Fire vs. Water, how can I make things right?

Hello Pisceans, 🙂 Leo here...just had a big fall out with a pisces. He was a friend of mine and I felt like trust was broken,and I know things will never be the same but,

I would like to clear the air... I know at times Pisces will swim away from conflict but how can I get him to talk to me so we can at least clear the air a bit?? I hate to end things in a bitter way.

Most people would say ughh let it go but to have some closure would make me feel better.

Well to shorten things up.. We had exchanged suggestive pictures too soon starting off our friendship... I am at the point where I just wanted to keep things strictly friendly take more time to get to know each other. He kept hounding me for more pictures and I told him that isn't a good idea and that's when he threatened me.

He said he could expose me now if he wanted to and that's when the lion came out of me..I felt that he was trying to blackmail me. Now I have always believed in treating people with respect and even in my wrath I did not curse at him or call him out of his name.. But I did let him have it.. Don't shoot at me and not expect me to fire back. The fight was over something silly but he turned on me really quick and I did not like that.. The trust is broken. He feels I was rude to him and he did nothing wrong. Even though I am upset with him I would like to talk things out like adults but I fear he is out of the picture for good.

Hi pothead 😉 and thanks, I think lol

He was one of the people that was around when I had a lot of crazy things going on. He was a good friend to me. I hate to leave any relationship on bad terms. It may be hard for most to understand but it makes sense to me.

For the record I have a soft spot for Leo's, my moms a Leo.

+1 DJ

I sense you have self esteem issues if you desire to make up with a creep whose main goal is to get more compromising pictures of you.

Hopefully your face isn't in any of these pictures. Remember these photos can follow you for the rest of your life so be very discerning about putting pictures of yourself that contain sexual content.

If you sexualize yourself a man (many of them) will do the same, he won't see your worth in who you are as a person, he'll just see your big titties etc and treat you like a slab of meat. Your worth is so much higher than how you look.

Ok, I can respect what everybody has said so far and your all right... I will delete him from my contacts right away.. Thanks guys 🙂

What was the fight over?

He seems as though he was trying to put it over you for some reason maybe to get a reaction of some sort to see how yo would take it, why he would do this not sure.

Posted by Eyes84
Well to shorten things up.. We had exchanged suggestive pictures too soon starting off our friendship... I felt that he was trying to blackmail me. Now I have always believed in treating people with respect

What were you thinking to send someone YOU DON'T KNOW provacative/"suggestive" pictures—
Where's the self respect in that and why would he respect you or respect him for asking?

Where's your father and big brothers? Who taught you it is ok to belittle yourself like this?

DAMN..where's rabbit? ..and for christ sakes, put a different picture up that doesn't say PLEASE FUCK MY BREASTS! You show yourself like this to the wrong guy and you are gonna find your ass either raped or dead or yea on some open pervert forum. Grow some self respect and be a lady. Maybe, just maybe you'll get respect return. What the hell is the matter with females like this?? Pathetic.

Posted by Eyes84
He was a good friend to me.

Oh c'mon!! First you were sending pictures to get to know each other, now half way through the threads he's a good friend. smfh

whats wrong with sending pics of yourself to someone else when they do it to you and it was all in good fun?

Why is it do you find this disrespectful? when really its not disrespectful at all

Whats the 'father' and 'big brothers' got to do with this?

What is it of your concern who taught who here?

Where rabbit is? only he would know that answer

and how is that picture saying PLEASE FUCK MY BREASTS!? just coz they are wearing a low cleavage and you can see breasts that does not mean they want their breasts fucked

What the hell is your problem with females being like this?

who the fuck are you to tell anyone what they be doing and how they be doing it?

Posted by Eyes84

We had exchanged suggestive pictures too soon starting off our friendship... I am at the point where I just wanted to keep things strictly friendly take more time to get to know each other. He kept hounding me for more pictures and I told him that isn't a good idea and that's when he threatened me.

You sent him provocative pics of yourself, and NOW you're thinking about respect?

By sending those pics ... is giving him the signal: GO

And now .... you claim you want to fix the relationship?

You want to fix a relationship in where you just got finished telling us he threatened you?

You're a fucking douchebag.

Posted by Eyes84

Now I have always believed in treating people with respect ....

