Calling on Geminis for help!!

I was with my gem for about 6 months. I'm sag, so we had the magnetic attraction right outta the gate, but bickered over silly stuff. He admitted early on that he had jealously issues, so I put a leash on my flirting, but he really does have an insecure side.

Well, he broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I figured, I'm busy right now, will let him cool off (as I usually do) and then just call to see how he is doing. I finally called, but he didn't answer.

I absolutely adore him. Is there any way at all to get back with him? PLEASE HELP!

you called. he didn't answer. he's mulling over what it is you want, what he wants to say to you, and how to go about it.
if he likes you, he will call you in a couple of days. if not. I'm sorry to say - you may have to move on.

I'm dating a Sag, well, was, I broke up with him 3 days ago and I actually don't expect him to call. It doesn't mean I don't think about him. I do, but sometimes things hurt too much for words and talk. On my end I think it ended, but sometimes Gems go back when they really care. I know I have before.

Keep your chin up. You may call again in 2-3 days, but don't do it sooner than that. He will feel stoked if you do. Even if he wants to talk to you. Let him make the next move now.

Gems are optimistic generally. So just give him some time.

Hope it works out for you.

Roaming - first, thank you for your insight. I called yesterday and texted today. Even before your reply, I'd kind of figured that IF he really cares at all, he'll call. I'm just baffled how he could introduce me to his mother, make a production out of our relationship and them BOOM! nada.

As for your situation...is your sag worth trying again? If so, would you consider calling him? Ah...relationships are so stressful 😢

your Gem probably just got spooked by his own forthcoming 🙂.

My Sag is worth it, only if he thinks I'm worth it.
I will not call.
If a man wants to talk to a woman, he will do everything to achieve that.
If not...than he's just not that into her...

and that's ok.

even if it's hard.
it's better my relationship ends now, than when I invested a lot more of myself and find out I'm only Mrs. Right Not, not Mrs. Right.

as for you, don't call or text your Gem anymore. Leave him. He will call you by the time the week passes.

🙂

Posted by roamingfree
your Gem probably just got spooked by his own forthcoming 🙂.

My Sag is worth it, only if he thinks I'm worth it.
I will not call.
If a man wants to talk to a woman, he will do everything to achieve that.
If not...than he's just not that into her...

and that's ok.

even if it's hard.
it's better my relationship ends now, than when I invested a lot more of myself and find out I'm only Mrs. Right Not, not Mrs. Right.

as for you, don't call or text your Gem anymore. Leave him. He will call you by the time the week passes.

🙂

This may not mean much, but your entire post gave me peace. You are RIGHT, regardless of a man's sign, they ARE supposed to do the calling and doting. I needed to be reminded of that. I hope your sag recognizes your worth; sometimes mean are too proud. I also hope you're right about my gem. I cannot even pretend...love him to pieces 🙂

Please, let me know if you hear from your sag. I dated a fellow sag and much like gems...we can pull away when cornered, but we always go back to our stable. Perhaps your pony needs to cook off a bit 🙂

I'm hoping. he's not a bad guy. love him to pieces too, but... I refuse to forget what I'm worth...

neither should you.

🙂

Posted by roamingfree
I'm hoping. he's not a bad guy. love him to pieces too, but... I refuse to forget what I'm worth...

neither should you.

🙂

Did you ever hear from your boy? I didn't...as much as it hurts, decided to move on. Perhaps, I'd do better with a leo or aries 🙂

no, and that's ok. packed his stuff and stuck it on the porch. If he doesn't want this than I definitely don't need it. Moving on and not looking back.

in the wise words of Yoda: fvkitall

it is what it is.

Weird never seen you on our board

@ Roamingfree - I guess it's best to let him gallop his arse on to the next field, huh? lol
@ Sag89 - was your statement for me?

he wants to have butt sex

yea nycc

Posted by Sag89
yea nycc

I need to mosey over...found the site when I was grappling with my gem. Now that I'm trying to get over him...will drag my carcass over for rejuvenating 🙂

Posted by KingOfAries
he wants to have butt sex

Um...really? You DO need to get a hobby. I'm new, but have read enough of your ish to know...you need a lot of therapy. Feel free to get it, but not on my dime.