What attracts a Cap Man?

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Posted by scorpio_chic
I think you should just be yourself in any situation with any man. Otherwise if you try to mold yourself into being something or someone that you're not, just to attract the man, the real you will eventually come out anyway. Either that or you'll lose yourself in the process.

Just be you. If that's not enough for him... NEXT!



exactly!

give a cap man some money and they're yours! haha, sorry, had to say that... i was expecting someone else to throw it in but no one jumped on it.
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Posted by DiesIrae
exactly!

give a cap man some money and they're yours! haha, sorry, had to say that... i was expecting someone else to throw it in but no one jumped on it.



hmmmm.....r u sayin cap males r gold diggers? tsk tsk..silly girl
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ha! no, not that they're gold diggers per se. it is just a common belief that caps in general are attracted to money and material wealth/possessions because that stuff makes them feel secure. of course i was being facetious and ur just teasing me so it's all good!
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Posted by scorpio_chic
I think you should just be yourself in any situation with any man. Otherwise if you try to mold yourself into being something or someone that you're not, just to attract the man, the real you will eventually come out anyway. Either that or you'll lose yourself in the process.

Just be you. If that's not enough for him... NEXT!



You know I know all of this... I guess being an Aries I'm so impatient playing the waiting game, because you know how slow Capricorns are to action, that I want some sort of compensation for the lack of action and I guess I find it in here with other people's opinions... is that weird O_o?
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ha! no, not that they're gold diggers per se. it is just a common belief that caps in general are attracted to money and material wealth/possessions because that stuff makes them feel secure. of course i was being facetious and ur just teasing me so it's all good!



now you're just stereotyping cap males. i think us cap males have too much pride to let "money and material wealth/possessions" be the reason to be attracted to a woman, us cap males usually work hard for own to gain "money and material wealth/possessions," it's more gratifying that way. and im sure any males with disregard to astrological sign would feel secure b/c of "money and material wealth/possessions."
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You know I know all of this... I guess being an Aries I'm so impatient playing the waiting game, because you know how slow Capricorns are to action, that I want some sort of compensation for the lack of action and I guess I find it in here with other people's opinions... is that weird O_o?



we are not slow to act...what do you think we're doing while you're waiting? we're gathering more facts about u, makin an observation, testing ur limits. lol u know it takes time to fully see how a woman is behind the veil, beneath all the superficial stuff.

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You know I know all of this... I guess being an Aries I'm so impatient playing the waiting game, because you know how slow Capricorns are to action, that I want some sort of compensation for the lack of action and I guess I find it in here with other people's opinions... is that weird O_o?



we are not slow to act...what do you think we're doing while you're waiting? we're gathering more facts about u, makin an observation, testing ur limits. lol u know it takes time to fully see how a woman is behind the veil, beneath all the superficial stuff.

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LOL, I'm fully aware of what the Cap male is doing while I wait... come on I've read up on Capricorn men 😉. Lol to me it's slow reaction because they have to gather all that information. What you don't realize is that we Aries (and some fire signs) act and than think about it later, that's why I call him slow to action.

But I realize the differences between us and I'm willing to learn patience 😛.
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You know I know all of this... I guess being an Aries I'm so impatient playing the waiting game, because you know how slow Capricorns are to action, that I want some sort of compensation for the lack of action and I guess I find it in here with other people's opinions... is that weird O_o?



we are not slow to act...what do you think we're doing while you're waiting? we're gathering more facts about u, makin an observation, testing ur limits. lol u know it takes time to fully see how a woman is behind the veil, beneath all the superficial stuff.



LOL, I'm fully aware of what the Cap male is doing while I wait... come on I've read up on Capricorn men 😉. Lol to me it's slow reaction because they have to gather all that information. What you don't realize is that we Aries (and some fire signs) act and than think about it later, that's why I call him slow to action.

But I realize the differences between us and I'm willing to learn patience 😛.
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a cap man will jump into things quickly but it'll just be a fling. lol

i dont like committing only to find out later on that it's not going to work, thats a waste of time.
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I cant decide on the design really.



what do u have so far?



Nothing permanent. 🙂

I usually apply those henna tattoos whenever I need some body art. But I am thinking of a permanent one between my shoulder blades.
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right above the spine...thats gon hurt but ur a woman, you guys tend to have higher pain tolerance.

what r u planning to get?
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You know I know all of this... I guess being an Aries I'm so impatient playing the waiting game, because you know how slow Capricorns are to action, that I want some sort of compensation for the lack of action and I guess I find it in here with other people's opinions... is that weird O_o?



we are not slow to act...what do you think we're doing while you're waiting? we're gathering more facts about u, makin an observation, testing ur limits. lol u know it takes time to fully see how a woman is behind the veil, beneath all the superficial stuff.



