its just their way. I don't think that he is dissing or disrespecting your feelings. I really believe they show how much they care by their actions. My cappy is always there when I need him and vice versa. Just be patient and you will eventually see how much he cares.
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how you feel about the situation and I'm glad you are woman enough to explained your opinion in a suitable manner. I know a Leo woman wouldn't let someone influence her.

The problem I have with woman replying to my questions they are absolutely wrong in many ways. I have never been insecure or unintelligent. Why would I attempt to listen to advice from woman that start off absolutely wrong before they answer my questions.
I've always be honest and I don't have a problem sharing my experiences with this forum whether they are good or bad.

Getting back to my Cappy friend. I haven't spent a bunch of quality time with him because we live 2 hrs away from each other. We have been talking on the phone many hours going on a year soon. I visit him maybe once a month. Our schedule are conflicting. He always ask me to come to his job and come visit him earlier but I never get a chance to come up early. He have ask me to stay for a couple days and I would love to but I can't.
To tell you the truth I be so tired by the time I arrive I just want to get in the bed. That's my fault!

Dealing with this Capricorn man was a new experience for me and if I could do it all over again I would!!! I just wouldn't make the same mistake I made with this man. This Capricorn man was falling in love with me!!! That's a fact not an opinion!!! I made a lot of mistakes that had a major reflection on the outcome. I'm not saying he was totalling innocent but I can say I handle many situations wrong on my part. I still see him and we still talk often. He's a good man and he always there for me when I need him. I'm happy with just being his friend. 6 months ago he hated me and didn't want to be friends at all.
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Posted by july66
...my bad. I finally read Faith's other posts. Let me say that from reading all of your other posts I have to agree, you two are not building a relationship. There is no REAL dating going on Faith. Where is the QUALITY time you 2 are spending together...get your head straight girl. Keep it moving. LOVE yourself first. That's real talk.
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Are you letting that sick girl brain wash you? My Cappy friend lives 2 hours from me and I never once said he was my man or we was in a committed relationship. Every time I spoke about him I said my friend. My cappy friend had se
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