@Carla86
13 Years
Posted by Mixtape
I make it known when I know. I become a "different" person. Much more nurturing. Always talking to them and what I'd normally keep to myself, I'll share.
This is PERFECT!
Posted by starlover
poor cappies 😢a musician i go to see has it rising...i thought he couldnt stand me haha, but the last few times we met he has started to be real warm to me ~ i guess he was hiding under the crustiness
It takes cappys a little while to warm up
It takes a while to be sure. There are lots of questions that can only be answered by seeing how you react to different situations. That takes time. We have to see it with our own eyes.
To make a long list short:
-how you react to strangers
-how you treat waiters
-how do you react with your family
-do you do what you say you're going to do
-do you follow through
-are you honest
- are you loyal
-are you trustworthy
-how do you act when you're angry
- etc
Once we decide you're the one you can expect
-we will move heaven and earth for you
-we will be extremely affectionate
-we will spoil you - time, attention, monetarily, action
-our actions will override our words
-we will make time for you - our time is valuable
-we will be there for you
-we will tolerate your eccentricities
See? You will just KNOW if we love you. Plus, we will tell you!
Oh, we aren't good with words. It's awkward and uncomfortable. But if we know you're the one, we have no problem telling you. We will override our uncomfortableness.
Posted by truecap
It takes a while to be sure. There are lots of questions that can only be answered by seeing how you react to different situations. That takes time. We have to see it with our own eyes.To make a long list short:
-how you react to strangers
-how you treat waiters
-how do you react with your family
-do you do what you say you're going to do
-do you follow through
-are you honest
- are you loyal
-are you trustworthy
-how do you act when you're angry
- etcOnce we decide you're the one you can expect
-we will move heaven and earth for you
-we will be extremely affectionate
-we will spoil you - time, attention, monetarily, action
-our actions will override our words
-we will make time for you - our time is valuable
-we will be there for you
-we will tolerate your eccentricitiesSee? You will just KNOW if we love you. Plus, we will tell you!
+1 THIS! Every single thing on your what to expect when a Cap decides you're the one list is exactly how my Cap treats me. It took me a long time to get used to this side of my Cap which was very different from our first relationship go round as a couple (we'd been friends for over 10 years before we actually dated). I was in love with him during our first several years together but he wasn't there yet and it eventually led to our parting. When he came back around the second time (he searched for me for over 2 years before we reconnected again)I was the one hesitant to open my heart to him again but he won me over because he showed and told me how he felt and it was just like you stated. Yes, Caps can drive you to the edge and even sometimes over it but if they are THE ONE and you can get through the trials and tribulations being loved by them is one of the most beautiful and romantic experiences you will ever have in a relationship.
Well, that's good to hear Pidelight. I like hearing the good things.
Posted by truecap
It takes a while to be sure. There are lots of questions that can only be answered by seeing how you react to different situations. That takes time. We have to see it with our own eyes.To make a long list short:
-how you react to strangers
-how you treat waiters
-how do you react with your family
-do you do what you say you're going to do
-do you follow through
-are you honest
- are you loyal
-are you trustworthy
-how do you act when you're angry
- etcOnce we decide you're the one you can expect
-we will move heaven and earth for you
-we will be extremely affectionate
-we will spoil you - time, attention, monetarily, action
-our actions will override our words
-we will make time for you - our time is valuable
-we will be there for you
-we will tolerate your eccentricitiesSee? You will just KNOW if we love you. Plus, we will tell you!
+1 THIS! Every single thing on your what to expect when a Cap decides you're the one list is exactly how my Cap treats me. It took me a long time to get used to this side of my Cap which was very different from our first relationship go round as a couple (we'd been friends for over 10 years before we actually dated). I was in love with him during our first several years together but he wasn't there yet and it eventually led to our parting. When he came back around the second time (he searched for me for over 2 years before we reconnected again)I was the one hesitant to open my heart to him again but he won me over because he showed and told me how he felt and it was just like you stated. Yes, Caps can drive you to the edge and even sometimes over it but if they are THE ONE and you can get through the trials and tribulations being loved by them is one of the most beautiful and romantic experiences you will ever have in a relationship.
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i loved the list! and is true, they take u sometimes to a point where u think is enough... but at the next day u feel like u can still give some more in hope of something better yet to come...
I wish that there were alot of other girls who know this about us cappies, eventhough only one girl has to know this now about me and hopefully she does 🙂
He's really in love if he wants to open a joint bank account
Posted by truecap
It takes a while to be sure. There are lots of questions that can only be answered by seeing how you react to different situations. That takes time. We have to see it with our own eyes.To make a long list short:
-how you react to strangers
-how you treat waiters
-how do you react with your family
-do you do what you say you're going to do
-do you follow through
-are you honest
- are you loyal
-are you trustworthy
-how do you act when you're angry
- etcOnce we decide you're the one you can expect
-we will move heaven and earth for you
-we will be extremely affectionate
-we will spoil you - time, attention, monetarily, action
-our actions will override our words
-we will make time for you - our time is valuable
-we will be there for you
-we will tolerate your eccentricitiesSee? You will just KNOW if we love you. Plus, we will tell you!
+1 THIS! Every single thing on your what to expect when a Cap decides you're the one list is exactly how my Cap treats me. It took me a long time to get used to this side of my Cap which was very different from our first relationship go round as a couple (we'd been friends for over 10 years before we actually dated). I was in love with him during our first several years together but he wasn't there yet and it eventually led to our parting. When he came back around the second time (he searched for me for over 2 years before we reconnected again)I was the one hesitant to open my heart to him again but he won me over because he showed and told me how he felt and it was just like you stated. Yes, Caps can drive you to the edge and even sometimes over it but if they are THE ONE and you can get through the trials and tribulations being loved by them is one of the most beautiful and romantic experiences you will ever have in a relationship.
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I love these, both of them. 🙂
Posted by aquapiscescusp
He's really in love if he wants to open a joint bank account
Good one! True, though. If we trust you with access to our money, that means we really, really trust you.
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I have found information about it, but i would like to hear personal opinions and experiences!. So far they seem to have too many troubles to show those emotions, very careful and wont fall for anyone that they are not sure is the right one for them.