Any advice

I did a stupid thing with my gemini.

We have a fight and I said " maybe you are not the man for me" And he said "maybe not". That was 2 days ago and we have not have any contact. I really don't know what to do.

call him and tell him you're sorry and you didn't mean it?


i occasionally get pouty with my gemini boyfriend but im usually crawling back within 24 hours because i know i was a brat and he's always calm and happy and doesn't make mountains out of molehills like me 😄

i dunno. i think there's something to be said about being able to admit that you've been acting stupid. we all do it but people that are so stubborn and can't get over themselves become too much to handle after a while. i think most gemini's are pretty easy going so depending on what happened with you guys hopefully you guys can move forward

HI guys,

OK, I called him. And we are back together but things are off. He doesn't leave me little notes to tell me he loves me or miss me or want he wants to do with me anymore.

I can feel myself getting desparate not to loose him. And it is so hard not to push im trying to figure out what is going on and just not to work on his nerves.

He was out of the country for work for 2 weeks. I get this feeling that he cheated on me.

I really just need to talk to him.... What do you think?

Ok, guys I have tried being patient but things are just not right between us anymore.

And it doesn't help that hot 22- 27 year olds are chasing after him. He doesn't give me reason to doubt him. But I am only human , So, I hate his flirting.It drives me ( I am a Leo)

what must I do? Talking to him now, I will just loose my cool.

Lauren89 , thanks !

I will try. It is not easy not being the center of his attention.

Ok, 2 days ago was my Gemini's birthday. He is out of town. I send him a msg and wrote on his wall on facebook. All he responded was " thanx". He wrote thanking everyone else with a notes " like thank you and I appreciate it. ANd on his ex- girlfriend's birthday wish he wrote a long thank you and said I miss you too. We have not spoken since.

I deleted him for facebook. and just decided to end it. It has been a long time comming. He has been ignoring me for a while now. And I hate chasing after him.So, I just decided to let him go. I don't need to stress.

My friends says that I over reacted.I am a leo and I am very proud...Things like that just doesn't sit well with me.

FB is the devil.

you deleted him after stalking his wall posts. irrational and impulsive. IF things are repairable, what are you going to do? add him back?

a lot of times our worries and insecurities can make a bad situation worse because we end up projecting our fears in ugly/unstable ways. fixed signs press for "same" in the face of change and our pressing during these periods is often what drives the loved one away.

if the situation is over, better to let it unfold naturally than rally so hard against it. state your case, your feelings and concerns but if you feel like you're chasing smoke, stop. mourn the loss and move on. if it was a passing phase, it's in their court to come back to you. if he returns, he returns and if not, eh, he wasn't the one anyway.

Sorry, I have not been on for a while.Work has been crazy.

He has not chnaged his status, since I deleted him(Yeah,I am still stalking) I like him and we really wanted to see things go between us.But we both are stubborn.And he said he wants to have us to have sometime special.

But seeing that he was appreciative to all his friends. And writting I miss you too. To the ex he wanted to marry, have kids with and spend his life with. That was just too much for me. So, I did what leo's do reacted and went and licked my wounds.

I rather just walk away and enjoy my life. SO,can't wait for the World Cup to start .... The exictment here in Cape Town is so great.