LOL, I'm fully aware of what the Cap male is doing while I wait... come on I've read up on Capricorn men 😉. Lol to me it's slow reaction because they have to gather all that information. What you don't realize is that we Aries (and some fire signs) act and than think about it later, that's why I call him slow to action.

But I realize the differences between us and I'm willing to learn patience 😛.



a cap man will jump into things quickly but it'll just be a fling. lol

i dont like committing only to find out later on that it's not going to work, thats a waste of time.
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Of course, of course, spoken like a true capricorn man. And this is where I would say "Well it's better to have love and lost than to never love at all." But I won't, I hate cliches.

I just take life as it comes to me, every time I do try to plan something it never works out as my Aries heart dreamed it, so I don't make plans at all. Life is about trial and error after all, and you can't learn by treading softly and cautiously, you learn from experiences. It's not a waste of time when you learn from your mistakes, and you will make them, inevitably.
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Of course, of course, spoken like a true capricorn man. And this is where I would say "Well it's better to have love and lost than to never love at all." But I won't, I hate cliches.

I just take life as it comes to me, every time I do try to plan something it never works out as my Aries heart dreamed it, so I don't make plans at all. Life is about trial and error after all, and you can't learn by treading softly and cautiously, you learn from experiences. It's not a waste of time when you learn from your mistakes, and you will make them, inevitably.



but u just stated it..lol i have love and lost, its because ive jumped into things too quickly, lesson learned, right...dont jump into things too quickly. 😉

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Of course, of course, spoken like a true capricorn man. And this is where I would say "Well it's better to have love and lost than to never love at all." But I won't, I hate cliches.

I just take life as it comes to me, every time I do try to plan something it never works out as my Aries heart dreamed it, so I don't make plans at all. Life is about trial and error after all, and you can't learn by treading softly and cautiously, you learn from experiences. It's not a waste of time when you learn from your mistakes, and you will make them, inevitably.



but u just stated it..lol i have love and lost, its because ive jumped into things too quickly, lesson learned, right...dont jump into things too quickly. 😉

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To each his/her own 🙂.
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Posted by DiesIrae
ha! no, not that they're gold diggers per se. it is just a common belief that caps in general are attracted to money and material wealth/possessions because that stuff makes them feel secure. of course i was being facetious and ur just teasing me so it's all good!



now you're just stereotyping cap males. i think us cap males have too much pride to let "money and material wealth/possessions" be the reason to be attracted to a woman, us cap males usually work hard for own to gain "money and material wealth/possessions," it's more gratifying that way. and im sure any males with disregard to astrological sign would feel secure b/c of "money and material wealth/possessions."
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see: facetious

anyway, if u look up general "facts" about caps u will notice that this is often emphasized. every sign has the generalizations attached to them that they don't particularly like or agree with. take my sign as an example... leos are supposed to be rather melodramatic, egotistical, jealous, and vain. i don't consider myself to harbor any of those traits yet i've known leos who completely fit that description.

i have a couple of really good cap male friends. one really does exemplify that generalization. money and material possessions are very important to him. he has a habit of collecting the newest gadgets and technology for the sake of having of them. he doesn't even use most of them! the other cap i know is not like that at all. sure, he likes to have some money (who doesn't?) but money and possessions aren't important to him whatsoever.
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They like a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and their life, they are usually too busy to worry about you, its all about them, getting to the top, (the goat) but if you are wealthy, hold a top job, and keep busy, they think that is very 'sexy' in a woman and they will fall sooner rather than later. But if they fall too soon, its not good, they will fall too soon with anyone. They dont like when you're wanting to know when you're getting together again... (they like to plan and lead). They like variety.... so be forewarned, dont give up your heart too soon, cuz they usually dont... Caps are hard on the outside soft and needy on the inside. But you will never know. Good luck getting him to share feelings. But when they finally do, you have won them for life. Great conversationlsts, and can talk for HOURS.(you will be doing most of the listening, that said, they have interesting topics to tell you ALL THE TIME). Make sure you have enough minutes on your mobile plan if you arent with the same service provider...LOL Family is important, VERY important. They cant seem to let the past stay in the past, and it can turn to funny-angry moments when they recall (constantly) past lovers who wronged him or spurned him. Revenge is a sweet thing to a cap with an exe who wronged him (especially in the money dept). Did I mention they talk a LOT! Learn to listen, they hate when you look bored and will sulk. Trust me you wont be bored, unless you are vying for the spolight.