I wanted to say Thank You

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by shaiessence on Monday, March 13, 2006 and has 15 replies.

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@shaiessence
20 YearsCancer

Helllo All. I just wanted to thank you all for all your encouragement and advice, it was so helpful and I've done alot of things that brought alot of understanding in the relationship I had with my cap man. I'm so tired and beat down because of all the arugments and disagreements we have, I'm starting to lose alot of sleep, which isn't good because my daughter wakes me up 6 in the morning and I have to go to work a few hours later. I feel deep in my heart that he's moved on and just doesn't want to tell me. And everyone says your gut instinct is usually right. Well I'm going to go with mine for once and just move on and date someone else I've been talking to. Lol, i know I've been so back and forth with this but, some day I'm going to have to let go, today minus well be the day. I wish I could give you all bear hugs, because you all have been wonderful. You all are very different, yet unique and beautiful women. And strong I might add :o).

I appreciate everything you ladies have helped me with, And I wish you all the best of luck. Maybe I'll drop in every once and a while and leave a message. (Lol, I don't think you all will remember me much.)

Good Luck Ladies

*ShaiEssence*

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@MyCap
20 Years

Well good luck to you too. I know it's hard giving up, and moving on but sometimes its what u have to do for yourself. Take care, and remember u deserve so much better than that cap.

Take care

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Yep you do...You will feel so much better when he isn't dragging you down with him...Lol...There is a man out there who truly deserves u...and he will come looking for you...lets hope he's a scorp!..hahah

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@shaiessence
20 YearsCancer

You know, it's kinda funny you said a scorp man because the guy I'm dating is a scorp and so damn cute. I really enjoy talking to him because we talk about everything, unlike my cap man. Lol, i just thought that was kinda weird you mentioned a scorp man.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

They say Scorpio and Cancer is a good match...I wish you the best of happiness you deserve it. Just keep a watch out for that Cappy because he just might creap back in your life, so stay grounded and strong and let that Scorpion give you what you deserve, happiness,love, honesty, loyalty and most of all communication and togetherness. Read some of the post on the Scorpio board so that you can get a good idea of who you are dealing with if you need some help you know you got missmorals and I to guide you but miss morals knows them way better than I do.

YOU GO GIRL I AM PROUD OF YOU.

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@pathfinder
20 Years1,000+ Posts

This is something. I gave up on caps back in December -- even though four of them have approached me in the last few months. I'm with a scorpio man now for over a month and we're here to stay. So refreshing ... no games.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

I think that is what scares a lot of women with them, and the women are the same we we are direct and to the point don't have time for BS, we are Black and White, we go 100% all the way no half steppin just don't get us mad is all I have to say...

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@missmorals
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Hahah...Yep Shaiessence..Its that psyche coming into play..lol..Good luck with the Scorp..keep me filled in..US SCORPIONS ROCK!! You will go far with your scorp..no games, no manipulation, constant intrigue, open communication..Keep him at bay, don't show too much weakness..remember they like you to be independent, loving and intelligent..but remember understated intelligence..

Heres my scorpion mans saying and its true 100% ..I have known him 3 months..unfortunately he lives seven seas across (in Washington) I am in UK 😢

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind..

And I live by that 100%

Scorpionlady you rock girlfwend...but your right, we don't like BS and never never give us a reason to distrust you...we will never forgive you..muahahaha..

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@missmorals
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2. Don't just agree with us..have your own mind and opinion..
3. Never bullsh*t

Yep I am feeling the novel..lol..Actually my younger sister said the very thing to me today..she said gosh, sis you should really write a book about all this scorpion nonsense..lol..she doesn't believe in all this astrology..she be a Leo.

And Scorpionlady..my best friend is a Sag...I love them to bits..

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

missmorals

Girl my sister is a Sag. that's who I am going out with on Saturday to Shake a Tailfeather, wish you could be here to hang with us I am sure we would have a good time.

I am a Scorpio
My son is a Libra
His Father is a Piceas
My Older Sister is a Taurus
My Younger sister is a Sag
My Brother is a Libra
My oldest brother was a Cancer
My Mom is Gemini

I have a lot of Pisces, Aries and Cancers in my family

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@missmorals
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Scorpionlady..believe you me..I wish was there too to shake a tailfeather..lol..such an american thang isn't it..heehehe..I do have plans to come over at some point..Maybe end of May or beginning of June..to New York..and well..If I end up getting it together with this scorp guy..then who knows, might even be filing for my Green card..lol..

Gosh you have quite a mix in your family.
Pardon my ignorance but "My oldest brother was a Cancer"..what happened to him? is he no longer a cancer? hahaha..

Pisces men, I think would drive me insane..don't know why..they are too clingy..although saying that, do you watch Shipwrecked 2006? Well, theres a pisces man on there..Kevin he's called..a model from Manchester..Yummm..and I love his personality..I watch the programme without fail cos he's on there and I was also at the time, keeping a close eye on the capricorn man as well..he's sweet but gutless..

Libra..hmmm a bit goofy for my liking..they need a lot of female attention don't they..I have 2 close libra male friends and both crave female attention..we even exchange hair styling solutions and make up ideas..lool..not very manly is it..cancer are a bit confusing..slightly unsure of themselves, a bit too dependant..
Sag - my best friend and the guy I am going on a date with..Don't feel the chemistry to tell u the truth but he is funny..

I have 4 Scorpio male friends and 2 scorpio female friends..I adore them..

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@Scorpionlady
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MM LMAO - No he is dead, still love and think about him, still consider him when I speak about family sometimes. LMAO...maybe I should have changed the wording, it's all good. No I have not seen that show.

Yea that tailfeather thang comes from a singer called NELLIE he is from, somewhere in the east or west not sure, but he has a song called Shake a Tailfeather, the video is something..booty shaking all over the place.

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@missmorals
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SL - Oooops..sorry foot in mouth syndrome there with your brother..I am sorry to hear that..I knew you would see the funny side of it though..u rock!..mwah!
Shake a tailfeather..well I shall remember that next time I am talking to my scorp..lol..