Aries man tries to win a Gemini, How—

I'm a Aries man how has set my eyes on the elusive Gemini woman. We meet a year ago I was just out of a long term relationship with a Leo that gave me 3 beautiful childern a Libra an two Leo's. Needless to say It was way to soon to think of a relationship for either of us. She just getting out of a bad relationship too. Things seemed to be going very good at first. We talked all the time went out a couple of times. I really like her. We had a mutual friend that just bus drove all over me because he was in love with her. Things went south some were due to our current situations, I think mostly because of the shit being talked about me. Anyway she pulled the Gemini disappearing act an cut me off completely. Over the past year we gave talk a few times how are you doing convos. But I cant seem to get her out of my head. Im in a better spot in my life now an want to get a real shot with her. I dont think either of us we ready at the time. I fear I have missed that boat an she has taken all the negative things form a year ago to shut it down. Never scared if a challenge or hard work because I know she is worth the work. What do I do

I'm not sure how Aries & Gemini fair, but as a Libra, Aries is one of my matches. Even though I bump heads with most Aries, mainly the women (several family members), I still love them to lyfe and we actually get along great when we both realize neither of us will back down on certain things. We've just decided to "agree to disagree"..lol. Aside from that, Aries dudes have always been cool with me. I once dated an Aries dude and one of his biggest issues with me was he thought I was being elusive. He said I was too standoffish, distance and non caring, and he never knew how I really felt about him, which was not even close to being true. We sorta had this relationship that didn't need words. It was a silent attraction, and we both knew it. It was really one of the strangest relationships I had ever had as a young woman and still til this day, we run into each other from time to time and the chemistry is still there, but of course we've both moved on and started new lives. I said all that to say this: She's an Air sign, so it's possible that you may have a chance, so go for it!

I want to thank everone for their advice. I did talk to her last night again while I got the whole im not ready to date we can go out as friend thing. We are going out this weekend if our schedules workout. Im a car salesman so i overcome objections allday long for a living. Everone is not ready, just looking ect but yet i sell 12-15 cars a month an love the challenge. @wicked your right Im an Aries, just keep going for the close thays what i do best. An if something happens it will be one hell of a how i meet your mother type storie.

I'm a Gemini and I loveeeee Aries men...could be my Venus in Aries though? I'm not sure, but I'm definitely drawn toward them and vice verse. I would say just be straight forward and let her know you've been thinking about her a lot!

This has all been good advise but i think we are all just miles apart at this point. She pulled the Gemini change of plans thing. I hate the idea of giving up but i think it might be the best thing. I really need an emotional connection that she cant give me. Im sure she will contact me when she wants some attention which im more then will to give because I love to flirt plus it good practice lol.