younger cap needs guidance from older caps

younger cap needs guidance from older caps

I have been need someone who has done it b4 me to help guide me, so I know there are others who needs it too . I know astrology says that caps dont have luck n love until their later years, so if I decided that I want multiple guys now would that be wrong (fyi not meaning sexual with them either)

I realized that I have been wantin love and realtionships for so long it turned into a job for me.I began to think too much and over analyze each situation with each new relationship(but I thought everybody did that ) but they dont do it as much as I (so Im told)
I am in school on line and I have always had my career goals mapped out and I wanna know how did any older caps make their gaols reality and that goes for career and relationships

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I'm much more scattered than I'm willing to admit. Life has almost always been trial and error. I'm indecisive to a fault cause I wanna know all the angles and then at some point, I just jump. It's a horrible method, but at the end of the day, I'm gonna get what I want cause I'm gonna outwork every other mother out there to get it.

So, yeah... perseverance!

I totally understand I the way . People tell me that I over analyze everything . I have been tryin a method of backin my self into a corner in order to make myself budge . I try every angle but I also dont like to even much try one without knowin how the other is . Our sign is the sign that goes by experience, so I see where we get that from . I definately have been beatin other moms I know personally, singl mom of two under 3yrs old, in college, workin towards my career, and I know a relationship with a good man would definately push me to be my best if it is a good relationship, but I have been doin all of that for myself, so I feel you .

AH caps in love its over rated.
I have been in an on again off again relationship for over 15 years
She has been married and widowed I have gone way out of my way to do some big things for her
ahe is younger than I by 12 years.

We are still on again off again
and it will probuly be this way until I die.

My goals changed (and still change) as I went. Set a goal, but be flexible. You never know what opportunities will open up. I started out in one career, but slowly wandered into another.

I am in my 40's and found myself single after 18 years of marriage. I have never had this much interest from the opposite sex in my life! So I guess, its true, that we get more desirable as we age. I think it has something to do with finally getting to know ourselves and feeling secure with who we are, as well as just more comfortable with being ourselves.

As far as dating, go out with who you want, whenever you want. Be honest about seeing other people, if you choose to see more than one, though. I haven't dated any of those signs, therefore, I can't share any experiences. (I've always dated Cancer, Leo or Aquarius. Was married to a Gemini -- THAT did not work. lol!).

Good luck. You seem sweet.

( NARCISSISTIC DOUCHEBAG)

You Care
I am touched

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Posted by james tate
AH caps in love its over rated.
I have been in an on again off again relationship for over 15 years
She has been married and widowed I have gone way out of my way to do some big things for her
ahe is younger than I by 12 years.

We are still on again off again
and it will probuly be this way until I die.

weird.

i've been doing this same dance for almost 12 years with a cap who has an chart eerily similar to yours with the exception of mars (his is in taurus....LOL....so I plan on doing it for another 12.....slow pace versus indecisive).

funny how nobody calls YOU a narcissistic douchebag 😛 you are "just Tate" and that seems to be okay with the majority here.

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Lol @ being a douche !!!kmsl I never knew your guy had the same chart as me but that is very interesting; it is just like the scorp I have has the same bottom half of my chart; I am not a narcissistic ell, life is just shown me that I do NOT have luck in the love area, and that I should keep my options open lol . I wanna let the walls down and be with someone on an emotional, intellectual, spiritual and pyhsical level but I have not yet to find my twin soul. A thousand soul mates but only one twin soul and I read they only come when its close to the departure time

Posted by CapGal
24capgal, (you just had to steal a part of my name, didn't you? Won't hold it against you lol)

You have to be smart about the choices you make now. Do you want a hubby and kids in the medium term or do you want to be seated at the head of the boardroom table? The career goals you have mapped out, do they include taking time off to be a wife and raise kids? Some women are fortunate to have it all (on the surface), mostly because they have a very supportive husband. Others of us not so lucky. One will dominate the other. Decide what's most important to you and go for it.

I wanted a family of my own, got it but at the expense of a career I'm still fighting to build at age 41, but i'll get there. Do I have regrets? Absolutely not, but just wish I could do them both at the same time. Parenting for me meant dedicating all my time to raising my boys. I see middle aged women with fairly successful careers trying to be super moms, but sadly, their kids do suffer through this, as mommy has to be away way too often.

So again, decide what is it you want, be true to yourself, do what makes you happy and fulfilled and go break a leg. Its your life.

Lol @I stole your name, but I was gettin gliches in my first account and when I reported the prob they erased it(idk y) but I was 24capricorn18 at first lol

but different sub: I feel where you are coming from there it would be easier to have it all with a strong man in my corner and a great support system here but we dont always have it that good do we? lol I try to balance em but that hasnt gone so straight for the last (ever since I started dating) 12yrs, so I decided to take a diff approach at things here . As far as my career goes you are totally right, the life I choose is to be successful at my writing so any guy I date should be comfortable with that lif and the two kids I have now . well your pointis so similiar to the wayz I think IDK guess its a cap thing we have similiar names here but I didnt steal it lol

Posted by truecap
My goals changed (and still change) as I went. Set a goal, but be flexible. You never know what opportunities will open up. I started out in one career, but slowly wandered into another.

I am in my 40's and found myself single after 18 years of marriage. I have never had this much interest from the opposite sex in my life! So I guess, its true, that we get more desirable as we age. I think it has something to do with finally getting to know ourselves and feeling secure with who we are, as well as just more comfortable with being ourselves.

As far as dating, go out with who you want, whenever you want. Be honest about seeing other people, if you choose to see more than one, though. I haven't dated any of those signs, therefore, I can't share any experiences. (I've always dated Cancer, Leo or Aquarius. Was married to a Gemini -- THAT did not work. lol!).

Good luck. You seem sweet.

I have learned to incorporate my goals into planning for the future with back up plans that all revolve and relate to my main goal . I feel I am like martin luther king, I wish to speak a message to the world and I am determined to do it . I understand how life throws ya those curves then your whole perspective is changed, so I can relate to your life also . kmsl @ date who ever you wanna date its your life . I think your right . we as women get it confused when we find attractive men that are interested in us, then we have sex and we think automatically that they are our men: REALITY is they dont belong to you ever(they do when your married, but not even then ) so I have been learning that I should just enjoy people and the moments as an experience to look back on in later years in life to say I learned this from that .

Sorry elle I just noticed that you were talkin to tate, at first I thought that tate may have been a typo until I read down and seen his profile

never say your sorry its a sign of weakness.

lol you guys r 2 crazy, but things have been kool with mr cap lately . Hes always findin an exscuse to come be around me . I will go to the other thread for that story . (dont want dxp to say im a dizz for changin the subject .

Now in the love area I really like each guy(or at least something about them ) in the career field I am handling school for now. I have to switch threads now so as you guys were lol