@xugarspicegilr123
11 Years
Aries girls and Gemini girls friendship -good/bad?
That's not true for me. I'm a Gemini and my bestie who is a Scorpio loves because I'm the complete opposite of the above. If I'm jealous of someone I highlight that about them in a positive way. I do have a close friend who is an Aries and it took her awhile to ACTUALLY get to know me. We didn't get along good at first because she always thought negative of me but I took the time to show her what she thought was true at all. Now we are tight! I think Gemini make Aries feel insecure, but not on purpose.
Wasn't true* lol
Gems and aries will have fun for 5 minutes...and then the gemini fakeness will ruin the friendshp. i find them boring, manipulative, stupid, and sometimes evil. but their evil is based on the pervious things i mentioned, so its really just stupidity...it's like stupid- squared.
Posted by grayid2
Gems and aries will have fun for 5 minutes...and then the gemini fakeness will ruin the friendshp. i find them boring, manipulative, stupid, and sometimes evil. but their evil is based on the pervious things i mentioned, so its really just stupidity...it's like stupid- squared.
Man, I'd have to agree to an extent.
I worked with one for 8 years. I was generally okay with her, but never really super close. She was really fake, made snap judgements about people based off of STUPID things, two faced, easily would turn on people. As she got older, she turned into a cock tease and was drawn to losers. I dunno. Over the years, a lot of our mutual friends began to distance themselves as well.
Recently, I had a Gem friend flip a bitch on me over something fickle. I'd heard about her tendencies, but I finally experienced them and wow. Manipulative, jealous, a liar, and that "evil" you speak of is definitely rooted in those traits.
Can't recall other specific examples, but I've noticed that I get along with them on a basic level, but I don't really get all that close to many because of these tendencies. Astrology aside, my gut picks up shallow and fickle from their personalities. You can't trust an individual who is okay with you one minute, but goes bat shit crazy the next over some perceived slight in their heads and will turn into your enemy at the drop of a hat. Life is too short for such fuck up individuals. Something is wrong with you if you're that effing trivial about the friends that you have.
Posted by Fbenton8
I think Gemini make Aries feel insecure, but not on purpose.
Omg this is fucking hilarious.
I've never had a Gemini friend 😢
yeah it can work. On a platonic level, I think I do really well with all the air signs. I appreciate and respect gemini intellect. However on a business level, no thanks. I don't like the hot and cold stuff...other than that, yeah they're aight.
Posted by Fbenton8
I think Gemini make Aries feel insecure, but not on purpose.
LOL. Who the hell would be jealous of Gemini? Certainly not me. You guys always tell things in order to feel appreciated. Aries people don't do that! They are very self-confident. Deep inside we may sometimes have our moments of weakness but we regard ourselves with high value and have a lot self-respect. Someone does not appreciate us we simply stop talking with that. We don't try to play games or manipulate other to achieve our goals
Anyway I do have a pisces moon. Does that make any sort of conflict with geminis?
Thanks 😄
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .
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Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .
We are competitive with ourselves and we do like to be the center of the attention. We always expect a lot of ourselves and we do get angry with OURSELVES if we don't do things well. That's why we are also quite perfectionists. Me and my father we are both aries. We never compete with other. We do compete with other if you challenge us. Yes, that I do recognise, we hate being challenged, it's almost like you're saying " no you can't do it". but you gemini, you guys are just LAZY!
Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .
We are competitive with ourselves and we do like to be the center of the attention. We always expect a lot of ourselves and we do get angry with OURSELVES if we don't do things well. That's why we are also quite perfectionists. Me and my father we are both aries. We never compete with other. We do compete with other if you challenge us. Yes, that I do recognise, we hate being challenged, it's almost like you're saying " no you can't do it". but you gemini, you guys are just LAZY!
Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .
We are competitive with ourselves and we do like to be the center of the attention. We always expect a lot of ourselves and we do get angry with OURSELVES if we don't do things well. That's why we are also quite perfectionists. Me and my father we are both aries. We never compete with other. We do compete with other if you challenge us. Yes, that I do recognise, we hate being challenged, it's almost like you're saying " no you can't do it". but you gemini, you guys are just LAZY!
Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .
We are competitive with ourselves and we do like to be the center of the attention. We always expect a lot of ourselves and we do get angry with OURSELVES if we don't do things well. That's why we are also quite perfectionists. Me and my father we are both aries. We never compete with other. We do compete with other if you challenge us. Yes, that I do recognise, we hate being challenged, it's almost like you're saying " no you can't do it". but you gemini, you guys are just LAZY!
Posted by grayid2
Gems and aries will have fun for 5 minutes...and then the gemini fakeness will ruin the friendshp. i find them boring, manipulative, stupid, and sometimes evil. but their evil is based on the pervious things i mentioned, so its really just stupidity...it's like stupid- squared.You can't trust an individual who is okay with you one minute, but goes bat shit crazy the next over some perceived slight in their heads and will turn into your enemy at the drop of a hat. Life is too short for such fuck up individuals. Something is wrong with you if you're that effing trivial about the friends that you have.
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Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .We are competitive with ourselves and we do like to be the center of the attention. We always expect a lot of ourselves and we do get angry with OURSELVES if we don't do things well. That's why we are also quite perfectionists. Me and my father we are both aries. We never compete with other. We do compete with other if you challenge us. Yes, that I do recognise, we hate being challenged, it's almost like you're saying " no you can't do it". but you gemini, you guys are just LAZY!
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Not the type to be competitive but I admit I can be lazy
Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .LOL. That's ripe, coming from a gemini. You sound bitter.
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just saying the truth , bad aries are like that
Posted by justhewayouare
lol it's the opposite aries are too competitive like leo, they are jealous when they don't get attention , manipulative , act like they are the smartest and think others are just stupid , quick-tempered so everything can become an argument and some are other self-centered or very selfish .
you are basing these descriptions on what sample population? No, aries are not known for being manipulative, that's more of a water sign thing, and maybe sometimes air. My question is, if you dislike aries so much, why spend so much time coming on our boards, making mindless and nonsensical excerpts which try to "fabricate" your own negative personal experiences. not all Aries are the way you described. There are a few bad apples in every sign, but those characteristics are not definitive of the entire zodiac sign. Ironic that a GEMINI (you know....just known for being bi polar, incessant cheaters and bat shit CRAZY in general) has a lot to say about other people. LOL to that..L.O.L. Simmer down sir.
LOL this is a think with some aries everything shouldn't be taken bad when it's them who criticize but when it's others they don't take it well.Kind of hypocritical.I'm talking about my experiences about aries of course. The subject was about aries and gemini in friendship aspect of course .Like if I'm the only one who had bad experiences. Did you read the first comment of this topic and other ones ? So you shouldn't be bitter about that since what you reply is not positive about gemini.I wasn't mad when I saw other negative comments about gemini and I just want to say my opinion and this was about the BAD aries . Btw , I have nothing against them. I know also good aries .Of course most experience with aries in friendship for me was awful but that doesn't mean I hate them and have nothing good to say. I also know some good aries it sucks that I didn't get the chance to meet more like them .I also comment about another topic of aries in their appearance in a positive way.
Posted by justhewayouare
LOL this is a think with some aries everything shouldn't be taken bad when it's them who criticize but when it's others they don't take it well.Kind of hypocritical.I'm talking about my experiences about aries of course. The subject was about aries and gemini in friendship aspect of course .Like if I'm the only one who had bad experiences. Did you read the first comment of this topic and other ones ? So you shouldn't be bitter about that since what you reply is not positive about gemini.I wasn't mad when I saw other negative comments about gemini and I just want to say my opinion and this was about the BAD aries . Btw , I have nothing against them. I know also good aries .Of course most experience with aries in friendship for me was awful but that doesn't mean I hate them and have nothing good to say. I also know some good aries it sucks that I didn't get the chance to meet more like them .I also comment about another topic of aries in their appearance in a positive way.
yeah having an opinion is fine, but you said bad after the fact, and you back peddled and "corrected" yourself. stop BSing please.
Didn't think It was to precise ..I mean grayid2 and xugarspicegilr123 with her second comment were not
precise about it .
