When you move on and the cap comes back...

OK, so this is a continuation of my other topics of my cap situation.

The cap started calling at the end of January after we lost touch back in November. Has called EVERY SINGLE WEEK for 2 months straight, sometimes 2 or 3 times a week. I have not spoken to him this entire time. That last time he called was on Sunday (March 23rd). What he has to say must be important if his calls continue knowing I will never pick up again. I have been purposely ignoring him so I can move on with my life. Picking up on him may seem so innocent but I believe it will bring back all the resentment and bitterness I have towards him, which surfaced when we lost touch.

My real question is, is why does a cap all of sudden decide to open up after the person has moved on?

This cap was sometimes so difficult to figure out and the wall he had up made me just give up completely and move on. That could be why people don't take the time to get to know them for that reason.

Explain this to me, because I feel I have to work my ass off just to trust me a tiny bit.

"Because they all love to be heroes of their own tragic "unrequited" love stories......."

I read that somewhere...Caps being used to suffering/torturing themselves in their their love relationships...

lololol @ "old man saturn"

My cap has his moon in Leo... :/

OMG. Let's hope it's not in Aquarius.

Not to bash my own kind, but we generally suck in the relationships department.

Yes, I agree with SB, Old Man Saturn is a bitch like hell LOL, that's why caps get depressed easily too.

LOL, it's okay AquaSun, capricorns aren't much better.

Sometimes I long to be an Aries woman, they seem to have everything figured out LOL

Hello AquaSun,
First off, I lmao when you said that Capricorns wait until you've moved on to open up. You hit the nail right on the head. Capricorns DO NOT open up easily, at all. Let me put it to you like this, he trusts you or he wouldn't be dealing with you as a mate. Capricorns long for love, deep inside we feel things about you that you'll probably never know. We don't take breakups easily at all and will do whatever it takes to get you back. It's like this, being in a relationship with someone for a period of time, feeling totally enamored about them, never telling them because afraid of showing true emotions, and then they leave you. This is what Caps go through constantly. So, consumed by their emotions at this point, fear aside to a point, do whatever it takes to talk to you again, even if it's just to hear you talk to us. If he's trying to contact you, he's EXTREMELY sincere, and if he's brave enough as a Cap, sometimes we're still afraid to pour out our emotions, he'll tell you how much he really cares and it's straight from his heart. You spoke about breaking down walls with Caps, there is a huge fort surrounding us and we know how we feel about you, you just don't know, inside we're extremely passionate people. It probably took you leaving for him to get up the nerve to show you how he really feels about you by still trying to contact you, AND for this long, and i'm just warning you he probably still won't tell you how he feels he'll act as if everything is normal and your back with him. This is not arrogance, it's a fear of trust. We can love, but don't trust, which causes us to get attached but not open up. But, just him contacting after leaving him shows you everything you need to know. And, things will probably change a bit, but you'll still have to work extremely hard to get him to reveal his emotions so that you can witness it. It's hard work, but we are sincere 1000% and we're committed. And, once you earn his trust, even though you probably already have his love, you'll see an entirely new side of this Cap. And it's beautiful and extremely lasting. I don't know the nature of your breakup, but if he was just being himself and you have enough patience and care. I'd go for it, because he really means it, he's sorry. Jasmine.

Wow- that was amazing and so true. I'm acting that way now with someone I'm seeing.

"...once you earn his trust, even though you probably already have his love, (bold added for emphasis)

Dang, CapricornBabe87, I'm speechless. This is gospel according to Capricorn. You spoke what it took me over a decade to find out. Did you know this when you were 4? :-)

WOW,CapricornBabe87. That was probably the best thing I've read on this site.

Great advice CapricornBabe87 do you have any more advice for us?

God I hope she does (please, please, please?)