Do Geminis Chase?

So long story short I was sleeping with this gemini for 4 months. Strictly sexual relationship and the both of us were cool with this. We got along fine and had a good time when we saw each other which was kind of often, maybe 1-3 times per week but only to hook up. Yet even though we would have a great time when we saw each other, I started noticing about a month in he would start small arguments with me over text for no reason. For the most part I would ignore them or just stroke his ego or whatever it was I thought he needed, but this last argument was really mean. He got really defensive for no reason over something that he started and then just completely insulted me, the worst I have ever been insulted in my life (cracks about my weight, intelligence, self worth) everything under the sun he could think of to make me mad. I argued with him back and forth through text for a while, but I know even when he's wrong he still doesn't back down. So I texted him that I would see him when he was done with his tantrum, but I really had no intentions of contacting him or seeing him again because of how hurt I was by his words.

So this was two weeks ago, and since then every saturday and sunday he calls and texts me to come over and is acting like nothing happened. I have ignored every call and text so far but he's made about 4 attempts. Last night he even called me from his house phone after I didn't answer the call from his cell. I honestly do not want to see him again and I'm super pissed that he wont even apologize, he just wants to play like nothing happened. Even though I'm a Sag and I'm usually ok with doing this, he just went way too far for me and i dont think i can forgive him.

So I guess my question is will he just give up and stop calling/texting or will he eventually try to apologize?

Him: Gemini Sun/Venus, Taurus Moon, Sagittarius Mars
Me: Sag Sun/Venus, Taurus Moon, Aries Mars

He might have an issue with something between the 2 of you and doesn't know how to talk to you about it. Maybe he wants a relationship and feels rejected because you don't. It will be hard to get the truth out of him unless he really trusts you.

Well he's made it clear that I'm not really his "type" even though we get along amazingly well and have great sex so I guess it's possible but he's just ignoring those feelings. Our first fights started because for a couple of weeks I wasn't able to make time for him and he was getting frustrated. But he really makes no attempts to see me in a different setting and I don't want a relationship from him so I was comfortable with where we were.
I don't think he's comfortable talking about feelings at all so I doubt I'll get all this info out of him. I just wish if he was going to keep trying to contact me he would start with an apology.

he probably started getting emotionally involved, but doesn't know how to expressed, or is too scared to say what is on his heart.

i am a Gem female, and that's sort of a thing i would do if i cant express my true feelings, for whatever reason...i would just pick up random fights, and usually with people i care the most about- which is very wrong i know, but i just can't help it.

also, when i am angry, i tend to say things i really don't mean and never thought about (truth be told, i never insulted anyone like he did, but just so you know, he probably doesnt think the things he said).

we do chase, especially if we feel we might lose someone (and our interest also rises drastically when the other party shows lack of interest, especially if we have no explanation for it.)
as for the apology, he probably will never say it straight out, but will try to show you that he is sorry for what he did. 🙂

Posted by nngemini
he probably started getting emotionally involved, but doesn't know how to expressed, or is too scared to say what is on his heart.

i am a Gem female, and that's sort of a thing i would do if i cant express my true feelings, for whatever reason...i would just pick up random fights, and usually with people i care the most about- which is very wrong i know, but i just can't help it.

also, when i am angry, i tend to say things i really don't mean and never thought about (truth be told, i never insulted anyone like he did, but just so you know, he probably doesnt think the things he said).

we do chase, especially if we feel we might lose someone (and our interest also rises drastically when the other party shows lack of interest, especially if we have no explanation for it.)
as for the apology, he probably will never say it straight out, but will try to show you that he is sorry for what he did. 🙂

Wow, you hit the nail on the head. Summed up Gems perfectly.

yes, we do chase for a bit. If you want him to go away, just tell him.

We Gemini do chase, but after a while we get tired the chase becomes boring to us, and at that point we move on and forget about you. And once we are done with you that is it. and at TokerX yes if you upfront and tell a Gemini that your not interested in them, then yes it does work then we do move on. But don't think that after you tell us that, and you change your mind later your coming back into our life, Nope it doesn't work like that with us.