Why is it—

That initially I meet Capricorn woman and we quickly become best friends but then after a few months/years frizzle out??
I can count three similar experiences in the last 10 years?K

We start off with a lot in common and make each other laugh easily. I love their sense of humour and they mine and we start off very supportive of one another in almost everything, but over time I find the Capricorn changes (she probably has her side of the story but I?_m only here to relate mine). Firstly I sense jealousy from her side?K.of the two closest Capricorns in my life at the moment, the one I sense is jealous of my relationship (she is single) and of my social skills (she is shy and battles in crowds) ?V thus she gets nasty and goes to all extremes to blurt out things I?_ve told her in confidence in front of others and publicly humiliate me ?V she literally knows no boundaries. The other one seems jealous of just about every relationship I have with other people ?V e.g. everyone I ever get close to (we work together) she?_ll promptly create a three-way friendship by including herself and then slowly work me out of the picture ?V man or woman it makes no difference and then she?_ll sneakily do things with them behind my back and tell me about it later as if it was no big deal?K.ah so and so and myself went for lunch yesterday?K.by the way kind of thing?Kand then she?_ll hoard these crowds of people around her (all my friends mostly) and get super sensitive when I now impose on them. Perfect example, she started at the company after me and by then I?_d created quite a good friendship with one of my male co-workers. Him and I rarely socialize anymore but she refers to him as her husband, her boyfriend (he actually already has one) her brother and when the three of us do go out and he tries to balance things by sitting in the middle of us, she?_ll say something along the lines of, ??hey why you sitting next to her I thought I was your girl??. Same thing with at least three other male co-workers and my very close female co-worker (somehow she still gravitates towards me though ? ).

Now I?_m expecting some come-backs along the lines of me seeing myself in that behaviour ?V I?_ve considered this but no it isn?_t. I am in no way jealous of either girl, they have nothing I desire I just like them because they?_re good fun and both have a great sense of humour. So why do I get this feeling most Capricorn woman I befriend eventually get jealous and vindictive

That initially I meet Capricorn woman and we quickly become best friends but then after a few months/years frizzle out??
I can count three similar experiences in the last 10 years?K

We start off with a lot in common and make each other laugh easily. I love their sense of humour and they mine and we start off very supportive of one another in almost everything, but over time I find the Capricorn changes (she probably has her side of the story but I?_m only here to relate mine). Firstly I sense jealousy from her side?K.of the two closest Capricorns in my life at the moment, the one I sense is jealous of my relationship (she is single) and of my social skills (she is shy and battles in crowds) ?V thus she gets nasty and goes to all extremes to blurt out things I?_ve told her in confidence in front of others and publicly humiliate me ?V she literally knows no boundaries. The other one seems jealous of just about every relationship I have with other people ?V e.g. everyone I ever get close to (we work together) she?_ll promptly create a three-way friendship by including herself and then slowly work me out of the picture ?V man or woman it makes no difference and then she?_ll sneakily do things with them behind my back and tell me about it later as if it was no big deal?K.ah so and so and myself went for lunch yesterday?K.by the way kind of thing?Kand then she?_ll hoard these crowds of people around her (all my friends mostly) and get super sensitive when I now impose on them. Perfect example, she started at the company after me and by then I?_d created quite a good friendship with one of my male co-workers. Him and I rarely socialize anymore but she refers to him as her husband, her boyfriend (he actually already has one) her brother and when the three of us do go out and he tries to balance things by sitting in the middle of us, she?_ll say something along the lines of, ??hey why you sitting next to her I thought I was your girl??. Same thing with at least three other male co-workers and my very close female co-worker (somehow she still gravitates towards me though ? ).

Now I?_m expecting some come-backs along the lines of me seeing myself in that behaviour ?V I?_ve considered this but no it isn?_t. I am in no way jealous of either girl, they have nothing I desire I just like them because they?_re good fun and both have a great sense of humour. So why do I get this feeling most Capricorn woman I befriend eventually get jealous and vindictive

That initially I meet Capricorn woman and we quickly become best friends but then after a few months/years frizzle out??
I can count three similar experiences in the last 10 years?K

We start off with a lot in common and make each other laugh easily. I love their sense of humour and they mine and we start off very supportive of one another in almost everything, but over time I find the Capricorn changes (she probably has her side of the story but I?_m only here to relate mine). Firstly I sense jealousy from her side?K.of the two closest Capricorns in my life at the moment, the one I sense is jealous of my relationship (she is single) and of my social skills (she is shy and battles in crowds) ?V thus she gets nasty and goes to all extremes to blurt out things I?_ve told her in confidence in front of others and publicly humiliate me ?V she literally knows no boundaries. The other one seems jealous of just about every relationship I have with other people ?V e.g. everyone I ever get close to (we work together) she?_ll promptly create a three-way friendship by including herself and then slowly work me out of the picture ?V man or woman it makes no difference and then she?_ll sneakily do things with them behind my back and tell me about it later as if it was no big deal?K.ah so and so and myself went for lunch yesterday?K.by the way kind of thing?Kand then she?_ll hoard these crowds of people around her (all my friends mostly) and get super sensitive when I now impose on them. Perfect example, she started at the company after me and by then I?_d created quite a good friendship with one of my male co-workers. Him and I rarely socialize anymore but she refers to him as her husband, her boyfriend (he actually already has one) her brother and when the three of us do go out and he tries to balance things by sitting in the middle of us, she?_ll say something along the lines of, ??hey why you sitting next to her I thought I was your girl??. Same thing with at least three other male co-workers and my very close female co-worker (somehow she still gravitates towards me though ? ).

Now I?_m expecting some come-backs along the lines of me seeing myself in that behaviour ?V I?_ve considered this but no it isn?_t. I am in no way jealous of either girl, they have nothing I desire I just like them because they?_re good fun and both have a great sense of humour. So why do I get this feeling most Capricorn woman I befriend eventually get jealous and vindictive

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It's true, cappies get jealous too easily. Are you a leoan? I have a Leoan friend, been with her since a long time. I envy her for a lot of things, never tell her though. And her Leoan tendency to "rub it in" never helps, I just snap when she gets like that (and she doesn't even realize she tends to do that). But at the end of the day, her friendship is more important to me, so I kinda ignore her loud and "in your face" attitude.

And yeh, jealous cappies can get nasty😛

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It is quite surprising how you classify her as lacking social skills, yet she manages so "steal" all your friends. Ya!

CapGal - if you read my post carefully you'll note that these are two SEPERATE Capricorn females - the stealing the friends (for lack of a better word) is NOT the one lacking social skills.

I wouldn't say she "steals" friends, because we're all still friends - it's just that she'll arrange things behind my back with them....for instance she recently arranged a weekend away at the coast with them (I never cracked an invite from her)and they're all asking me why I'm not going— She and I talk every day she never mentioned a word—
This is wierd, I'm sorry to say.

I've always shared my friends and prefer one big happy crowd but when my friends get possessive over my other friends I kind of step back and think WTF—

The socially inapt Capricorn girlfriend couldn't be bothered with my friends and rarely makes the effort if it's a group thing - she just gets verbally nasty about my achievements.

Oh and to clarify...I'm a Leo Sun and Moon - Aqua rising.

Capgal - I do admire many qualities in both of these Capricorn woman. Both are very hard working and goal orientated and both have tremendous self-will!!! But I'm not jealous - we're totally different and I like being who I am - I don't want to be like either of them (they can be a little boring sometimes....little old grannies 😉 ). Jealous?? No. Not in the least. I like who they are but prefer my own life style .