Confused and need advice..

Ok i'm not normally the type to put my business out there but i really need some advice.

so there is this guy i like (who is a cancer) and we talk all the time via text email yahoo messenger. but we hardly talk at school. he's told me he likes me before but doesnt do anything about it. i know cancers are supossed to be sensitive but this is ridiculous..please tell me how to get him to do something??

Ladies...

Shouldnt this be put on the Cancer board since its clearly a question concerning cancers...

Not only that, you're giving Cancer men way too much undeserved credit. Way too much. Buck up girl, Cancer men are just big ol whores keeping that secret to themselves which on the outside looks like mystery when in reality they just have secrets that might tear down that "family guy" stigma. They are so full of shit it's spooky. There, that's the truth in a nutshell.

~GM

Im not a fan of the cancer-gemini match.

I had a few cancers in my lifetime lol and the last one stopped talking to me and ran away because I told him off about the way he was kissing me... well I didnt TELL HIM OFF but I told him I didnt like that and tried to show him how I liked it... (he was eating my mouth so much that his teeth were banging against mine!) EW! and pretty much licking me all over my face WTF!?!?! Anyway. Too sensitive also.

My best friend who is also a gem sun (merc & rising) has been with her crab for 2 years (no one though it would last) and he is SO fkn clingy and sensitive and controls her every move etc (but in a smart subtle way), he has a cry at the drop of a hat and pouts over things that dont go his way, he has weekly mood swings that last for a week full. He manipulates her and its so obvious but she doesnt see it or doesnt want to acknolwedge it, he talks to her like shit and she cant say shit about it otherwise he'll raise his voice and call her names etc. He can be very sweet etc BUT its all manipulation in my eyes.

She would be much happier without him im sure of it. He ties her down TOO much and I know she resents it but she doesnt say anything to avoid fighting (libra moon)

@Nats

Yeah, typical crab men. My business partner has been married to his Pisces for over 25 years, and he manipulates the hell out of her. She's a fish, so it sooo easy. While her dumb ass is thinking she runs shit with the emotional blackmail, he's banging everything out there. He's in Rio in my condo as we speak, just screwing away. Nasty bastard. But, hey he pays on time. *shrugs* I'm telling you, if you women choose to be with a Crab dude, get checked from AIDS to Z. Just sayin.

I'm shocked that a Gem girl would allow such obvious manipulation. I think the problem is that you chicas are too damn smart for your own fucking good. While you are thinking you need to figure a Crab out, you do it from a prison cell that you allowed him to create. Shame on you! How dare you call yourselves Gemini women!! You allowed a person that understands the simplicity of 'emotion' to control you.

Look at it like this:

We (Gemini) use our power of mentality to manipulate. What the fuck do you think a Cancer man would do?? Don't be stupid, it's annoying! Cancer men are slow unless they have a Gemini moon, petty, and whiny. Don't confuse familiarity with necessity. Wake the fuck up!!! You'll see, when you do, you gonna be piiiiiiiised!! LOL!

~GM

@GM: I liked your reference to "prison cell you allowed him to create" very true and i can see this with my gemini friend.

I just think she lets him put it over her because this is her first "serious" relationship and she loves him but also its her venus and mars in cancer that makes her CLING onto him because he gives her love etc so she puts up with all his bullshit.... sooner or later though she'll open her eyes and leave him.. I was in the same position with a pisces and gosh he emotionally blackmailed me and manipulated me using that but i soon enough opened my eyes and broke free.

BEST decision I ever made!

Posted by TG

Posted by GeminiMind
Not only that, you're giving Cancer men way too much undeserved credit. Way too much. Buck up girl, Cancer men are just big ol whores keeping that secret to themselves which on the outside looks like mystery when in reality they just have secrets that might tear down that "family guy" stigma. They are so full of shit it's spooky. There, that's the truth in a nutshell.

~GM

What a bunch of bullshit. Cancer men are the most sensetive and faithful of the bunch. Once the love someone, they??re not whores, that would be you geminis! 😛
Look at that Nigella Lawson lookalike.. what's his name, the one who married the darkhaired scorpio everyone says is so sexy..

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TG, aren't you tired of me whipping your unintelligent ass? No? Stick around then. Maybe that's why so many woman always get hit on by married men who are Cancers and Capricorns, right? How's your love life by the way? Don't answer, already peeped it. 😉 But, I promise you, if you stay we shall all be having goat for dinner. You've been warned. 🙂

~GM

@Nats

That's a typical story I hear from every woman that has dealt with them. I get along great with Cancer men. But, they have me in stitches talking about how stupid their women are. I don't say shit, I just pay attention. 😉 They got TG fooled to believe that lie. But not us, right Nats? HaHa!!

