Can me and this Genemi guy get back to love?

Sry the last one I clicked the wrong button so it didnt show up.
Leo here. I and this Genemi guy have been 2gether for 3 months. Recently he's been complaining about the fact that I suddenly log out of Fb for gaming (yeah what a shame). But the day before our 3rd anniversary, my network is crashed so I logged out of fb in the middle of our conversation. And silly me, I logged in the game after that. He said I didnt respect him, didnt care about how much he worked hard for our anniversary, just care about gaming and said "Bye". The next day he rejected all my text or fb, eventhough it was our big day.
Last night he finally replied me and he said he'd failed in this love. He gave me all his trust but I just didnt care, that I ruined his trust and his love. He said that he had many girls out there talking to him because I didnt care about him and stuffs like that.
He even metioned bunch of girls who he chatted with while i'm gaming. Also other girls who gave him advice on our love and trust me, they dont know anything and just make things worse wwith negative comments.
He didnt really say anything like let's break up or we're through. All the sentences was vague. He just said I failed him, he couldnt trust me anymore and from now on he wouldnt spoild or pleased me anymore BUT at the same time he said that he hoped I wouldnt give up on my love and remembered that although he's flirting with other girls, I was the one he loved.
So now I'm trying to explain everything to him and show my will to change but he seemed to ignore. I suggested for a night out to see each other and figured things out but he didn't respond.
So... what should I do? What's his feeling about me?

Is this serious.....??

I'm not male gem, but a female gem. Not that it matters in this situation. I don't know how he feels, but I know how I would feel if someone just dropped me in the middle of a convo just to play a game.... The game can wait. What you did was rude, imo.

What do you do?? Grow up and be alil more attentive! I mean, how would you feel if he just started blatantly ignoring you mid-sentence?? Maybe doing the right thing, instead of the selfish thing, and things might have been better. How to get back? You might not, but let him breathe and get some space to think for a bit. Leave him alone. If he comes back, you'll be lucky.

Yeah thinking back I have to admitted that I was childish. REALLY REALLY childish.
So I was text him for the last time and said that I'll give him time to think about everything and he should take care of himself because the weather is terrible.
Honestly I still keep a blind faith that he still loves me. And I still hope.
Oh my... what have I done 😢

Omg We met each other. He still blamed at me but he said he still love me or else he wouldnt have come to see me. Not to metioned, at first he was listening to music and let me talking by myself.
He still acts cold now but he talked to me though the sentences seem to be rude and short.
Can I carry on my hope?

Why is it that when someone does something wrong, knows they did, but wants to pass blame and think EVERYTHING will be ok? This is something I don't understand....

When someone does something wrong, there are consequences to he faced.

Posted by misslissa
Why is it that when someone does something wrong, knows they did, but wants to pass blame and think EVERYTHING will be ok? This is something I don't understand....

When someone does something wrong, there are consequences to he faced.

So.. I have to face the consequences, is that what you meant?
I still trying to make it up for him, taking care of him and the feeling of losing him has already made me feel horrible recently.
I know the karma thing. I'm just trying my best.

Posted by Tavrine
I'm not gemini, but the way I can tell is that for 3 months he really loves you, yet you shut him down from gaming (like you were not interested/don't care in relationship). He got hurt from it.
And now he's doing back in you the other way around in literally (and also the way he sounds now he's unsure about you).

And also, how young are you both?

I was way to immature at that time. Now I'm quitting games.I didnt know it would hurt him that much..
And we both havent reach our 20s yet. Pretty young and childish right

Posted by feby16aqua
I don't think playing games (not the gaming part) does nothing to help a relationship. I can understand why he is hurt. Myself, even if I am hurt I try to keep it moving. Not everyone is like that though. It sounds he needs time. I would give him time but let him know how you feel as well and that you are sorry.

Yep. Thank you for that solution. I met him because we played that game together(geez)
Now I'm trying my best to shrink the distance between us by showing my feelings and find chances to meet each other, or texting him asking about his life.
Actually he said he'd like to love me for a long time so he'd forgive. But I understand through the way he talked that the chance that we can be like back in the old days is slight.

Posted by tiziani
3 anniversaries in 3 months lol


Easy come, easy go.

Anniversary is just a day we write eachother a hand-writing letter each month to pour our hearts out 🙂
It's not big as it sounds. Just little romantic thing we want to do in this Internet explosion era

"honeymoon feel" I like that expression 🙂
Yep. I think after the first 3 months, everything seems to be less vague and less beautiful and you'll see the not-so-bright side of your mate. And if you cant keep your head up maybe you'll want to leave.

I think he just doesnt have that patience and he didnt use to accept a relationship once it turns bad.
Guess that he cant bear the "ups and downs" like you said