Posted by xxoommmxxoo
Maybe you hurt him and thats why he broke up with you. Ill never break up with someone without a lot of thought.
Posted by LoversInLove3
He opened up and showed you his heart.
We don't beat a dead horse, so don't expect him to keep begging, pleading, and professing his love for you when you've made it clear there's no chance and, presumably, shot down all of his "what if?'s".
He's already made himself vulnerable (blue moon experience), and you telling him he's "the love of your life" and you'll "never love anyone like you loved him" probably seems feigned to him.
He's protecting himself and you need to respect that; if you don't want the coldness, the ball is in your court but I wouldn't count on bringing that "wall" he's got up now down easily. It's now a major uphill climb.
Do what makes you happy, but don't expect his emotions to be there as a fall back when you feel uneasy. We're not exactly sympathetic to a catalyst of our emotional pain.
Good luck, and I hope you both recover quickly. Maybe eventually you'll be caring friends with the pain of the relationship ending waning to a very distant dull feeling.
Posted by noonie1801
The fact that he begged you to be his friend and stay in his life is just showing that he isn't ready to let you go. Are you the only one he's close to? It's comforting to him to know that you are there when he needs you and when he feels like talking to you. I think you should stop texting him and not communicate with him for awhile. Just give each other space. It doesn't sound like he actually wants to be with you in the long run. It just seem like he just doesn't want to be alone but it's just my opinion and he sounds just like a Cappie.
Posted by kalin
They are good at making people feel guilty. Whenever I ignored the Cap I know, he'd leave me LONG messages, telling me how much he misses me, how much he's been worried about me, and just wanted to make sure I'm ok....blah blah
I finally got rid of the Cap after 4 years, after I changed my number. (He tried to email me after that, but I just ignored him.) They are very good at mind-treetrunking, just my own experience though. Hope yours was just busy.
Posted by xxoommmxxoo
hmmm, i'm dealing with the same behaviour from a virgo man right now. WTH indeed.