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If you want anyone to believe you're into being respectful ... you could start by covering up your fucking tits on your avi.

Because the pic in your avi screams DISrespect .....

The amount of people in this world who is ignorant is staggering .....

People like you aren't to be taken seriously ... and never will be

If he was nt such an idiot and setting this person up to send pics this way then this person wouldnt be like this

who said he was being respectful when he set this person up in the first place anyway?

Was there a relationship at all? How can there be a relationship to 'fix' when he doesnt respect this person? and hence you threatened this person?

If you want to mind your own business then i suggest you go do it now or get fucked as really i dont see how its got anything to do with you what this person does or doesnt do with you and you pics shared

you got to respect others before you yourself will ever get respect and seems to me like you dont respect this person at all so why even waste my time with trying to explain respect to someone who doesnt even respect a person/s at all!

as they say ignorance is bliss and it seems you are very blissfully unaware of what things are ruly like

however that is be expected from such a person as yourself/s

and I guess you ave one thing right for once in your life that yes I am not meant to be taken seriously so lighten the fuck up will yas the new year is around about and its a gorgeous time of year to going shopping/hunting for new things.

Grow up and realise just how lucky you are to be here at all heh? If you cant do that then there no hope for you or anyone

Laterz

yOU ANGRY COZ OF WHAT? SOMEONE setting up another to send pics to each other so they then could blame them for the sending of pics?

This is typical douchebag behaviour, yes?

oh dear. lol

I'm gonna have to agree with the majority here. 2 consenting adults decided to send each other racy pics. Fine. Shit happens. But when the guy is threatening you and acting like a complete asshole, why would you want to patch the relationship up or even care? He clearly only sees you as a sexual object. That shouldn't be ok with you. I'm glad you decided to cut him off. I hope you stick to your guns.

I must apologize for this as I have been completely wrong in my comments and not understanding enough of the situation.

If two people who are adults are consenting to have their pics sent to each other then this is ok. What is not ok is that the other may have been setting another to hurt them and blame them and this is not ok

Now in saying this it is not ok for them to go push for more pics and have them to turn around and threaten another, this is not ok at all and not only that its not appropriate behaviour by any means.

Its best to stop this behaviour by putting your foot down and say no more i shall be treated with dignity and respect from you all.

Its stupid behaviour and ought to be sorted fairly and squarely. Dont put up with it at all you deserve better than that.

ANYONE especially females who are stupid enough to send ANYONE half nude, nude, pictures of themselves TAKE THE RESPONSIBILTIY FOR THAT CHOICE.

THINK!!

These things happen and yes they will never be the same as for the trust has broken - though that may come in handy for the future- why I am not sure but I have a feeling that it will come in handy

Now by reading the post the person should not have threatened you or even joked at exposing you why this would be I would not know, maybe they were trying to somehow figure you out and by saying that wanted to get a reaction from you to make you jumped up and notice them so they could get one with what they were doing.

You would have felt that it was blackmail but for reasons why there is none and would not be any I reckon its more to get you to notice them in a very unkind way why I dont know but I just think thats how it is

I still would like to know what the fight was over?

Also because you didnt like the way they turned on you so quick this means trust is broken from your end towards them and that is fine with both Parties; the reason for this occurring is unclear at the moment but as with all things this too shall take a timely unified approach by both Parties to reach a bargin and slales price, netting off into the far distant horizon we all call Home.

Due for an apology when the Parties get to together and get along then there will be time for reconcilliation, I dont see this happening so for now its best to not trust at all in the person as it will help in the future that I am sure about.

Also the fecking picture what is that about saying to -PLEASE FUCK MY BREASTS?-

WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT? Groans and rolls eyes and slides away

Yeh I must apologize as I got it wrong I read the post/s understood them in a different way as to how they are perceived.

The only way I can make it up is to put my life in all my brothers' hands, this is what I will be doing as of now to make it up to them and make it up for them and for all that they have been put through via this episode I will say to them now that I will make it up to them and put my very life on the line to do this and will make sure that this will not go astray or awry at all.

It is up to me to put things right again and know that by putting my life on the line for my brothers' that this will make it up in more than one ways

So a good day to you, Sir, waves her hat in the breeze whilst giving a little bow, see you on the other side, gives a little nod and wink and a smooch as she hurries off on her way east of midland