~GM

You try to hard love. Lighten the load sweets, and understand you just don't understand Gemini's even though we understand you better than you understand yourself. Don't hate, appreciate. 😛

lol thats right. People underestimate our intelligence because we dont boast like on the aqua forum (go have a peak if you havent been through there lately) and because a lot of times we sit back and observe rather than talk... and we dont speak of our observations straight away. We file them into files we've created in our minds to remind people in the near future of what was said and or done or just for our own reference.

They think we are stupid because were so laid back and chilled or so "go with the flow"... haha, they have NO idea.

Trust me baby, you're wrong. They are the absolute best at keeping a secret. Try this: Ask them if they ever cheated on the sigs. Look them in the eye and see if they look away and say "no". 😉 Wait, are you with a Cancer? See, ask a messenger if you want the truth. Cancer men are dogs babe. NEVER EVER MET ONE THAT WAS NOT. Don't let that clingy shit fool you. My Taurus father taught me that a man that is clingy is a man that has something to hide. Also, if you get the heart and the mind, the pussy will soon follow. He was right. It's all just an illusion baby, sorry. 😢

Posted by nats
lol thats right. People underestimate our intelligence because we dont boast like on the aqua forum (go have a peak if you havent been through there lately) and because a lot of times we sit back and observe rather than talk... and we dont speak of our observations straight away. We file them into files we've created in our minds to remind people in the near future of what was said and or done or just for our own reference.

They think we are stupid because were so laid back and chilled or so "go with the flow"... haha, they have NO idea.

TALK TO EM SISTAH!! THEY JUST DON'T KNOW!!! When we talk you should grab a Dictaphone, because when we decide to talk it's all FACTS!!

You know what's intersting, TG. You women underestimate us Gem men. I speak for myself and the few Gemini guys that I know when I say that if I was a woman the only true men out there are Gemini men. We are just real, and if you are true to yourself we'll be as true to you. But, you have to be flexi! Imagine a man that can transform into anything that you want him to be, with pleasure. Imagine a man that has the high ground and can see all of the shit before it hits YOUR fan. Imagine a man that is what he says, and says what he is. A MAN, for all intents and purposes baby is a Gemini man. Shhhhhh.....it's one of the biggest secrets in the zodiac. 😉 What looks like aloofness, is really harvesting. We always come home with what we harvest, and share it with our love. Poor you! 😢

The problem is that SOCIETY has you women sooooo fucked up, that you believe that there's a cut of meat that doesn't exist. Cancer and Cap men know this shit as well girl! Gemini men know it and try to tell you beautiful broads this. You'd think you'd listen by now! Oye Ve!!

~GM

Again? What does that mean? Don't be scurred.

Posted by TG
Well you see GM, I have this little problem. I'm a very very paranoid person. And that kinda hurts.
Don't you know the feeling? When you know that you??re being irrational, but you can't help it? Your posts about how cancers are unrealible doesn't help either, tbh. Nope, from now I just choose to belive the best about people.

Well honey, sorry about that. But, it's not in my nature to bullshit people. We Gemini's get a rap for bullshit, whereas it's just not true honey. But, I didn't know you were with a Cancer person. I'm confused though. Why don't you love yourself first?? Then you can have enough love of thyself to give love, right?? *winces* I mean, I got a feeling that you are starting to use muscles in your head that you don't normally use (no offense). Well, I did one those butt lunges the other day, and I was like: WHAT THE FUH WAS DAT!!!—!!! Then I realized that I don't use my hamstrings like I used to when I played sports everyday. What happened to them? Well, do you see where I'm going with this?

What the hell are you afraid of? Seriously? Pain? Rejection? Bewilderment? What? What you should be afraid of is how you will feel on your deathbed. As you lay dying will you have regrets? Will those regrets be about what YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID, YET DIDN'T? SHOULD HAVE DONE, BUT DIDN'T? etc. etc. Tick Tick Tick Tick Tick....

Believe what you want about people, dear. But know this: To thine own self be true. I got a feeling that if you bullshit yourself, you are also bullshitting an innocent person(s) in the process. Your choice. Can and will you live with that?

Now you really have something substantive to be paranoid about, sister. What will you do? Well, I love ya! Now love yourself, that's an order! 😄

Do with it what you will. Now, go outside and play!

*Spanking TG on the fanny as I show her the door* 😉

Hmph....I'll let you stew on that one dear.

Posted by GeminiMind
*Spanking TG on the fanny as I show her the door* 😉

ROFLLLL hahahaha ew!

Yeah that pairing doesn't excite me at all! My venus is in Cancer. I'm sooooooo mad about this. It kinda has me wide open with some guys if I'm not careful. But my mars in virgo is careful and critical at the same time. After they get kicked out, I take a long shower!lol