Ways 2Get A Cappy Man To Verbally Express Feelings (Page 2)

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faith$golphin
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how you feel about the situation and I'm glad you are woman enough to explained your opinion in a suitable manner. I know a Leo woman wouldn't let someone influence her.

The problem I have with woman replying to my questions they are absolutely wrong in many ways. I have never been insecure or unintelligent. Why would I attempt to listen to advice from woman that start off absolutely wrong before they answer my questions.
I've always be honest and I don't have a problem sharing my experiences with this forum whether they are good or bad.

Getting back to my Cappy friend. I haven't spent a bunch of quality time with him because we live 2 hrs away from each other. We have been talking on the phone many hours going on a year soon. I visit him maybe once a month. Our schedule are conflicting. He always ask me to come to his job and come visit him earlier but I never get a chance to come up early. He have ask me to stay for a couple days and I would love to but I can't.
To tell you the truth I be so tired by the time I arrive I just want to get in the bed. That's my fault!

Dealing with this Capricorn man was a new experience for me and if I could do it all over again I would!!! I just wouldn't make the same mistake I made with this man. This Capricorn man was falling in love with me!!! That's a fact not an opinion!!! I made a lot of mistakes that had a major reflection on the outcome. I'm not saying he was totalling innocent but I can say I handle many situations wrong on my part. I still see him and we still talk often. He's a good man and he always there for me when I need him. I'm happy with just being his friend. 6 months ago he hated me and didn't want to be friends at all.
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Posted by july66
...my bad. I finally read Faith's other posts. Let me say that from reading all of your other posts I have to agree, you two are not building a relationship. There is no REAL dating going on Faith. Where is the QUALITY time you 2 are spending together...get your head straight girl. Keep it moving. LOVE yourself first. That's real talk.
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Are you letting that sick girl brain wash you? My Cappy friend lives 2 hours from me and I never once said he was my man or we was in a committed relationship. Every time I spoke about him I said my friend. My cappy friend had se
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r been confuse? Some things just didn't seem logical with this man. Sometimes he would expose his feelings for me. Then other times he would shut down emotionally. When he make love to me its like he's exploding because he let all his emotions that been bottling up in him out at one time.
Call me confuse!!! Call me crazy!!! I will keep sexy him until I'm 80!!! LOL!!!
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Posted by faith $ golphin
I have never been insecure or unintelligent.



Really? 'Cause I completely thought otherwise given your posts! If you don't like insecure or unintelligent, we can go with confused or hasn't got a clue (I like this one personally)....
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HE'S MARRIED!!!! AND YOU ARE OKAY WITH IT!!!!!! ROOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR!!!!!! YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO ALL WOMEN, WAIT, HUMANITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE STOP BEING SO PATHETIC!!!!!!! NOT SURE IF YOU ARE CAPABLE BUT PLEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEE TRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Is that really whats going on here? *sigh*

Ok, well if thats the case, someone should take over this thread and start talking about something else ....
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Well it's me again!!! I haven't been really sharing my experience with my Cappy friend lately because everything has been going tremendously well. Now I see Cappys really take their time. A woman must be extremely patience when involved with a intricate male Cappy. In two more weeks it will be a whole year. He still don't really verbally express his feelings but he shows his feelings in many other ways. I just use reverse psychology on him now. I told him I was putting to much into our friendship/ relationship and I just wanted to be just friends. I told him how much I care about him (verbally) but I have been holding back emotionally. We still have great sex I'm just not the first to initiate anymore.

Now when we have disagreements I act totally opposite from before. I still have a lot more to go with him but it sure feel good to have a grip on things. He made a 360 turn around. For instance... He calls me a lot more; He wants to see me a lot more; He has been inviting me on out of town business trips.
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I just would like to let you know me and my Cappy friend are doing just fine! I'm glad I didn't really pay much attention to people saying negative things about our friendship. We are close again like we were at 1st and he's starting to mentioning comittment. He's been bringing up the topic a lot more often. I'm happy with the way we are right now and I'm not looking forward to a commitment. I would try but a relationship seems like to much work with a Cappy. I had to work hard to get to where I'm with this man right now. I've done a whole lot of research.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Oh dear lord!

He doesn't love you!

How embarrassing! I can't believe you said it to him 5 times and he didn't say it back!

Ouch!

He won't miss you... He will miss the regular sex

How can you not see this?

This has got to be a joke!! It has to be!!