Let My Aries Man Go

Hello my fellow Gem's!
I had to let my aries man go 2 months ago.
He has some really bad issues with drugs &
he was dealing.He went to prison for a year.
I sent money & wrote to him and I was there
for him but my feelings changed about him.
he lied and betrayed me many times and when
I was about to move away,he wrecks my red
mustang while he's driving with both of us
in it.He couldn't even help me pay to fix
it,I had to pay for everything!
Now it's been two months and I haven't talked
to him this whole time,it just seems he's not
taking me serious,but I know I am so I guess
he will find out huh?
The sad thing is,he use to be wonderful yet
slowly his dark side was coming out,so that
not only was he on drugs but he has a really
bad controlling side,and a very mean & jealous
streak.Naturally I could not love that.
What's real sad is that I had alot of healing
to go through because of everything he put me
through and he expected me to forget and act
like things were just fine,and I could not do
that!

😢 that sounds like a bad situation. hope you're okay now. what do u mean by him not taking you seriously? do you mean he's still trying to contact you?

no it's that he's tried to have his family contact me and get my number
and I won't give it to them and I won't talk to anyone in his family
this time.They all knew what he was doing and not one of them said a
word yet none of them helped him even once when he was in prison.
He does this when he doesn't believe that we're really broken up!
We are,too bad if he can't accept the truth.
Thanks for reading my post strawberry,the emotional healing was so
hard and now I am realizing that this person I once trusted & loved
so much was really a total stranger.It's creepy because I knew him
since we were both kids!

what would a Gem want with a drug dealing, car wreaking, mean jailbird loser Aries when there are really nice ones out there—
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Yea really. Aside from the fact that he sounds like a real loser. Aries and Gemini tend to bicker over the stupidest things frequently and often. They're in my opinion, very compatible as friends, but not relationships. Too many clashes of will and desire.

Posted by ridiculousgemini
Yea really. Aside from the fact that he sounds like a real loser. Aries and Gemini tend to bicker over the stupidest things frequently and often. They're in my opinion, very compatible as friends, but not relationships. Too many clashes of will and desire.

You know you are soooo right! I love aries men and he's not stoping that but I let him go
and I just hope he gets his life straight or he's never going to be what he could be,and
he really could be so much more,but he's history,onwards lol... Looking forward to meeting
great aries men! I love the nice ones!!!

Posted by Geminithefox

Posted by ridiculousgemini
Yea really. Aside from the fact that he sounds like a real loser. Aries and Gemini tend to bicker over the stupidest things frequently and often. They're in my opinion, very compatible as friends, but not relationships. Too many clashes of will and desire.

You know you are soooo right! I love aries men and he's not stoping that but I let him go
and I just hope he gets his life straight or he's never going to be what he could be,and
he really could be so much more,but he's history,onwards lol... Looking forward to meeting
great aries men! I love the nice ones!!!

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I can only agree with this when you have an immature aries,with an aries whose
intelligent emotionally,you have a winning couple in every way! Getting to the
the good aries men is hard at times because many are sooo busy or taken or just
don't know your out there looking for them lol... they are best for Gemini woman
and I know for me they are personality wise & sexually.They turn my mind on more
than other men but Leo,Saggie & Gemini men do the same and virgo males do too
but virgo and I have issues with the romance thing ect... but they are hot though!

Im currently seeing an aries man, we've been 'talking' for about 2 months now and so far we are compatible. I was a bit turned off at first because he chased me so hard and would not take no for an answer but after persistance (which seems to work with me) his caught me and I decided to go on a few dates with him. I told him to slow down his pace and he has.

Were both impulsive (him more than me though), both freedom loving, both love adventure and so far we've been doing fun activities together, not a boring moment. We're both always on the go. He likes to communicate 24/7 as i do but he seems a bit obsessive...

We get along really well but his starting to get very touchy feely with me and im not digging it because im not at that level with him yet... and a downer is also that I can see the whole childishness about him and he is very ME ME ME oriented. As in VERRRYYYYYYY all about himself and speaks alot of himself etc and the other day I was telling him he was mr popular and loved the attention and he got all cocky and confident,its like it was a compliment when I said he loved the attention. lol but so far so good. I just hope his fire doesnt burn out. Im trying to pace him.

well.I wouldn't give in too much if he's playing some of the child like games
unless u wanna play back lol... but I wouldn't hurry things,just wait to see
if you can get to know each other and see what happens because it's hard to
know what kind of aries man your dealing with at first and sometimes much later
lol... but if it turns into something great then no rush,no rush

aries men seem like a lot to deal with from what you guys wrote :/ i hope it works out with you and your aries, nats 🙂

Posted by Strawberrie
aries men seem like a lot to deal with from what you guys wrote :/ i hope it works out with you and your aries, nats 🙂

thank you 😉

I just clicked on ur pro pic and saw that we both have merc, venus and mars in the same signs! 🙂 wooo go us lol

I also have gemini in 3 other planets too and n node

Aries men aren't the easiest men in the world but they are a challenge
and not too difficult if you really like him and he likes you,it's just
when they have another life and they don't want to get over it,they won't
and nothing stops them.I like that but only if it's used in a good way!