?? My other close girl friend, who I've known since childhood, is a Gem-Cancer cuspie (and she doesn't know it and considers herself Gem). She reminds me more of a Cancer though, but some Gem traits are def there. I love this girl to pieces and even if we rarely see each other, every time we talk it's like picking up where we left off..
I definitely agree with this! I've actually just gone through birthdays on my facebook friends list and two of my best girl friends have been Geminis on the Cancer cusp!
As for my girlfriends who are the pure Geminis, there were lots of great girls who, in each case, I remember thinking "why aren't we closer?" when catching up with them! There's something that doesn't click - I don't recall having to fight for the spotlight or anything, I just felt like they wanted to remain acquaintances rather then become closer friends?
This perhaps could be more of a personal thing, but I'm not an organiser, wait until last minute and pick the best option. I know my pure Gemini friends do the same thing. So neither of us would organise something for us to do together! Once I had tickets to an event and one was ready to tag along, but not organise.
I had a best friend who was Gemini, we were best friends for over 20 years, growing up together, she even lived with me for a couple of years, I'm certain she was never fake with me but I saw saw her adapt to different people and act differently around other people. I was also close friends with her family, and how she was with them was how she was with me, so I saw that as her true self so it never bothered me.
I found her intelligent and outgoing and a good friend and we saw each other through a lot of life's ups and downs, unfortunately our lives led us in different directions and we drifted apart,I think if you're in a Gemini's outer ring of friends it might be a struggle as those people were always coming in and out.
I've never had another Gemini friend to my knowledge so can't compare.
I've had two and they both started to annoy the hell out of me so we aren't friends anymore. I don't think I get along well with Gemini women. They seem to be manipulative and always need to be the center of attention. That doesn't gel well with my need to be the center of attention. lol!
I always up and leave Geminis. But, we'll reconnect later in the future. They're funny and fun to hangout with. My best friend was a Gemini but I was going through some things and basically left and she would always wonder where I was and check up on me just to see if I was ok. My sister (Aries too) and her Gemini best friend are super close and they tell each other everything.
As long as she wasn't a blabber mouth, we'd probably get along.
I had a Gemini friend in grade school, and we were pretty good friends.
However, she had a tendency to tell people my business, especially people I didn't like.
Wow, I'm so glad I ran across this post. My best friend (Gemini) and I (Aries) were closer than close for 11 years. We only fell out once over a guy (female Geminis that I know are almost always guy crazy)! He asked me to prom, she'd had a secret crush on him the previous year. I asked her if she thought it was ok for me to go, we go, she stops being my friend for the whole summer. This time, we're over for good. She was mad because I didn't attend her surprise birthday party... Which was the same day/night that I moved into a new apartment... An hour away from her. She went on to say how bad of a person I was and just really said some hurtful things. If she'd felt that way before why hadnt she ever told me? And better yet, why'd she still continue being a close friend? She has the tendency to burn bridges with her friends and want to be cool with them again when she's gotten over it. But I am an Aries with a Scorp Moon, Leo Ascendant. Ain't no turning back for me.
The second female gem acquaintance I have... Is a real sweetheart, but a complete slut. And that is why I can't take the next step in being her friend.
My little sister is a Gemini and I feel the same way about her! Sometimes she can be sweet and honest and other times, selfish and two-faced and phony. She definitely has an evil twin component.
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Hello everyone. I'm new here and an aries girls
I already asked for this question in the gemini section, where I also shared my experience/problem with a gemini girl I met
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/gemini-girls-do-you-get-along-with-aries-girls-5499050/
But so far I only came upon the opinion of one gemini girl who agrees she does not like aries girls in a general way.
My point of view - BAD GEMINIS ARE:
1)are fake;
2)manipulative;
3)always want to be on top; no matter what cost
4)jealous of other people's success
5)have a similar behavior of Cinderella's stepmother. She is jealous of Cinderella and want her daughters to surpass her (look article in here - http://www.simplysunsigns.com/2014/02/disney-villains-negative-sun-sign-traits.html)
I would love to listen to the opinion of the aries warriors in here 😄