What cap men are all about..

Like his female counterpart, he has a very cool exterior. He appears totally self-assured, but he needs a woman to show how much she likes and admires him. Because he is private, even secretive, he doesn't always let this need be known-but it is there. Give his ego the encouragement it needs and he will tie himself to your strings for as long as you want him. He is a faithful lover who doesn't feel or even understand the need to stray.

Women are intrigued by his frank, earthy approach. To him, physical desire is a necessary part of love. He doesn't see how one can exist without the other. However, love relationships are not easy for him emotionally. There is always a certain loner quality about him. He has difficulty placing his trust in another human being. To some extent he cuts himself off from any spontaneous feeling. In his career the Capricorn man has complete responsibility for decisions, and in relationships he finds it hard to share responsibility.

Contrary to popular opinion, there is a romantic streak to the Capricorn man. But his sense of discipline or, more specifically, his need to make the very best choice for the future, not just for the present is stronger. He will sacrifice romance and look for a woman who will be useful to his ambitions. Generally, Capricorn men marry either very early in life or in their later years. The ones who marry later are usually happier and more grounded. By the time a Capricorn man is successful he has become more relaxed, less wary of love; it is no longer a burden to climb up the ladder and obtain the ultimate prize.

Few women have reason to complain about a Capricorn lover. His charged passions are never far from the ignition point. He may not be the most imaginative or poetic partner, but he is lusty and skilful. His interest in the physical side of love never wanes. The older the Capricorn male gets, the more attractive he becomes, and the more potent. When other men are resigned to their rocking chairs, Capricorn will still be inviting you into his bedroom. He prefers a comfortable setting. Others may like to make love on a bare floor or standing in a closet. Capricorn likes a nice spacious bed, dim lights, soft music and if possible a chilled bottle of wine nearby.

There is a sensual poetic side to Capricorn, although it may take a while to reveal itself. This man will probably not send you flowers or love letters, but on your twenty-fifth wedding anniversary he may charter a plane to whisk the two of you to Paris so you can spend the evening dancing on the floodlit banks of the Seine.

In closing the Capricorn male: he loves new beginnings and happy endings. He is much more mushy than what he is credited for. He will find his own way of creating challenges in a relationship without resorting to head games and trickery. You couldn?t possibly find anyone more down to earth and loving than this guy in front of you. He is not that hard to figure out, just be a loyal and honest presence in his life and he will reward you profoundly.

Earthgirl

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Thank you stardance! That was very informative and helpful!
I'm earthgirl..the one with the LONG posts from another thread! lol 😉
From what I've seen so far.. you are DEAD oN with the description.
Cool exterior and a volcano of passion lurking underneath that only few can actually access !!! Only once they've decided we are completely trustworthy and loyal...they'll let us into their world.

I've also noticed from my own experience and speaking to others that they like to take things REAL SLOW..in the relationship department!!! 😉

EG 🙂

stardance

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Hi EG, you're adorable. I'm sure your cap will find your frankness inviting and trustworthy. You've got your second chance, please take this as only one person's opinion, but you will may need to find a way to let him know (not words alone) that it is not like you to give yourself on the first date. The next time you are alone with him. Let him see how much he turns you on, but if you can, use your strength to hold out and give him his challenge. The memory of your special night will keep him wanting more. You may need to give yourselves a chance to get to know each other better so that it developes into more than just great sex. I think you will also need to be careful not to make him jealous, and if you do, make sure he knows your legs are closed tight. If he was so special that he made you weak in that first date, then make sure he knows that by your words and actions.

Best of luck, I think you are a sweetie.