What's this Sag like?

I don't have his birth time, but this is what I was able to get for his chart. I'm asking because I'm always confused by him, I'd like some insight about him. I feel like he comes off to me in two different ways, either somewhat douchey or somewhat nice. Sometimes by his views I've recently discovered on things it makes me wonder if he actually is trying to come off douchey to me. (Maybe that's just me misunderstanding him since it's through text... I'm an Aquarius, I hear we can completely misunderstand people lmao.)

He's someone who I went out with a long time ago, but always contacts me with long periods of time in between to go be friends with benefits. We've recently seen each other one time. (He has a history of being flaky if I decide to start seeing him and we usually only see each other once or three times at most,) So, that happened this most recent time and I said some things and I don't know if that's what caused him to not want to see me anymore or if he didn't really want to before I said anything. I always wonder why he keeps coming back to me, and on top of that he doesn't make any efforts to try and do that or be in a relationship with other girls. I don't know what he really wants with me and it makes me wonder if he doesn't either. I keep hearing Sagg's are very blunt but I feel like with a lot of things he's not, and he's very secretive about things I feel like are maybe strange to be secretive about? Anyone who has anything to comment about that would be appreciated! Thanks!

12/11/91
Sun - Sagittarius
Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Sagittarius
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sagittarius
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Capricorn
Asc. Node - Capricorn

Posted by 3Aquarius3
but always contacts me with long periods of time in between to go be friends with benefits.

So he wants sex with no strings attached, ok.

Posted by 3Aquarius3
I always wonder why he keeps coming back to me

Sex?

Posted by 3Aquarius3
I don't know what he really wants with me and it makes me wonder if he doesn't either.

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Uhhhmmmm, ok I'm out.

On a serious note though, the "doucheness" I think is just the way Sag's are and they don't mean any harm by it. But I'd say yeah, he wants sex and you've agreed to give it to him, no strings attached. So you can't really ask for much else from him unfortunately.

But the thing that's weird is we haven't had actual sex, he contradicts what he says by saying he wants it then when we met he seemed scared by it and said it was a big deal and that maybe we'd do it eventually. I don't get why someone would ask for that and then afterwards admit they don't just sleep around with people?

How long were you previously dating?

so he's basically asking you to be friends with benefits except without the benefits. O_O

We dated for like 4 months in 7th grade lmao, and ever since then we've been like in and out of contact we've only met up to be 'friends with(out) benefits' like maybe 5 times over like the course of 6 years. Yeah it does seem like he's asking for that lmao.

I just heard from him tonight too, I guess his flakiness this time was because he said this one time wasn't good. Which, it wasn't it was super awkward and we hadn't seen each other in like 4 years. It kind of made me feel bad because I'd still do stuff with him if it wasn't good, (Maybe it'd be another story if it'd be consistently bad with no effort to change.) Especially because I agreed to do the stuff he wanted to do. He said he was nervous that night though, it was weird I felt like I saw him in a different light for the first time.
I was asking him questions about why we haven't had sex and stuff and he just seemed like almost slightly embarrassed when I asked if he felt like he's had a lot of sex and he kind of said no. I was sort of prying into him a little he said he didn't mind though when I apologized for it. I'm unsure if deep down he's insecure about a lot of things, (like his weight as well.. he's probably gained at least 50lbs from the last time I saw him 4 years ago. The whole time I've known him he hasn't been as big as he is now. I don't care but I know he's self conscious he said he's never had sex with his shirt off) and masks it up to me and tries to come off like he doesn't care? Sorry to tell a huge story!

Aaw poor guy. Well, I guess you need to talk to him about it without it getting too awkward, make sure he is comfortable talking about it and I guess try not to make it such a big deal.