Your opinion would be greatly appreciated..

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What is going on?

I told him I like him a month ago, but he didn't respond so I assumed that he didn't care. Instead he talks to me the next day friendly, but eventually he grew cold, which resulted in me being cold as well.
I left him alone for about a few days when he approached me and I couldn't help but to act cold... I just don't want to get hurt.
Eventually I saw him down the hall and he saw me see him, but I avoided coming in contact and he saw.
He started avoiding eye contact after that and things have been distant between us, yet I see him observing me from afar and he even once showed up in front of my class room and pretended he didn't see me.
so I approached him and flirtatiously said hi to him and he blushed instantly and shyly smiled. Yet he still avoids eye contact, and doesn't initiate much conversation anymore.

I've read so much about capricorns and their distant acts, but I'm not sure if this it or just him being uninterested.
Am I being confusing to him by not being straight forward? Then again, I'm terrified of letting my guard down too much.

What do you think?
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I wouldn't call the distance thing an act. I think he's interested but is just observing you from afar to see if he should pursue you or not. Caps often don't initiate anything unless they're as sure as possible. But if this is bothering you, then being straightforward with him could really speed things up. You don't have to let your guard down though, just ask him what's going on here.
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Posted by CapintheHat
I wouldn't call the distance thing an act. I think he's interested but is just observing you from afar to see if he should pursue you or not. Caps often don't initiate anything unless they're as sure as possible. But if this is bothering you, then being straightforward with him could really speed things up. You don't have to let your guard down though, just ask him what's going on here.



I don't know what to do right now. Should I make it obvious to him that I like him? Should I initiate contact? I haven't texted him in nearly 3 weeks...
I've been trying to give him space, cause I thought thats what he wanted but it seems to make him happy when I say hi to him..

Ugh I dont know what is ok and whats not.. I like him so much, I just dont want to lose him.
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the thing is, I kind of brushed him off when he tried to initiate conversation after being so cold to me for about 3 weeks. Do you think that may be a factor as to why he's being distant again?
When he acts cold, it kind of makes me sad and so I just shut up and just sit there... Am I taking it too personally?
Gah our relationship is extremely odd. There are so many things left unsaid, I don't know what to do.
I feel like I should talk to him, but I don't want to pressure him or scare him off..........
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he used to make an effort to converse, but when he noticed that I wasn't reciprocating... he stopped. He hasn't made an effort to converse with me since then (which was like 2 weeks ago).
I don't know how to talk to him anymore, he's built this wall around him and acts as though he wants to be left alone.

I just don't understand.. he acts as though he doesn't want to talk to me and wants to be left alone, but when I do pay attention to him he smiles this boyish sincere smile and blushes immensely. This has happened SO many times in the past that it makes me wonder if this is the case again...

Is this him being distant, or just doesn't care and or not interested?

If he does care, how come he doesn't make an effort to talk to me or converse with me? I put my self out there by telling him I like him a month ago, and he still hasn't given me an answer. He's just being distant and weird watching me from afar. Is this my cue to leave his life and leave him alone?

I don't know what to do with my self, I can't help but to play it cool as though I'm not interested anymore.. What do I do in the mean time......?
I've just recently noticed how shy and awkward he is, he never used to be like this.

WHAT IS HAPPENING?